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Two individuals

We are two people in one home,

I love reading science-philosophy,

Research papers.

He loves to watch good,

Science serials on TV,

I love to take coffee, he loves tea,

I like to travel by aeroplane,

He loves every mode of transport,

I wish to walk in just light rain,

He is an early riser and likes sunshine,

Surprisingly, to some it may seem that,

We two disagree on so many issues,

But we both respect each other's choice,

Therefore, no question of disagreements,

We have learnt the art of agreeing in disagreements,

Therefore, we both fondly love each other,

We often talk and remember each other's

Best doing and best actions at the time of need.

We can not live without each other.

Dear friends, please,

Respect each other's point of view,

At the same time, you have the right,

To keep your own point of view,

For a particular issue.

This philosophy

Resolve many issues,

In day-to-day life.

Sukarma Thareja

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Cooking A Hobby or Necessity

I am a science teacher in a government school. When some relatives visit our house, I request dear Manna, a #cook in my society, to help me out in #cooking. Manna is a humble lady and does her cooking activity in society with a lot of honesty. Therefore, Manna is a popular cook in our residential society.

Manna says," Madam, I cook breakfast, lunch and dinner for so many families in your society. It takes me one hour to one and a half hours to do the needful. Madam, for my own family, I cook three times a day. At home, I do get help from my mother-in-law.#Cooking is not my #hobby. I earn #money through this activity."

I said, "Manna, what is your hobby, dear?"

Manna said, "I am not a privileged lady like other women in society who have no time to cook. #Cooking food is for sure not my #hobby, madam. Answering your question, I do sing some #Gujrati folk songs; this singing gives me a lot of joy and #energy. You can say #singing folk songs is my hobby."

The other day I met my friend Sunita at a party. Sunita is posted at the other end of #globe. She is working as a model and is working in an IT company. I asked, "Dear Sunita, what do you do in your free time?".Sunita said, "#Cooking is my favorite hobby."

After hearing Manna and Sunita, I realized the Weight of being privileged. Lack of privilege makes cooking a #necessity and survival need for Manna. For #non-privileged, Manna cooking for several houses at different times is her #need. She has to do it to let her both hands meet. Manna has #no weak end leaves. It is not certain when she will #retire from her cooking duties.

For #privileged Sunita, doing any work is not her need. Sunita has chosen to work for an IT company to spend time usefully and keep herself #entertained. Cooking for Sunita is #fun activity.

From the example of cooking activity discussed above, it follows that for # non-privileged, cooking is #necessity, while for #privileged, the same activity-#cooking is not a necessary activity. It is a fun activity.

After hearing both versions, I realized the weight of privilege.

The lack of privilege makes cooking a necessity and a survival need for one woman, while the presence of privilege makes cooking a hobby or a fun activity for another woman.

Sukarma Thareja

Cook personality

Indirect implication of Cook's Personality Trait

Indian woman who #cooks for family,

Sometimes suffer from an #inferiority complex,

That she is not a# working woman of the house,

She is just a #home maker.

She forgets that her cooking style and cooked dishes,

Built a history of #culture in her family,

When guests happen to eat her #cooked dishes.

Where she is #coming from,

Who is she, how much #caring she is,

What rules does she keep as a priority while cooking

What makes her #happy,

Many questions listed above are indirectly,

Answered about her #talent and #sweet nature,

It's an honor for a home homemaker,

No question of an inferiority complex.

Sukarma Thareja

Thoughts and Feelings

I am a science teacher in a government school. I am in charge of the co-curricular activities of the school.

One student asked me, "Madam, you are always teaching us to keep #good thoughts in our mind and remain away from #negative thoughts. We agree to your suggestion, Madam. I will be grateful if you could please enlighten me a little bit more about the same."

My student Rajesh said, "Negative thoughts cause negative feelings, which lead to negative behaviors, which then reinforce the original negative thoughts. "

I said, "Thoughts are your internal dialogue, ideas, beliefs, and the stories you tell yourself about a situation. They are often conceptual. Feelings are your emotional and physical reactions. They can be expressed as joy, sadness, or fear that arise in response to thoughts or external stimuli."

My friend Usha said, "Dear student, if you feel like a failure, it is a thought, while the actual feeling might be sadness or fear, so friends a thought is a story which you've constructed around that feeling."

I said, "Dear student, yes, I strongly believe that if one thinks that one will be #beaten in x competition, one will. Similarly, if one thinks that one will lose, then surely one will #lose. Therefore, I request you my students to #think high to raise oneself. One should form the habit of being sure in thoughts before one wishes to go high in performance. "

I further said," Every student has to fight his/her own battle to achieve their goal in life; therefore, friends please remember that it is not #necessary one will win the battle if one is #strongest of all. A prerequisite of the same is to win the battle of life always #THINK I CAN." One's thinking affects one's #feelings. When one's thoughts and feelings are in #equilibrium, one acts in life. Simplest logical mathematical #fundamental equation of life THINK I CAN."

My friend Usha said, " Thoughts influence feelings, and feelings influence thoughts, which in turn influence behavior. This creates a continuous cycle."

Moral "Understanding that feelings are natural reactions, and thoughts are a way of processing those feelings, can help you respond to day-to-day activities of life with confidence.

Sukarma Thareja

Pre-requisite of Relationship

I have a friend, Karuna. Unfortunately, her husband is in the habit of cheating with her in terms of #financial promises. He will promise Karuna x amount of money, but will never give her the same amount. Somehow, he will spend money on other things which he never # discloses to Karuna.

Sometimes Karuna gets depressed and says, "Madam, sometimes I feel that somehow I am not able to handle my husband. He thinks that Karuna will not understand my cheating trick. "

I always tell "Karuna, think like this. When we were small kids, many of our classmates would never prepare for the monthly test and would always be asking #answer for questions. They simply behave in that manner because they never #prepare themselves for the test. Please try to #understand this problem in the same way that your husband wants to be in relation to you in #financial matters, but he is not prepared for the test for financial matters relationship, therefore he #cheats for the same. He thinks that he can maintain a good financial relationship with you without #undergoing a test. Therefore, dear Karuna, please stop #blaming yourself for the same, as #fault lies with your husband's behavior. "

Moral-If one wishes to be in any form of relationship with another person, one should be prepared to appear for a test. A test is - prerequisite of any type of relationship.

Sukarma Thareja

Expecting Sorry

I teach science in a government school, and I am in charge of the curricular activities of the school.

Two Sisters #Sita and Gita are students of class 9th in my school. Once Sita was upset, and her sister Gita and her friends told me, "Madam Sita is upset as she has # fought with her sister Gita. "

I called Sita and asked about why she is so upset. Sita said, "Madam, I am upset my sister Gita started #fight and she knows she is wrong, in spite that, my sister never # apologizes and says sorry. '

I said, " Dear Sita, it's ok if Gita does not apologize to you. But you should remember that when you are expecting #apology from Gita in the process, you are hurting yourself # emotionally. In the process, your revolt feelings are acting like #poison to you. That is affecting your #health and mood. You are losing many things. Therefore, I sincerely advise you never get into this #mess. Her apologies are not going to help you in any case. Therefore, I sincerely advise you to keep yourself #calm. "

Fortunately, Sita acted on my # advice and told me Madam, your advice is best.

Moral-Expecting sorry from the other person is #futile exercise. In this exercise of expectations, one # hurts oneself emotionally and gains nothing.

Sukarma Thareja

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Unique Life Insurance

For the monetary security of family one,

But unfortunately use of these policies,

Are done by the family when,

A person dies who has register dies,

Himself for #LI Policy,

But there is one unique #LI Policy,

Which one can one use in one's life?

Keeping #good company,

Ready to #serve others at the time of need,

Always #remembering all mighty,

Beauty of these #insurances,

Is that it does not involve any money.

God himself takes care,

Of this #unique insurance,

With the end of once #breath,

God himself gives one #profit of the same,

Then and there,

During #one's life,

And after one's life also.

Sukarma Thareja

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