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Role Model Water Liquid

We can learn things many,

From liquid water,

If need arise in life,

Do not be hesitant,

To be polarized like ,

Molecule water ,

And attract other persons

With personality traits Positive ,

Like molecule water.

If need arises,

Under given circumstances,

Like liquid water,

Get yourself converted,

To form solid-ice,

And float on surface of sea of life.

If in circumstances given,

Your condition financial ,

Is not correct at all,

Tighten your expenditures,

By implementing properties,

Like surface tension of water ,

In your day to day budget,

Of surface life.

Friends be cohesive water,

Molecule and contribute in benefit,

Of integrity of nation,

Be adhesive like water,

Molecules and contribute in benefit,

Of foreign policy of nation.

To live good life in joint family,

Develop capacity to mix ,

With other members of family,

Forming strong relationships bond,

Who may be keeping ,

Opinion different ,

As water in it mixes,

different solutes,

And makes perfect solution.

Friends always remain cool,

And #soft like water,

And #adjust everywhere in life,

Like water.

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Precious Gift

A few days back, I was talking to my young friends.

One of my young friends, a mother of three cute kids was confused about her life.

She said ” Madam I remain so much confused the whole day. My #kids are driving me #crazy. “

My young friend continued” I sometimes feel I am not a good mom. My kids are making me so much #uncomfortable. I’m losing my patience. Every night, I wonder how am I going to continue like this.”

I said dear friend” Your youngest child is a small #baby. Babies do cry. That’s how they communicate. Your daughter is a toddler. # Toddlers do scream sometimes. Your eldest kid is #teenager. Teenagers are in the habit of complaining. They have their problems.”

I further added” Teenage is transition to #adult hood. Teenagers undergo physical and emotional changes. Sometimes they are confused about the norms of society. Hence they are not able to concentrate on their studies. Therefore my friends have multiple issues that they face in life. Many teenagers do not have enough expression and skill to speak out about their problems.”

I further explained to her” Sometimes moms, do mutter ‘for heaven’s sake’ under their breath before answering their unique questions. That’s just the way mom talks. “But guess what?

Dear friend, please do understand children should express themselves rather than opt to remain silent. A house filled with noise, with fighting teens and non-stop questions from younger kids, is a #healthy home”.

My friend said” I should truly worry if my children are silent. My toddler daughter is too scared to express herself. My teenage son does not talk to me.”

I said dear friend” By the way, kids don’t drive you #insane, you are a little crazy to think on those lines.”

With my small explanation, my young friend understood key points of her uncomfortable levels about her kids.

She at once took a big breath. That moment she realized that maybe she was doing okay as a parent.

I further said ” Dear friend! You are great and doing well as the mother. Please continue #mothering your children in the right direction. Please do thank almighty God for precious #gifts in the form of children. These energetic noble souls are part of your life. They are #treasure of your life.”

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Alumnus IITK

Mother's Guilt

I am working #mother,

I am blessed with two,

Cute small #kids,

When I am at work,

My heart gets stuck in kids,

I always think I should have done this/that,

For my elder/younger kids,

When I am at work I always think,

I should have taught that,

Particular subject #’ concept’

To my students this particular way is unique,

I sometimes do self-talk,

Dear me! Please accept this tough mother’s way of life,

Please be #kind to yourself,

Stop beating yourself up,

Accept that you are a working mother,

And keep walking on waves of #nonlinear life,

With determination and

Confidence.

Oh! working mother,

The guilt you are feeling is normal,

And nothing #new,

It will remain with you forever,

Children at home and persons at work front,

Do not even know the word #” mother’s guilt”

Please substitute the same with work/life balance,

And enjoy some sweet moments for #yourself also,

I wish children at home and persons at work front,

Could realize mother’s guilt,

So that I could partially get relieved,

From heavy emotional #baggage of ” mother’s guilt.”

Work-life balance is a big tool,

In the hands of a working mother,

Which saves mothers from working,

from mother's guilt.

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Quantum Force Life.

The more I see,

I interact with the world,

And my surroundings,

And my #life,

More I bend toward almighty #God.

I am fortunate,

Being a woman I get the opportunity,

To see,

Life as # homemaker,

Life at work front,

Over and above see my #inner life,

Which is navigated by the inner #Compass soul.

Many days I am happy/sad,

I ask questions #countless,

Myself every day,

I feel #mysterious pains,

I for go causes of same.

I move forward,

In the direction right,

All these activities,

Observation became a puzzle for me.

I have gathered courage,

To tackle the same puzzle,

By accepting changes,

In my life.

I think with an attitude optimistic,

Which acts like a magnet

When I see in sky,

Bright #quantum forces,

Gravity, #electromagnetic and

Nuclear forces together

And their #vectors,

Make me move,

Freely to #tackle my life puzzle.

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A Riddle

Other day I asked my students a riddle listed below.

It is not impatient and unkind,

It is generous and honors others,

It is unselfish and always pacifying

in nature.

It protects and keeps record of right doing,

In virtuous surroundings it delight and blossom,

It does not rejoice with dishonesty.

It never believes in giving despair,

It is not friendly with distrust,

It never gives up hope ,

It never fails.

It resides in noble souls.

Answer to above riddle,

One of three divine sisters,

Faith/hope/love,

Said one student,

Who is strongest of all three sisters,

'Love' said my student,

Yes 'love' is right answer,

To riddle said teacher.

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Compass With in You

Relationship build,

Relationship break,

Like electric #connections,

They give #shocks,

They bring #life.

Life #inside,

Could be sad or happy,

Could be wealthy,

You have #soul,

#Compass within you,

Which # navigates you.

Life outside you,

This could be due to # the steering of others,

Surrounding you,

Could be fast or slow,

Could be #materialistic,

Could be poor or rich.

It is up to you,

To #decide,_

If you wish to live,

By Compass within you,

Or by steering of those,

Surrounding you.

Sukarma Thareja

Alumnus IITK

India

Mothering Does not Stop

My mom is amazing. After my marriage, one day she texted me it seems it will rain today, so my child please do not forget to take your #umbrella.

She always takes care of my food which I like to eat. She makes my favorite besan ladoo with no white sugar when I am about to visit her.

Nani (my mother)was so excited to know how my kids behaved on the first day of their #school. She called me to know how her grandkids made it to the school bus without tears in their eyes.

My mother sends text messages / audio tapes about #lullaby' in her voice "chanda mama dur ke" so listening to her voice audio tape her grandkids could go to sleep.

She buys the best possible trendy fashion clothes and dresses for her daughter and daughter-in-law at a mall.

In her heart, my mother knows that she does not have to do these things anymore but she still does it fondly. Some may say it is her way of passing #time.

But it is her way of expressing her true unconditional #love for her children.

My mom is in the habit of writing poems for grandchildren which they fondly #recite in their school function on Independence Day/ republic day. She is so proud of her grandchildren.

To make my life a little easier, whenever my parents visit me, my mother teaches Mathematics tables from 2 to 20 to my kids and helps them solve difficult #puzzles.

My mother makes sweets/snacks for me and my children, even if she may not have enough strength to do so. She knows very well her children are fully grown and are capable of doing things themselves but making food which her children are fond of is her first passion even in old age.

Mothering/parenting doesn’t stop when her/their kids turn eighteen, move away, or have their children.

It just happens they change their way of mothering/parenting.

Sometimes I wonder, do mothers/ parents have specific unique #DNA /genes which express her/their unconditional love for children and grandchildren?

I strongly feel if mothers were not that kind and positive the world would have gone #insane. Therefore children, who respect the hard work of their mothers rise very high. No work of children could be meaningful or complete without the blessing of their mothers.

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