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True Men Touch Souls, Not Just Bodies

Mother: Daughter there’s a difference between a man

who wants you…

And a man who understands you.

Daughter: Mother anyone can say beautiful words.

Anyone can give gifts.

Anyone can chase woman for a night.

Mother :But a true man?

He sits with your silence,

And doesn’t rush to fill it.

Daughter:He remembers the thing you ,

Mentioned once, three months ago,

He notices when your smile is lying/real ,

He makes you feel safe enough to be soft.

Mother:That’s when he touches your soul.

Daughter : Mother See, the body is material

But the soul?

Mother :Daughter the soul only opens ,

To someone who’s patient, honest, and kind.

Daughter: Mother A man who touches the heart

First will always be remembered,

A man who only touches the body,

will always be forgotten.

Mother:Daughter true men don’t demand ,

They earn respect and trust ,

They don’t take ,

They protect,

They don’t break woman

They build her.

Daughter : Mother when a woman feels,

That her soul is respected,

She gives her heart without fear.

Mother: Daughter!That’s not weakness.

That’s trust.

So yes. Men who are able to touch,

The soul and heart of a woman,

are true ,

The rest are just passing by men .

Do you agree to same thoughts?

Please share the comments if possible.

Sukarma Thareja

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Emotion Love

I was talking to my students about special bonds in any relationship.

The question is when special bonds are formed between two hearts.

I said, " Special bonds are formed between two #hearts. When two people help each other out of #respect and feel a deep #connection. This feeling/emotion is named Love."

Rajan said, " Special bond of Love means working through #problems together, chasing dreams side by side by being honest and trusting each other."

Radha asked," Madam, why is love not a feeling?"

I said, " Love is not a feeling (though we certainly do feel love), it's an intimate emotional bond that strengthens over time through a series of supportive actions. Friends, please take actions that build love and that strengthen love in life. And over time, the intimate emotional #bond that is love will be formed."

Mohan asked, "Madam, is love a positive or negative emotion?"

I said, "Dear students, love can vary in #intensity and can change over time. It is associated with a range of positive emotions, including happiness, excitement, and life satisfaction, but sometimes it can also result in very powerful negative emotions such as jealousy and stress."

Ram asked, "What kind of emotion is love?"

I further said, "Love is a set of emotions and behaviors. Elements present in this set are intimacy, passion, and commitment. Love involves care, closeness, protectiveness, attraction, affection, and trust."

Inder said, " Many people think love is not an emotion in the way we typically understand it, but an essential physiological drive."

Mohan said, " Madam, is it normal to be #jealous when in love?"

I said, "It is normal to feel jealous when in love. The question is what you do with this jealous feeling. Please accept jealousy as part of your everyday emotional #spectrum. Please do not make it hyper, and the best is to ignore it."

Hormones like oxytocin, often called the "love hormone," play a crucial role in forming bonds of love.

Moral-Honest help, respect and trust for each other are three main #pillars of 'emotional' love.

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Crochet Classes

I am a science teacher in a government school. I am very lucky to have Mrs Mathur, my immediate neighbour. Mrs Mathur is a very good, mature, old, wise lady. She is a single mother of five grown-up kids.

She raised five kids single-handedly, and her kids were her whole #world.

She was working as a teacher in school before marriage.

She always thought that her kids were above her # career and social life. Ultimately, her whole life moved in circles of #motherhood duties. Now her #kids have grown up and are doing very well in their respective #professions. They do visit her whenever they get time. She also visits them whenever she gets #opportunity to do so.

She tells me, "Madam, now my kids are out of the house and I am alone. I am #struggling to find out who I am?"

I suggested that Mrs Mathur conduct Crochet classes for the community of our building. I said," This art has many dimensions. It is a creative art. It does not require much money either. This art helps old people in activating acupressure points of the body."

Mrs Mathur liked my suggestion. Now she conducts crochet classes in the community hall of our building. She charges a little fee to conduct the same. Community ladies very fondly learn this old #craft. These classes are giving Mathur aunt #fame and some # financial help. It is a win win situation. Mathur aunty and her children are happy. I am also happy. Senior community ladies are happy. Everyone involved in this activity is getting a feeling of #satisfaction.

With the efforts of Mrs Mathur, the crochet community has increased. It has become vast and supportive, offering opportunities to connect with others who share their passion for crochet and learn from the experiences of others who know the craft. Young girls of our building are learning some tricks of Mathematics in topics like permutations combination through crochet classes.

Studies have shown that crocheting can be a form of therapy, helping with mental health conditions and life events such as grief or chronic illness.

Moral-involving community in positive activity is a satisfying experience.

Prerequiste of Successful Relationship

A successful relations are established not by trying to impress someone.They are established about making other person feel respected, heard and comfortable.Giving due space to other person is also a good move toward establishing successful relationship.

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Science Behind Names of kids

I am a Grade One teacher, and I say " parents who give their kids an odd name or one that is difficult to spell put their kids at a disadvantage when it comes to learning how to write. "

I remember I had a smart student, Arunabh, in my class. His name was difficult to spell, and it took him longer to learn how to spell it. Arunabh's parents were of the view that the name should have a good meaning, so whenever you call a child by his name, it should give a good impression on the child's personality.

While there were students in my class who had more common names with easier spelling achieved the task of writing their name quickly and had a sense of achievement for the same. Those kids who worked hard to learn how to write their name often exhibited a lower sense of self-esteem as they watched other students able to spell simple names like Rani and Raja quickly.

Sometimes, when I hear an oddly spelled name, I wonder if their parents have a clue what difficulties they're putting on their child. I say, "The idea of names is acting like a 'first handshake' for the ears, and it gives such a powerful image.

I love the connection to sound symbolism and how our brains associate names with traits." I further say, "

When you shout out x name, that name carry culture, history, and emotion and deserves to be treated with that weight.

A name like Rani, which means queen. The name Raja means king. Similarly name Medha means intelligence. All three names mentioned above carry culture and history, and emotions."

I strongly believe that it is such fun to pronounce the names of students and know their associated meaning. Many parents don’t realize there is science behind what makes names sound pleasing. Some of these names do have a nice ring to the ears. Like the female name Rimjhim rings so well in ears— gets me thinking about what makes a name memorable.

Some teachers believe that taking students' attendance with roll number saves much of their time. But I beg to differ from their opinion. Taking attendance of students by calling students' names has a positive impact on students' personalities.

I request my esteemed readers, "When you assign a name to a child, kindly take care of the following aspect in mind."

1. A child's name should ring pleasant in the ears

2. The child's name should not be difficult to pronounce and write.

3. If possible child's name should have good cultural and historical references.

The best example of the three aspects mentioned above is the name Ram. So simple to speak and write. It has a cultural historical reference. It sounds sweet to the ears. Short names with good meaning and a pleasant, sweet sound have a positive impact on a child's personality.

Sukarma Thareja

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It helps in overthinking

Keep thinking, and doing nothing throws in the darkness of our own mind.

Writing down things helps dealing with overthinking, and ending up on a conclusion turns it into deep thinking with practical outcomes.

Writing down things do play a vital role in transferring knowledge and wisdom to the next generations. (Just think for a moment, what if our ancestors didn't have crafted things and texts on stones and leather? What if they never had the scriptures?)

The bonus point is, it is the only wealth that increases on sharing. You invest by share something and get more and more in return.

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Wise Daughter

Mr and Mrs Gupta are my next door neighbours. They have one daughter Radha. Radha was my brilliant student in my school.

Since childhood, Radha daughter of Mr and Mrs Gupta had one peculiar habit —

About 4–5 days before her birthday, she would start asking,

“Papa and mom, did you buy the gift for my birthday?"

Mr and Mrs Gupta would smile and shake their head, saying no.

Radha would yell in anger.

But on her birthday, when she would get a surprise gift, from her parents her happiness would knew no bounds!

This time, Radha was at her in-laws’ home.

Still, Mr and Mrs Gupta bought a gift and went to her in -laws house, intending to surprise Radha on her birthday.

Quietly, they entered the house .Up to their surprise from inside, they could hear Radha crying, and her husband and mother-in-law arguing loudly.

Mrs Gupta said " Madam my heart sank. Heavy-hearted, we turned around and walked away. Standing on the main road outside, we called Radha through mobile phone and expressed our wish to visit her."

She replied,

“Papa, mom please donot come today . We’re going out for dinner —my parent in laws and my husband are celebrating my birth day .We all are going for dinner outside. After all it’s my birthday today."

I said "Madam Gupta, your daughter Radha , who once seemed so delicate yet stubborn, how much she has changed with time…"

I further said "Mrs Gupta please do not worry about Radha.With time things will improve.These small happenings here and there are little human errors in woman's life which make her strong perfect daughter and daughter in law.You should feel proud of Radha."

Mrs Gupta did not utter a single word but tears rolled down her cheeks.Are you also wise daughter?

Moral - Human emotions change with respect to time.

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