Success Has no Short Cut

When I was in primary school I used to think #grades I got in final examination will decide my entire life. Then I realized life is so much more.

In #secondary school I started believing talent is all a matter of life. I also realized personality traits are also equally important.

While growing in #college life, I started believing that #looks matter and good dressing sense gives one lot of confidence. Next day I began to care for my dressing sense and how I look.

One of my college friends told me #money doesn't matter in life. Next day my other friend taught me about #finances. I came to know soon no body has all answers to my questions.

With time I experienced ups and downs of my life and found #success is not short cut which I believed for many years in my life.

I often used to spend good amount of time with my friends and family but never gave serious thought to it. Now with time I realized I should have given more time to my #relatives and dear friends.

Many times in life I thought that adults were great at everything; and suddenly I became an adult myself, and found even adults donot know many things.

With time I got setbacks and advers experiences in life.I was cofused and shattered. Many good friends and my family taught me how to bounce back by fighting with misfortune. I developed capacity to cope with difficult stressful situations.

With all this mathematics about at different stages of my life, I found often the result of consistent hard work, dedication, and a willingness to learn give one success.

Other day my student Ram said" Madam sometimes shortcuts do offer temporary gains"

I said "Dear student but they rarely provide the foundation for long-term achievement and fulfillment.Therefore I am of view best is to avoid short cuts and build resilience in life.

Moral-Resilience is not about avoiding difficult experienced, but rather about developing the capacity to cope with them and learn from them.

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Sukarma Thareja
I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home
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📚 My Books:
🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna
https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj

🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060

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🙏 Thank you for reading!

Enhancing Life

I am science teacher in government school. I am incharge of co curricular activities of my school.

One of my student subodh asked me " Madam how to lead a #peaceful life."

I said "dear Subodh to lead peaceful life best is to live in #present. please do not concentrate much on #past and #future. Living in the present is the key to live a peacefull life. "

I further said "When you are leading life, you are experiencing two type of emotions good and bad. Common myth Is if you are enjoying your good emotions that means you are #enhancing your life. Work you do with those emotions sound #productive. But According to me in reality it is more risky .You will soon realize following #passion or interest in life is risky. You're not enhancing your life. So called #bad emotions if you work with them, they teach you hardest #lesson of life and you become wiser and enhance your life.

I concluded

There are several steps you can take to better yourself every day.

1. Set goals which are with in your reach and work towards them consistently.

2. Self-care is must and make time for activities that bring you joy and relaxation.

3. Make good habit to practice gratitude and focus on the positive aspects of your life.

4. Another point which is to be taken care is that in difficult circumstances please do not loose heart. Find out best possible solution for same.That will make you stronger and will enhance your life.

Moral : Don't be afraid to live your life by being yourself. You can break through problems of your mind by your life style and live #peaceful life.

Setting achievable goal in life is good practice to work on.Work towards your goal with hard work and dedication . In difficult circumstances find out best possible solution.Three points mentioned above help in enhancing life.

Does Small Things Annoy you

I am science teacher in government school.

Once I was traveling in night by #aeroplane. Suddenly small child sitting near my seat started #crying. People sitting around child seat were #annoyed . I noticed I was the only one who was not annoyed. I have made it my #habbit not to get annoyed with small happenings in my surroundings.

It is my experience that it is no good to get #annoyed about #small happenings in life. Once you do not let #little things annoy you, your life will be comfortable and #big happenings will rarely annoy you.

Sukarma Thareja

With one Arrow kill Three Birds

With One arrow Kill Three Birds

Respect is a two way process. You give respect, you get respect. Man being head of the family should take care that he is giving respect to each member of the family and sets examples for a young mind.

Wise man start this positive chain in #marriage. He loves and respects his wife. He respects his wife's feelings and makes her feel cared for.

To his co -operative attitude he gets,#respect from each member of the family. Therefore lives a peaceful happy life.

As a bonus, he can give two sweet fruit gifts to his family which he does realize in his old age.

Children of the house love their mother. They are continuously observing how their father is treating their mother.

1. Indirectly father's behaviour is teaching his son how to treat his wife.

2. Indirectly he is teaching his daughter also what she should expect from her man(son-in-law).

Moral - Well-behaved persons are #assest to family. Their exemplary behavior is # a treasure to the family.

While treating any person in the family please be careful in your words as indirectly with your behavior you are #influencing young #minds of the family.

People Pleasing

I am a science teacher in a government school. I am in charge of the co-curricular activities of my school.

Another day Rakesh student in class 11th of my school asked"Madam is people-pleasing a weakness or strength of a character? Madam, I do understand that people pleasing persons in all circumstances try to please x person, they try to #control what someone else thinks of him/her".

I said "Rakesh generally people pleasing activities are not thought to be a good thing. The logic behind this thought is people pleasers tend to neglect their own needs to please others. They eventually become a #doormat that others walk on. "

I further said"People-pleasing activities may initially bring positive praise and acceptance, but over time it can have negative effects on individuals and their #relationships. Persons who rely on the “people pleaser” will also become #dependent on them. In the process, dependent persons also lose their identity. Their relationship no longer remains happy and strong."

Rakesh said"Madam It stems from a desire to be liked, avoid #conflict, and gain approval, but can lead to negative sometimes. But it is a strength when it comes from a genuine place and cause of wanting to #help others."

I said " May be true. But according to me saying "no" is key to getting out of the cycle of unhealthy people pleasing."

It stems from a desire to be liked, avoid conflict, and gain approval, but can lead to negative consequences like burnout, #resentment, and a loss of self-identity.

Moral- people-pleasing activities have no limits and boundaries. Therefore people pleaser persons become #confused and lose their identity in due

People-pleasing is a shortcut to getting things done in life in a short time. Pleasing activities have negative consequences like burnout, resentment, and a loss of self-identity and individuality.

Sukarma Thareja
I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/hom
📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

📚 My Books:
🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna
https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj

🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060

💡 Note: If blog doesn't open, use VPN or add ?ncr=1
🙏 Thank you for reading!

Poem Way to live happy

Please sit erect,

With no stress on the spine,

And hold the body weight on your shoulders ,

For as long as you can ,

Has power immense .

And if you are able to fix your gaze,

Between the eyebrows ,

While feeling at least one inner point,

Such as the heart or navel centre ,

During your daily practice,

It begins to change the biochemistry,

Of the body and even the brain cells ,

And their structure,

It's a discipline wonderful ,

That can help quicken our evolution journey.

Friends but the first few minutes,

Can appear tough ,

Because all the active thoughts,

The suppressed, Or dormant ones,

Rise in waves.

As you practice,

You gradually learn,

How to direct your life ,

Energy within,

Creating a rhythm unknown,

Of life,

When we live in this world ,

of projections and dreams

This is way of Meditation

Dear child.

Child Inside is your Treasure

I am a science teacher in a government school. I remember my grandmother used to tell me "My child you will always find a child inside you throughout your life. Please never let this child in you go away."

At a young age, I never understood my grandma's statement. Now I understand her statement and remember her so much in my life. I always tell my students "Everyone starts as simple #innocent child. You are again a child in old age. As you are dependent in some form or other for your day-to-day activities. "

Rakesh my student said, "How does one manage life between initial childhood and childhood nearing the end of life"?

I say "Dear students in between these above-mentioned stages you hide your childness. You become a responsible person for your created family. You have to let go of many negative #emotions to run your family. And as you remain busy doing a good job at work front."

I further said " Dear students you have to sacrifice many things to let your life be meaningful and wonderful. This time is really #stressful. With your hardworking dedication and positive attitude you can make it meaningful."

I further added"Dear student most important in life is to let child #inside you come out to play now and then. This inside child in you when play outside, # energises your life. Makes you creative in life.Thibringsng #priceless joy to life."

Rakesh said, " Madam how to make child inside active." I said " There are many small activities you can perform to let the child inside you come out. I am listing small activities examples to help you understand the same."

1. Dancing while doing chores.

2. Singing in the shower.

3. Adding a touch of creativity to your work like storytelling to kids or family.

4. Creative writing also helps the child inside you come and enjoy.

These small acts can make a significant difference in reconnecting you with your inner child. My students were happy to learn this small helpful knowledge. I found many students who were preparing for the JEE examination started doing creative writing.

Students said, " Thanks madam for helping us to come out of stress by making children inside us active."

Students in my class had enough energy to fight stress. I as a teacher was happy to see my students with enough energy to fight stress of a competitive national exam. Even I found the little child inside me was happy.

In digital language we can say "The child inside is a unique APP inside you that helps you come outside of stress and difficult situations in life."

Your inner child addresses patterns of behavior and emotional responses that stem from your childhood

Moral -Always keep the child inside you remain active and safe. Understanding and connecting with your inner child can help you understand yourself better. https://www.sciencerhymes.com.au/blog Sukarma Thareja

I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos

📸📖 🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home 📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

📚 My Books: 🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj 🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060 💡 Note: If blog doesn't open, use VPN or add ?ncr=1 🙏 Thank you for reading! Sukarma Thareja at Thursday, August 13, 2026

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