Letting go of Past Stories

I have a childhood friend Cukoo. She is now settled in the US. My friend has evolved as a beautiful person by accepting life changes peacefully.

The other day Cuckoo came into my dreams and said "Dear friend though both of us have wonderfully settled in our respective lives but dear friend it is so difficult to change and let go of small stories we two shared in our childhood".

I said, "Dear Cuckoo we humans are like a piece of fabric, made of hundreds of threads of stories we have been telling ourselves for our entire lives."

Cuckoo said "Dear friend the reason we are so afraid to let go of our stories is that as soon as we start letting go of one story, then another, the fabric that once made us confident is now being torn apart. We feel we are falling into nothingness. We start thinking gradually we will simply become empty."

I said, "Dear Cukoo as we try so hard to let those small stories of our lives go, we 8feel resistance building up in our bodies."

Cuckoo said, "Yes dear friend It’s so painful as if my self and you together are cutting away something valuable and significant from myself and yourself that is from our identity; something, which, at some point, has come to define me and you and our meaningful life."

I said " I and you are not whole or complete anymore, because the stories that we shared in childhood and adolescent age to make us complete are now slowly going away from us and we feel somewhat empty, we feel lost, and confused. To conclude suppressing our life

experiences is not a healthy trend in life."

I said Cukoo "Sometimes I choose to view those stories as shoes or clothes we used to share and exchange at certain phases of our lives. I am grateful to them as those stories, like clothes, protected us from heat and cold or, like shoes, they took us from place A to place B.

Cukoo said "Yet, it’s important to acknowledge that we have grown up. We have got married and have beautiful kids and of course, with time our bodies have changed."

I said "The clothes and shoes that once served us for important purposes, are not suitable for us any longer, they simply do not fit you or me "

Cukoo said, "Dear friend, we do not reject the idea that once we used to wear certain shoes or clothes, we embrace that fact till today and we are in peace with same."

I said "As I am letting go of my past stories, sometimes it’s so scary and takes so much of my courage. I feel if I may not reduce to zero for a while, and sit without knowing who I am. I further said" I am OK with not having any clear answer to the question “What is my story”

Cuckoo said" Dear friend do not feel scared. Now the time has come to start weaving a new fabric of our identity with the threads of new empowering stories from the US and India respectively."

Cuckoo further said, "But friend what’s different this time is that time has come we have new stories in life which wove our identity of you and me respectively."

I said, "In this modern era of science and technology due to our strong past experiences we will not resist changes in our lives and will accept the new stories and let them go gradually with time to accept change in life."

Moral- Let us embrace our new stories and gradually let them go with time. Let us be ready to change when the time to change will come.

Sukarma Thareja
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Right life

Many ideas stick with me for right life

1.With time If we try to make life simpler it means we are moving toward right life.

2 With time our desire to buy materialistic things decrease it means we are moving toward right life.

3.With time if degree of contentment in personality increases we are moving toward right life.

4.With time we decrease our habit of comparing things we have or money we have ,we are moving toward right life.

5.With time if we feel happiness of others it means we are moving toward right life.

6.With time when we do not need vacation from our work it means we are moving toward right life.

Are you also following any one of indicator listed above to move toward right life?

Please comment.

Sukarma Thareja

Service Joy Correlations in Life

When I was young I used to think life was full of sweet dreams.

I happen to be married in a joint family. I found life is nothing but service. I realized good service you give to others life becomes more #joyful and interesting.

With time I found life gives you joy in the service of others is unimaginable. In the process, I found myself near #mother nature and near to God. Now my life is full of wonderful countless experiences that are difficult to describe.

With the grace of God, I am blessed with strength and a value system, which help me #practice doing services to all inside/outside family till today.

The other day I was talking to my students about the correlation between service and joy.

Ram said "Madam when we students experience the #positive effects of giving, we wish to repeat those actions. This creates a ripple effect of kindness in society."

I said, "Students when you enjoy serving others this can break the cycle of focusing solely on your personal needs and #desires, leading to a more meaningful and joyful life."

Radha said " Madam I find that serving others, rather than being served, brings me greater joy and fulfillment. "

Mohan said "When I give with a spirit of sacrifice, it is especially rewarding and #transformative for me."

I said " Being a student of physics I believe that the joy in giving services to others is a powerful #force that can enhance both my well-being and the well-being of the community. "

Do you also find joy in serving others.Please comment.

Sukarma Thareja

I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖 🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home 📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

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Behavior a Ladder

Behavior is a two-sided #sword. If your behavior is good there is a stair staircase that takes you to the top. If your behavior is bad you could go to the deep dark well of #hell. It is for an individual to decide.

If one is wearing # a well-designed graceful present garment one may get very good comments about one's #looks and one may get respect in society. It is a mirror that knows a person's #outside picture.

But you can never know inside of the same person. Behavior is an important #parameter that reflects a person's inside picture. Behavior is # the signature of a person's nature.

Good behavior marks a person as a good good-natured one. Good behavior gets written all over a person's personality.

Sometimes behavior signature dominates so much, that people can predict a person's future. Well-groomed behavior #impresses teachers, friends and mentors. Even it impresses our #creator also. For such well-behaved persons, God himself opens doors of success.

The good behavior of a person makes his associate prideful. Therefore please think twice before doing. Bad behavior. With bad behavior, you may likely fall into the well of #darkness and people start hating you. Therefore think twice before behaving with any person x in life.

Are you also trying to get success by climbing different ladders in life?.Please work on behavior ladder which can grant you success in every field of life.

Moral- Ladders are more than just tools for reaching heights—they have long been symbols of ambition, transformation, and connection. In simple language ladder is a tool for reaching heights. Heights are symbols of ambition and transformations. These symbols can be achieved by using behavior ladder.

Sukarma Thareja

I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖 🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home 📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

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Rain and Struggle

I was talking to my students about rain.I said " Rainy season bring dirty water on roads"

Rohan said"Madam rainy season washes all green plants which have dust deposited on their leaves.Every spieces in world feel fresh and cool after rainy season"

Sita said " Rainy season give us distinct vegetables like stem of lotus flower,singhara( water chestnut),Patra( Taro leaves) and fruits like jamun( black berries) etc which have unique nutrients good for health "

I said " Friends rainy season is like struggle in life.Phase of struggle is difficult but it makes us stronger in life.Lessons took up from struggle are unique and make us wiser.It is like clearing negative thoughts from our soul"

Moral - Never think rainy season bring difficulties for us. Rain when come in correct time is beneficial to all big and tiny species in world.

Struggles of life make us wiser and strong.

Are you going through struggle period of life,please be determined this phase will give you unique confidence in life.

Sukarma Thareja

Maths of Hope and patience

In India entrance results of the national competitive examination are often delayed for some or other reasons. But candidates who appeared for the said examination wait patiently for results, hoping they will come out with flying colours.

Hope fuels their #belief in a positive future, while patience provides the strength and backbone to endure difficulties and delays along the way. I was talking to my students about two virtues, patience and hope, in the same context.

I said, "Patience sometimes is tasteless and difficult to handle. It needs a lot of # sacrifice. Patience sometimes gives tears also. Then hope comes into patience rescue. That's why hope is pre prerequisite of patience."

Mohan said, "Madam, there is a saying: 'Good things come to those who #wait.”

Sita said, "Patience allows you to persevere and make more meaningful decisions, often leading to greater success."

Rakesh said, "Hope helps an individual in showing patience. Hope colors the canvas of karma sky like a #rainbow."

I said, "Patience and hope work as #complement to each other. When patience and hope work together, they give the best results."

I further said, " Hope and patience are mutually #reinforcing. It is essential for hope to develop, implying that without patience, hope may go fragile and get easily extinguished.

Do you also believe in practicing patience and hoping for positive results. Please comment.

Moral - Hope and patience are deeply intertwined virtues, particularly when one is facing challenges and striving for desired outcomes. Sukarma Thareja I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖 🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home 📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

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Fun and non fun activities

Mrs Kapoor is my neighbour. She is very efficient in household activities. She does the dusting and mopping of the house herself. I have also learnt many #skills from her.

She is good at making #balance between fun and non-fun activities in her life. Whenever dear and near #relationships visit her house, she # prioritizes the fun-loving activities with them. Though she does non-fun activities like dusting, etc, she makes it a point not to prioritize those non-fun activities when it is time to enjoy with family and friends.

She makes a perfect #balance between fun and non-fun activities concerning time and #circumstances. Balancing is her secret to leading a full, active # and successful life. At the same time, she makes it a point that her house remains clean and tidy. She is my role #model for the same.

A balanced approach to doing fun-loving and non-fun-loving activities gives a lot of benefits to the doer. This approach in life helps doers in self-care and maintaining good relationships.

Moral-Every person has to do fun loving and nonunloving activities in life.Best is to make equilibrium between these two types of activities to lead peaceful happy life.

Are you also making equilibrium between fun loving and non fun loving activities. Please comment.

Sukarma Thareja

Sukarma Thareja
I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home
📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

📚 My Books:
🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna
https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj

🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060

💡 Note: If blog doesn't open, use VPN or add ?ncr=1
🙏 Thank you for reading!6

Sukarma musing

Letting go of Past Stories

Right life

Service Joy Correlations in Life

Behavior a Ladder

Rain and Struggle

Maths of Hope and patience

Fun and non fun activities

Mrs Kapoor is my neighbour. She is very efficient in household activities. She does the dusting and mopping of the house herself. I have also learnt many #skills from her.

She makes a perfect #balance between fun and non-fun activities concerning time and #circumstances. Balancing is her secret to leading a full, active # and successful life. At the same time, she makes it a point that her house remains clean and tidy. She is my role #model for the same.

A balanced approach to doing fun-loving and non-fun-loving activities gives a lot of benefits to the doer. This approach in life helps doers in self-care and maintaining good relationships.

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