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Behaviour of Person

Behaviour is like signature of person.Please keep consistent behaviour of kindness towards others but with a word of caution that no body take your kindness for ride.

Time in life any way will pass as time does not wait for anyone, kindly make worthit. An iota time put in negative activity is not going to make you peaceful.

Sukarma Thareja

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Sukarma Thareja
I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

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🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna
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🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
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🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry
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Abusive Relationships

I am a science teacher in a government school. My student Geeta was always #disturbed as her father was #abuser toward her mother. Though her father was nice to Geeta. But Geeta never liked her father's behaviour toward her #mother. She has no courage to #oppose the same.

On one occasion, I met Geeta's mother. I very humbly inquired about #abusive nature of her husband.

Geeta's mother was a very #humble religious lady. She said, "Madam, I am the mother of two kids. I am not qualified enough to stand on my own feet. I am happy my husband is not abusive to his #kids ."

Geeta's mother further said, "Madam, it is connection bond, and emotional #attachment that I have created in 25 years of my #married life. When he gets disturbed from office work or any other dimension of his life, he becomes abusive to me. My husband considers me to be #cushion to take out his frustration. Sometimes he feels sorry about the same. For my husband, it is not a new thing. He has seen his father abusing his mother many times. So he is used to his #unhealthy behaviour."

She further said,' For him dignity of a woman is no value for him. Our extended in-laws' family also thinks along the same lines. They think this abusive #behaviour is between husband and wife life. Therefore, my extended family never takes up this issue in a positive #manner."

She further added, "Madam, it takes so much time, energy, and #trust to build this bond between husband and wife. It is not easy for me to just let go of a life I have built with my husband. I forgive him for my kids. He is gradually improving. I hope one day he will completely give up his bad #habit and will admire my #patience.

I said to Geeta's mother, "If you think that by taking help from outside agencies, which are ready to help in such situations, your problem can be solved to some extent. I am ready to help you by providing the right information."

Geeta's mother said, "Thanks, madam, for thinking about my problem. I will work on finding a solution to the same and will be in touch with you to get help."

I saluted Geeta's mother for her immense #patience and courage she has acquired to #forgive her husband for his abusive nature. May God bless Geeta's Mother and family. I wish that may God gives her strength and courage to seek help from the concerned agencies to solve her problem."

There is no harm taking help from outside if one is in difficult situation of life Gathering courage is first step to do so.To do so first one must build confidence in her/ his personality.

One should seek help from others if possible to make the abuser go in the right direction.

Thin Line Between Pressure and Great pressure

My friend Asha was preparing for the NEET(National Entrance Test for MBBS). Examination. The whole family supported her in her dream college entry.

Asha's grandfather retired army office. He used to support Asha in her every activity, that is #academic and co-curricular activities.

Unfortunately, Asha could not pass the #NEET examination with good marks. She was unhappy about it.

Asha'a grandfather asked Asha "What is the reason you could not pass the NEET examination"

AshA said" Grandpa due to so much work #pressure in the form of assignments given by the coaching center. I used to get #confused."

Asha's grandfather introduced Asha to a family who had no #home. The family was putting up on #road. Grandpa gave that family some money for #food. Within a week the family was assigned a small #house also.

Asha was surprised at how much pressure the homeless #family was living under.

Asha's grandfather said" Look Asha these homeless people are under #pressure. You are given each #facility you asked for. You say I am under pressure."

Asha understood the meaning of pressure. For her second attempt to appear for the NEET examination, she worked hard. Asha came out of the NEEt examination with #flying colors. The whole family was happy for Asha.

MORAL -Real pressure in life is felt by those who do not know when and where their next #meal will come.

Reading Writing Skill

I am a science teacher in a government school. My friend Usha is a good primary teacher at our school. Usha and I strongly believe that to learn reading #writing skills is a must for #primary school kids. But to make little kids perfect in reading, writing, language, and using it in #expressing views and making arguments requires a lot of hard # persuasion and #motivation in primary school.

My experience tells. When parents support teachers in this effort, children come out of this exercise with flying colors.

Many parents do not realise the importance of reading and writing. They do not take this concept seriously and do not support teachers to a large extent.

I share my writing with my school students. I find it is a great way to teach them about writing. For example, I could write an essay containing intentional errors and then ask my students to find errors in my writing. The goal is to inspire them to write and understand that writing is a journey on which they may improve if they persevere.

Doing neat writing with proper use of #verbs, placing capital letters where required, putting commas and semicolons are different forms of little knowledge that primary school students should know while making use of language in reading and writing. Unfortunately, lots of students lack sufficient practice. Due to this, students remain not well #versed with the #art of ‘reading’ and ‘writing’. With this flaw, we are pushing ourselves and kids down the #ladder in personal and #professional life.

These are the 2 basic human activities, reading and writing, that are taught to us in #kindergarten; yet most people sadly #neglect them throughout their lives.

Are you working with your students or children to make them good in skill of reading and writing?

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Person and personality

One day our spritual science teacher said "Dear students according to shrimad Bhagvad Gita our body is made of five gross elements ,earth water, air fire and ether .We are not owner of our body.In end of life journey our body get mixed in same gross elements.

I said "Therefore friends never try to live as person but as personality.World forgets persons but it never forgets personality that touches souls."

I further said "Person can live for 100 years while personality can live for centuries ".

Are you also working on your personality.

Moral -Please develop personality by inculcating positive traits in your personality.

Sukarma Thareja

How to Achieve Success through World treasure

An important question many students ask very often, Where is the world treasure hidden?

Mohan said "Some people think it is hidden in #bank . Some think the world treasure is hidden in very #secret places which are not reach to the common man."

Sohan said " Some think the world's treasure is hidden in Mother Nature. Many think that world treasure is hidden in very specific places so that it could be away from the greed of the common man, and nobody could #steal that."

I said " Students but my view is different, world treasure is hidden in #books. So, please read good books whenever possible and get a chance. Books give you the treasure of the world in a #friendly way. They never get #annoyed while imparting #knowledge, which is a treasure of the world."

I further said"Books are of immense value as a source of knowledge, wisdom, and inspiration. They enrich our lives in many aspects: 1. by expanding our minds, 2. enhancing our creativity, 3. offering new perspectives. "

Radha said "Madam the above-listed three points make Books become real treasure of the world. They are just the first step to success, but books can not give one everything one needs to achieve. For book knowledge to work on a person/they need to take action. "

Moral-A book will never change a person's life, no matter how many of them one reads, until they make sense to the person and use that knowledge to improve his/her life.

Sukarma Thareja

I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖 🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home 📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

📚 My Books: 🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj 🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060 💡 Note: If blog doesn't open, use VPN or add ?ncr=1 🙏 Thank you for reading!

Greatfulness

I am a science teacher in a government school. In the PTA meeting, I happened to interact with the respected parents of my students. Some parents only talk about their #materialistic haves and have-nots. I keep wondering why they are so much into this type of # mindset."

I say to my students, "Please be #thankful for what you have, and don't stress yourself about what you have or you don't have. #Life won't give you what you don't have until you're #grateful for what you have."

Many of my students do not understand that it is not good if we are not grateful to the Almighty.

I tell my students, "Please do count on your #blessings. It will slow down your aging clock. It breaks under the stress of your life."

One student said, "Madam, being thankful, you bond with #allmighy and other members of society. You become near to God and Mother Nature."

I said, "Gratitude has a positive impact on the good health of your #heart, and to some extent, it makes your waistline ."

I further said"It's a lifelong mindset that can lead to overwhelmingly positive effects. From helping us reduce anxiety and increasing our sense of connection to loved ones, having a grateful attitude even in the smallest of situations can make a big difference."

The question is how to practice gratefulness ?

Radhe said. "Smiling, saying thank you, writing thank you notes, and keeping a gratitude journal are all ways to cultivate gratefulness."

I said "What Impact does this activity have on individuals?"

Gokul said"Gratefulness can help individuals appreciate what they value, embrace the fullness of life, and see opportunities in challenges."

Are you practicing habit of being grateful?

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