Vitamin M

 I was going home after teaching in school.I was crossing road,suddenly car stopped for me. I was very happy to see my old friend Mala.

My self and my friend Mala #decided to take coffee in near by coffee house.

We remembered old days when we were in our twenties.

I said "Mala I did not have any problems before marriage.My parents faced  lot of problems.But they didn't let any problems come to their children's notice.  I got whatever I wanted. So speaking truth I did not get any #opportunity to learn.Once I got married I felt life has so much to offer.  I should learn with #interest. My post married life started with below middle class life style. So immediately my brains got some #stimulation to get #activated. Some hope ,some struggle to achieve something #generated in me.I started thinking what is life if one has no problems? How one would #evolve? What is the use of living only with one #shade, one taste, one color ? Is there life in that?"

Based on experience of life after marriage I wrote small article entitled"middle Class" and pasted on notice board of my school.The same I am listing below for my esteem readers on my blog.

After Marriage with great #enthusiasm I took charge of my below middle class life.

I learnt many lessons

  I Ran..ran.. ran.. ran…. I had  hundred things to do and hundred hopes to fulfill and hundred goals to chase. I realized middle class(MC) people are not fearful or scared to be MC. They are only frustrated. MC people will not recognize any activity as success, as their main focus is to gain monetary success.Their own emotional, psychological, sentimental values  appear like hand cuffs to them.

I worked hard and harder---

God blessed me and luck favored me

Ah I stared categorizing my self as upper  middle class---

But what is this-----I am no more same person  I am scared, reserved, restless and frustrated  too to maintain same level, status forever.Fear of losing this achieved  upper middle class position is living with me.

 

In summary my experience of journey from middle class to upper middle class is following

In middle class(MC) people life ,suppose there are  ten steps to reach a peak of success . While climbing each step they feel so excited.Each step  taken by them is  criticized, dissected, discouraged  by their own people (out of fear and concern on them). They have to travel alone on their new path  if they want to reach the success of upper middle class.  Till they reach certain level, they won't find anyone in their eye reaching radius.

 Ah suddenly  when they(MC) reach tenth step climbing one by one--and taste success

 Then what is left after tasting success----

They(MC) have to struggle a lot to make their own people  believe really they have tasted success. They come down  from place of success  and  sit worrying and praying God  to protect them from losing their position(upper middle class). To maintain acquired upper middle class position, MC people have to compete with the strong world with their weak body and weak background. They(MC) can't afford to lose a single opportunity.They have to Conserve literally everything.  Books, clothes, things, water, power, food etc.even emotions and love. .Obvious thing MC people do realize one should not lack in vitamin ‘M' called money.

I struggled a lot to make people surrounding me believe that really I have  tasted success.When I wore my first jewellery no one believed it's gold and I bought it with my hard work. Just because I got down from city bus.

 

 Middle class(MC) people  must keep their ambitions, ideologies,in store room for some time.Sometimes they too need money to express their emotions like love.Love ,lover both sometimes have to wait for long time to get entry in upper middle class category.

Moral of Story- for middle class people,  life has its own charm. Full of hope and moral values-----

Sukarma Thareja

Alumnus IITK 1986

India

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Exploration Lunar

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 Chandrayaan-3; consists of Robert duo #lander Vikram and #rover Pragyan,
On August 23,2023 successfully landed on south pole surface #lunar,
This good news was shared with joy by world #space lovers,
Since then #Robert duo, have been #conducting experiment –series,
Actively exploring #south pole surface lunar.

With #Laser Induced Breakdown Spectroscope(LIBS),
And #Alpha Particle X-ray Spectrometer(APXS),
Found out element #Sulphur, Iron, Chromium,
Oxygen, Calcium along with silicon,
 Pragyan, on lunar south pole surface,
Of course!  also found Titanium,
 Used in building fighter planes,
Manganese, Sulphur are there; also Aluminium Mine ,
Underway is also search for #lightest element Hydrogen.

Big achievement wow Pragyan!
 Says science world in voice one,
With all these activities of Pragyan,
Is shivering unique #lunar surface,
Pleasant experiences Shares;
 Dear Robert lander Vikram , .
Chandrayaan- 3 mission great has positioned,
India; my dear mother land,
As a leading player in #exploration lunar,
Whole world praising ISRO- India,
For achievements of #Chandrayaan-3,Vikram - Pragyan.

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India.
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Woman Scientist life-spiced tea

 

Today’s women scientists,
 Work very hard toward their #passion for science,
They boil themselves like spices in tea,
When fresh researcher in lab science,
 They are like pure milk -fresh cool,
While working in lab science,
They get crushed like ginger in spiced science tea,
With their own power analytical,
 And scientific aptitude they add #flavours,
 Of sugar to science #spiced tea.

Today’s women scientist are not only home makers,
 But CEO of established lab #prestigious,
 They use spices like no fear for storms of technology-science,
 Understanding of every #utility app of science,
Writing #algorithm for #Artificial intelligence,
  In proportion appropriate,
 In making science spiced tea.

Women scientist noble #souls have big passion,
 To work for world level program science,
They do not mind If their spiced tea of science,
  Is in earthen pot or bone china,
 In US NASA, #Gaganyan or# Chandaryaan India.

Words three beautiful,
Try-true-trust,
Women #scientist always keep ready in their pocket,
And make spiced tea of science,
 With true #spirit of science,
And try for better future of #humanity,
 With #infinite trust in almighty,
In hearts of one and all,
They are remembered fondly,
For their significant role dual,
 Excellent/makers #spiced tea of science.



Sukarma Thareja
Alumnus IITK 1986
India
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When will chromosomes XX Will be Equal to YY

 

It is very difficult for Rani to forget formula which decides gender formation ie male/female in any species, ie #xx=xy (pair of chromosomes)which she was taught in tenth class by her biology teacher. Why this formula haunts Ms Rani till today is a #million dollar question. She cannot forget, how in pressure from her mother in law and husband she got her self aborted few times ,because she was carrying a baby girl. To some extent she was also party to that awful decision.

She understands what she did, was a sin—–and she was #morally incorrect. But why she took this decision –she has no concrete convincing answer to herself till today. The fact that she cannot share this black truth of her life with anyone in this world, even with her own dear and near ones is a big pain for her. Rani knows that valid questions like—Are you mad #Rani?—What is the point in getting so much education if you can’t face the world?-etc—etc will be raised if she shares this secret with any one, even if they are her own sisters. It is also a fact, that all said and done, she is not ready to become mother to her second #daughter at any cost. When she looks back her own journey—those sad dark patches of her life journey and unhappy experiences that make her #reinforce her decision, that what action she took was right though it is painful for her till today.

Rani works as a helper in canteen of famous women college in Delhi, and happens to get #platform of interaction with women coming from different walks of life. During many meaningful conversation ,they convey her that time has come that Indians will study necessary and sufficient conditions of this genetic formula, xx=xy. and very soon will implement those conditions in Indian society, in such a way that each citizen of’ India today ‘will feel pride , comfortable and will get equal right and opportunity. They try to convince Rani that very soon in India the formula xx<xy will become xx=xy.

For Rani it is , nothing but a #dirty joke. She knows that for states of her country like Haryana and Punjab formula xx<xy is still valid today. It is also a known fact that god made this genetic formula xx=xy , but for our convenience we converted this formula to xx<xy. Rani some time in her ideal time ask these questions to herself–Who are we to change this formula—just for our own #convenience—,how long all this will go on in our society.

Enough is enough, but Rani is still waiting after 74 years of independence, that when we Indians ,who boast of our cultural, spiritual and science- technical know how heritage, will come out from these #conservative believes and assure ‘Aam nari’(ordinay Indian woman) like Rani that TV serials like ‘satyamev jayte’ will not get buried in history of India . When will ’ Aam nari’ (ordinay Indian woman) get justice from her own society ,and will feel proud in giving birth to #female child ?

How this will be possible? Rani always ask these questions to her self. yes !it is possible Rani, ‘didi ji’ in my college tells me, if we all sincerely , salute to blessings of #mother hood and count our blessings and recognize the talent, beauty and importance of little bundle of joys and change our #mental set up.

Rani is hopeful and still waiting for that new auspicious morning—

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Sukarma Rani Thareja
Alumnus IIT-K(1986)
Associate Professor
Department of Chemistry
CSJM Kanpur University
Kanpur-208001 , UP, India.

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How much is index of Luxury of life.

 I am school teacher.I love my job.I am dealing little kids and I can mold them as I want. I am so happy during my teaching time  I have #inculcated so many good #values in my students.Some of my students are doing so well in life.I am so so happy for them.

Many of my students when visit me,often ask me question madam how cum you remain happy as school #teachers are not paid well. 

My short answer to them is friends #happiness comes from inside not from outside.

During my #co curricula activity class once I talked to students about topic #'happiness"

My submissions which I wish to share with my esteem readers were following

Happiness in life lead to success on other hand success in life may not lead to happiness.

For #materialistic gains ,or sometimes for #fame gain, one does do over work.Some times ones health is also at stake.But one never evaluates one self.One keeps working and  some time during exercise forget to give any priority to ones family.In the end one gets financial gains but looses track of ones family and feel very lonely.In other words in this exercise of materialistic gain one looses ones peace of mind.One always has feelings as if something is lost in life.

People who always make work life balance in life are always at peace with them selves.

The best example is our mothers.They are busy all day. Even on Saturday or Sunday, kitchen work for mothers seem unending.

Mother is on her toes since morning. Towards the evening when mom is tired ,unable to bear it, she steps out of the home leaving her helper to look after kitchen.

She walks across the street to temple nearby  to distribute food to orphan children. That relieves her tiredness and gets her peace of mind. The energy one give the world is the energy one receive.

This is a typical case of looking inside ourselves for something that we have with us.

My mother has been telling me "my child! many of us travel across the lengths and breadths of the earth and also visit various shrines and holy places to find peace.Eventually, we come to realize that peace is within us at all times in our #own heart & mind.Peace of mind comes from being content with ourselves & being grateful for what we have with us."

There is a peaceful way of going through life, but all depends on our #willingness to change our attitude towards everything in life.

The older we get, the more we realize... the ultimate #luxury of life is #"Peace of Mind". So friends!never leave ones peace of mind ,whatever may be ones circumstances.

Moral of story-if one keeps tension and sadness in ones heart one can never be happy.If one has roses of sweet memories of time spent doing  assigned duties honestly one is always happy.

Am I Getting Old?

My grand children often tell me" granny you are getting old".I am listing below  conversation between me and my grand child for reference of my esteem readers.

 Grandchild- you are no longer our old time dear granny, you have  become different,you have  distant yourself from  many previous activities, you used to carry out regularly, sad, and lonely.

Granny-

No my child I am not getting old, but  I am getting wise.

I have stopped being what others like me to become, but what I like I do.

I stopped seeking the acceptance of others and have accepted myself.

I have left behind the lying mirrors that deceive me mercilessly.

- No, I'm not getting old.

Grand child-granny you have  just become more selective with places, people, customs, and ideologies.

Most of time you let go of attachments, unnecessary pain giving activities, toxic people, sick souls, and rotten hearts... bitterness and unhappiness ,

 You have understood it is better to release them.

That itself has given you better health.

Yes I agree with you granny you are not getting old.

Granny-my child I'm not going to night parties now a days, so that the same time I could spend in learning new things and heal my insomnia.

I have stopped living old  stories and started writing new stories, I have thrown aside all stereotypes things in my life.

I no longer use any cosmetics now. I carry a book in my bag that beautifies my mind.

Yes my child I'm not getting old.

Grand child-you try best to carry freshness in your soul, and remain innocent in your heart.  I observe  everyday you discover your self.

You have become nature lover and always keep charming smile on you face

You love to hear the chirping of the birds that delight you and accompany you in your  morning and evening walk.

 Yes my dear granny I agree you are  not getting old.

Granny-I have  become selective in spending my time,I  rewrite story in form of blog , which  I've experienced in my science research lab, told by my friends,aunts and teachers and researchers.In a way I am rediscovering world. I am reading old books I've forgotten  or have read only half .

I'm becoming more cautious. I've stopped visiting outbursts that teach me nothing,  I'm learning to cultivate knowledge, plant ideals, and believing in my destiny.

Moral of story- how much science technology advance,internet come and go.Through her disciplined way of   living  Granny teach grandchildren value system unique which is rare to find in world.

Sukarma Thareja

Alumnus IITK

India

Spirit of Academic Achievement

 

It's a real story of my student Sushma. Her real name is changed.

I had a brilliant girl student Sushma , in my BTtech class.  At  B. Tech level most of students do not know what exactly meant by research. But, Sushma was very much interested in research and higher studies. Students of my B.Tech class was serious towards  GATE exam .Thereforw from 3rd year itself B.Tech students start appearing for same. Even though many of them couldn't achieve enough good rank in 3rd year, but in 4th year many did very well.My student Sushma also did very well and got AIR -214 in Gate examination/

We teachers were very happy  for Sushma.She got Master’s admission from 4 old IIT's with top stream. She was also very happy with her results.  Her parents had different plans for her.Parents were not much interested in making Sushma go for higher studies. To make her parents wishes true, Sushma forcefully joined in a Local engineering college. Though her heart wanted to study from a prestigious college. Still, Sushma kept spirit of academics achievements and  did brilliantly in Master's program and published 2 very good research papers in her M. Tech in very good journals with high impact factors. Sushma did not give up and applied for PhD admission in IITs.  She got interview calls  from three  IITs.

 She got admission letter from few IIT's for her PhD. But her parents were determined not to let Sushma join Ph.D Program.

Her parents convinced Sushma to get married even though she was very much interested in higher studies. Many Indian parents still think that for girls going for higher studies is waste of time and energy. This is one of the greatest tradition followed by many Indian parents.

Though for girls  many things are changing in India.But it will take many many years in India when girl child will be able to take full control of her life.

Moral of Story.It is always better to take charge of ones life by one self.One knows better than others what one is interested in.

Sukarma Thareja

Alumnus IITK 1986

India