Not fighting is best policy

 

Other day I was going back home after teaching in my school.I had a pleasant surprise.I met my school friend Sarla at metro station.Sarla is high court judge. 

I asked Sarla how was journey of your life?.What disciplines and value system you practiced in your life to become such an icon figure of our society.We had big discussion. She talked in details about little steps she took in her life to focus on her career path.

Taking inspiration from my dear friend Sarla,I wrote A small article for my students and pasted on notice board of my school for benefit of my worthy students.

Is it worthy to Fight?

My friend Sarla happened to get married in joint family who were against her wishes, for further higher studies.

Sarla continued her studies and stopped fighting for her rights with  many inconsiderate people..

She stopped fighting to please everyone...in family and persons at her professional front.

She stopped fighting who gossiped about her,

She did not fight 1.to get attention from surrounding crowd 2.to prove they(in laws family) were wrong about her....

She left such fights for those who have nothing else to fight...

And She started fighting for

her vision,

her dreams,

her ideas and

her destiny.

The day she gave up on small fights is the day she started becoming successful & so much more content.

My friend Sarla is now judge in high court.

Moral of Story.All fights are not worth ones time..... Choose what one can fight for wisely.

This wise practice followed by my friend Sarla can save ones time and energy,the saved time and energy can be fruitfully used in 

improving ones new ideas and vision in moving forward in ones carrier path.

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Sukarma Thareja

Alumnus IITK 1986

India

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Woman is beautiful in every circumstances

 I had a friend Gita in my school.I joined B.Sc(Hons)Chemistry in college.While my friend Gita joined B.Sc(Nursing) in nursing college.

The other day Gita was in my dreams.I asked Gita you have been in such a beautiful profession.Please answer my one unique question.

        When is girl or a woman  most beautiful?Gita asked me why am

I asking such a question to her.

I told Gita the same question was asked by my girl student when I

was teaching in girls college .Gita gave me several good points about same.

I said dear Gita, woman is such a beautiful creation of God ,according to me a woman will be most beautiful in every circumstances.

After discussing the same with my dear mother,I wrote a small poem in form of dialogue, to paste on my school notice board to educate young minds. The same I am listing below for my respected readers.

When is Woman Beautiful.

 Me- In her teens and early twenties.

 When she falls in love and is loved back equally.

Mother- On the day of her wedding.

 On the birth of her child/children.

Me- When she juggles with work at home and office.

 Tired after a full day’s work, when she enters the kitchen to cook for her family.

Mother- When the first strands of grey hair mark her temples.

 When she waits for her kids to call her while they are away.

Me- When she gets her kids married.

 When she becomes a granny.

Mother- After all this time when she still wakes up early to prepare that special tea for her husband.

 When all her hairs go white and she becomes toothless.

Me- Finally, when she rests in peace

Mother-Ones beauty doesn't exist on its own but is created and appreciated by observers.

Me-Woman's internal beauty always adds to her so called external beauty.

 

 Moral of Story-Every girl/woman is internally-externally beautiful, in every way and at all times. One should only have the right eyes to see that. Beauty lies in beholders eyes.Beauty doesn't exist on its own but is created by observers.

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Sukarma Thareja

Alumnus IITK 1986

India

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