My student Shashi was a bright child with full of energy. When she was young, sometime in her life, she used to live in a bubble. She believed in fairy #tales, the goodness and honesty of the people around her. When she grew up, the #bubble burst for her. She realized many people around her do not believe in the honesty of life.
Here, Shashi's sufferings started as she found her #wishing things were different. Here her self-inflicted misery started. She was expecting the ideals to overcome actual or needed things or people, or places to be different from what she wished for.
Shashi always asked questions. Why is there suffering?
I said, " Dear Student, suffering is only and always the result of not accepting the present #moment of your life as it is, of not accepting the current life situation. It's the refusal of any unpleasant #emotions. It's a rejection of reality, the denial of life, and the denial of the natural laws. Suffering is an indication that you are resisting reality."
Shashi asked a question," Madam, how to overcome a present #mess in my life."
I said dear Shashi, "Answer to your question is, there is a solution to be happy in life. Please do not cop out on reality. Do not run away and hide under the covers. Let the hard things in life break you. Let them affect you. Let them change you. Let these hard moments inform you. Let this pain be your teacher. The experiences of your life are trying to tell you something about yourself. Don't cop out on that. Lean into it." You will find gradually you are gradually decreasing your #sufferings."
I further said," Please find meaning in suffering: Some philosophies suggest that suffering can lead to personal growth and a deeper understanding of life."
Shashi's friend Radha said, "Madam to reduce suffering, Shashi must focus on what she can control: Identify areas where she can take action to improve her situation or manage her response to suffering. "
Shashi's friend Kamla said, "The best way to handle suffering is to practice gratitude: Remind yourself of the good things in your life, even amidst suffering."
Moral -There is a lesson in this wind and storm full of unhappiness. You will learn wisdom if you face it with courage. Therefore, with full honesty, #accept it . Your sufferings will help and make you strong.
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My student Shashi was bright child with full of energy. When she was young sometime in life she used to live in a bubble. She believed in fairy #tales , goodness and honesty of people around her. When she grew up, the #bubble bursted for her. She realized there were many people around her who do not believe in honesty of life.
Here Shashi's sufferings started as she found her #wishing things were different. Here her self inflicted misery start. She was expecting the ideals to overcome actual or needing things or people or places to be different from what she wished for.
Shashi always asked Question. Why there is suffering?
I said " Dear Student suffering is only and always the result of not accepting the present #moment of your life as it is, of not accepting the current life situation as it is. It's the refusal of any unpleasant #emotions. It's a rejection of reality, the denial of life, and the denial of the natural laws. Suffering is an indication that you are resisting reality.
Shashi asked question" Madam how to overcome a present #mess in my life."
I said dear Shashi "Answer to your question is, there is solution to be happy in life . Please do not cop out on reality. Do not run away and hide under covers. Let the hard things in life break you. Let them effect you. Let them change you. Let these hard moments inform you. Let this pain be your teacher. The experiences of your life are trying to tell you something about yourself. Don't cop out on that. Lean into it. You will find gradually you are decreasing your #sufferings."
I further said" Please find meaning in suffering: Some philosophies suggest that suffering can lead to personal growth and a deeper understanding of life."
Radha said "Madam to reduce suffering Shashi must focus on what she can control: Identify areas where she can take action to improve her situation or manage her response to suffering. "
Kamla said "The best way to handlr suffering is to practice gratitude: Remind yourself of the good things in your life, even amidst suffering.
Moral -There is lesson in this wind and storm full of unhappiness. You will learn wisdom if you face it with courage.Therefore with full honesty #accept it .Your sufferings will decrease.
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