Resilient Mother.

Son- Mom! How can I get #success in any area of life? Mom- son! # Resilience is the answer. Son- Mom! What do you mean by resilience? Son further said: when I was learning new skills like computer programming my teacher used to teach that students be consistent in learning computer #language for writing programs which computer can understand. 

 Mother’- yes Son! Consistent effort always pays. Son- Mom! In Physics class I have read to jump obstacles while running it is essential to build #momentum while running. It is a good way to tackle the same. 

 Mom -right my son! To be on a journey to success you should build momentum and consistency in your efforts. Son- Some people believe that in the journey to success #luck also plays a major role. 

 Mom -not necessary. Son- yes mom! #dedication and persistence in life come from consistent work. Mom, you are a living example of consistency and resilience Mom – Yes my son! If someday my cooking product is not up to mark. I don’t get #agitated, the next day I put more consistent efforts to make my cooking better.

 Son – Mom, and I do realize your consistent efforts are #unending. You always cook with the same consistency every day. Mother – Dear son! Some days I don’t have cooking assignments, to retain my consistent habit, that day I take this golden opportunity and make some sweets for my family with the same consistency but never leave the habit of being consistent.

 Mother further said "Dear son there are situations in my life when I am not well, down with fever but I never leave this consistent habit of making simple food for family. With my resilience, I overcame this difficult time and again started cooking with the same efficiency.

 Son: Dear Mom I do understand some days you maintain a steady, reliable pattern, in your cooking assignment. But I have also observed how you bounce back with good cooking after being unwell for quite some time. Then I see so much resilience in you. Your capacity to come back from setbacks and adapt to challenges is amazing. In my heart, I appreciate my resilient mother. Then you become my biggest inspiration in my life. 

 Mother: Motherhood often requires immense resilience, as mothers navigate numerous challenges and responsibilities while maintaining emotional well-being. Resilience in me involves adapting to changes on my way to motherhood. I overcome obstacles and always maintain a positive outlook. I maintain a work-life balance by being resilient. I thank God for granting me this virtue.

 Son: Mom you are my resilient mother. You are always engaged in positive parenting practices. You have provided us ( children) with a sense of security and support during difficult times Moral -Consistency is a key element in the journey to success. Small actions get converted to big actions through the habit of consistency. Resilience is more important than consistency. So to make your journey achieve your aimed goals to success wonderful, the best is to practice resilience.

 I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖 🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home 📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1 My Books: 🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW 

 🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj 🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060 💡 Note: If blog doesn't open, use VPN or add ?ncr=1 🙏 Thank Home Create Search 2 Chat 5 Notifications Sukarma Thareja Profile

Do not complicate life

 

I am a science  teacher in government  school. My student Cooku is primary school teacher in private school. She is married to gentelman who is also a primary school teacher in private school. They are leading a wonderful happy life.

Some time Cooku visit me in school to discuss some problems  about teaching aids to be used in teaching in school. 

Cooku is in habit of getting involved in thinking  about  material  things or #external factors she sees in her life.

 I tell her” dear Cooku you must change the #outlook of your life from within. Life doesn’t comprise of the material or external factors we see. Life comprises of deeper, unseen things that are more powerful than we can see or understand.”

I said ” Cooku I am science teacher, I do not follow blindly scientific principles that cannot explain #spiritual things. Spritual things are correlated  with our hearts. Unfortunately younger generation  is after materialistic  growth. Cooku spiritual things are more powerful and control #material things. Material possessions shouldn’t contribute to your happiness or #disappointment. If that was case then every rich person should be happy ,but that is not reality.”

Cooku said ” Madam I understand that when it comes to happiness, we should work on our #internal state, especially our state of mind. Majority of our problems originate from the way we perceive other people. Living with in our means is an art but not to feel #inferior about it.” 

Cooku further said “madam I some time get involved  in thoughts like how come other people are better or worse by looking at the material things they posses or lack.”

I said ” best is never compare your life with others on bases of materialistic  things. The problem with this thinking is that our brains start processing information #wrongly that is thinking about material and money and not beyond that.”

Cooku said”madam you are right this way of thinking screw our brain’s capacity to make accurate judgments and therefore, better choices is sometimes #hindered, leading to poor decisions that may not align with our real desires. This  thinking pattern leads us to do error, more mistakes in life and that increases further misery in life.”

I further said “To achieve total happiness doesn’t require much #schooling, but requires us to draw it from within anytime we need it. It’s not dependent on external factors such as other people’s moods or attitudes.”

I further  said “It’s important to understand that life is controlled by #energy or vibrations. Question like am I honest to my self, about my duties in life is very important  to answer. Answer to this question can lead us to #positive energy / negative energy.”

Cooku said “madam   universe gives us what we give it. If we give it negative energy, we get negative vibrations, and same is true with positive  energy.”

I said ” Through concepts of science, we can’t understand these things because they’re spiritual things.”

I said “Dear Cooku please  don’t #overcomplicate life, just retain positive thoughts with you, if you want happiness, and it’ll come to you.”

Sukarma Thareja

I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home

📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

My Books:

🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna

https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry

https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj

🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry 

https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060

💡 Note: If blog doesn't open, use VPN or add ?ncr=1

🙏 Thank you for reading!

 

Home

Create

Search

1

Chat

9+

Notifications

Mom you Have Done Nothing for Us

I am a science teacher in a government school. My friend Sita is an arts teacher in our school. Unfortunately, my friend Sita lost her husband at an early age. She did not get much family support from her in-law's family and her own family. 

Sita has one son Ramesh. Sita's son Ramesh is not a very supportive child to his #mother. But Sita with her efforts and hard work saw to it Ramesh got admission to a good medical college.

Sita at an early age got symptoms of arthritis. It is hard for her to manage school duties but with her strong willpower, she is managing the same. Ramesh used to visit his mother Sita twice a year. But sometimes during hot arguments with his mother unknowingly,  Ramesh will say ” Mom you have done nothing for me. On top of that you are suffering from a disease like arthritis, and complaining about #pain in joints.”.

Sometimes Sita will complain about Ramesh to me. I said,” Dear Sita you have been so #protective of your child therefore, Ramesh has not seen the outside world that's why he does so immature talks with you.”

After clearing the 4th year of MBBS Ramesh became a mature person. Once I and Sita were sitting in our garden with a cup of tea. Ramesh came to us. He was so #apologetic in his tone he said” Dear aunt I regret I have been so unfair to my mom.”

He further said ” Dear aunt, I have read in my MBBS course that when a woman is #pregnant, a cord is connected from the baby’s navel to the mother’s body, through cord baby receives his/her #nourishment. Sometimes the mother is not able to consume a balanced diet, in that case, the wise baby extracts essential #nutrients and minerals from the mother’s bones and joints to meet his/her needs. This process weakens the mother’s bones and joints, causing severe pain in #old age."

He further said"Yet, in this world, many children like me, often say so many unfair things to their mothers. What have you done for us? You haven’t done anything; you believe in taking a rest. You pretend to have pain and discomfort—you are an expert in doing #drama.!”. But those children do not  truly understand the pain and #suffering a mother endures."

Ramesh further said "Now when I am on steps of the ladder to become #physician, I do understand the pain my mother is suffering. I have no words to ask for apologies to my mother. I feel strong guilt in my  heart."

Sita was very happy for Ramesh. I said ” Sita there is a big change in Ramesh's personality. Now he is a gentleman and a good doctor. “

Sita did not say a word about her son, but tears of joy were rolling down her cheeks.

Moral – Never be in a fighting mood with your mother. She #sacrifices so much in her life to make her children go in the right direction.

https://www.amazon.com.au/Science-Life-Nature-Poetry-Collection/dp/1521260060

Sukarma Thareja 

I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home

📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

My Books:

🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna

https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry

https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj

🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry 

https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060

💡 Note: If blog doesn't open, use VPN or add ?ncr=1

🙏 Thank you for reading!

You Can Not go in Past

 I am science  teacher in government  school. My friend Radha is my immediate  neighbour  and teaches Mathematics  in private  #school. Her in laws some how feel that teaching in #government  school is better  than working in private school. Many times they hurt my friend Radha on this issue by saying we wish you could have got job in government  school, as pay #packet is much higher for government  school  teacher.

Radha my friend gets hurt by her in- laws statement  pointing towards nature of her job

I say “Dear Radha please forgive them. Please forget this fact you are teaching in private  school. By doing this you will #feel better. I know it is not that easy and  straight  forward . It takes time. Sometimes you may feel good, and other times you may feel sad again. But remember my friend when you every day  try to forget fact that you teach in private school, you get a little #stronger, even if you don’t notice it."

My friend Radha said” Madam as you advised me, I Don’t focus on the bad #stuff now. I have taken a break from it. I have stoped following things that #upset me. I Do things I love, like reading my favorite #books or hanging out with good friends. I have started enjoying laughing and having #fun. As per your advise madam now it is okay fot me to take a break from negative things and I try my best, how to be #happy again.”

I said” Dear friend teaching in private school has other positive  points.School offers state of art teaching aids.That give you opportunity  to learn something new.This give you chance to move forward in your profession. This positive  thinking will help you to move forward  with strong aptitude  towards teaching. On other hand If you keep thinking about your so called  #pain, it will just get worse. It’s hard, but you have to let it go. Recognize how you feel, but don’t keep going back to the hurt statements.You can not  change the past, best is to #move  on life with positive  energy."

Moral – There are many more important  things to be done in life rather than going in #past how some person  x #hurted you.Be aware that forgiveness is a process. Even small hurts may need to be revisited and forgiven again and again.

Sukarma Thareja

I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home

📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

My Books:

🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna

https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry

https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj

🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry 

https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060

💡 Note: If blog doesn't open, use VPN or add ?ncr=1

🙏 Thank you for reading!

Society We Create

 

I am a science teacher in a government school. Sometimes I do self-talk. Another day's topic for my self-talk was how to create a healthy society in a nation.

I am listing below some salient points which I involved in my train of thought for the same.

1. For students of each class our School conducts tests weekly, #exams monthly, half-yearly -annually, in different subjects.Some students do meet failure. Some parents, for this reason, behave very rudely to their children.

Parents, please teach  children that #failure is a part of life.Parents, please do realise everyone can’t be ‘#genius. Everyone can’t become a leader. Being #average is fine.

Schools and parents should collectively work so that students can face failure in life. Accept his/her failure with grace. All This will bring positive energy to the atmosphere of the society we create. 

2. On the other hand, if one is a genius, wholeheartedly he /she accepts others; then in general there won’t, be feelings of #inferiority, in the atmosphere of society we #create.

3. We(parents+school)must educate, our children to remain happy in given circumstances instead of chasing to become #rich. So that the society we create in its process of growth, should be able to adapt to circumstances painful – and difficult. 

4. We must let our next generation understand, that life in this world is not smooth or a bed of roses. There is a possibility one may be #harassed, and not treated well even at the workplace. We should create a society where children must learn to fight for their rights. They must raise their voices against prevailing injustice. Sitting quietly and feeling #depressed, is not the solution to lead a good life.

5. In the society we create, children at school or home should not be compared with each other. Children are not here to be in the #rat race. They are here to #celebrate life, every moment with grace.

6. In society we create, children should learn important skills. So that they should be able to face the bad phase of life with grace.

7. School and parents should work together to create a society where children are more compassionate, calm and composed.

8. Friends, please! Come and join and create our society where the new #generation is more healthy physically and mentally.

https://www.amazon.com.au/Science-Life-Nature-Poetry-Collection/dp/1521260060

I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖
🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home
📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1
My Books:
🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna
https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW
🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj
🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry 
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060
💡 Note: If blog doesn't open, use VPN or add ?ncr=1
🙏 Thank you for reading!

Sukarma Thareja 

Alumnus IITK 

India 

I am science  teacher in government  school. Some times I do self talk. Other day topic for my self talk was how to create healthy society in nation.

I am listing below some salient points which I involved in my train of  thoughts for same.

1. For students  of each class our School conducts test weekly, #exams mothly, half yearly -annually, in different  subjects.

Some students do meet failure. Some parents for this reason, behave very rude to their children.

Parents please do  teach  children that #failure is a part of life,

Parents please do realise everyone can’t be ‘#genius. Everyone can’t become a leader.Being #average is absolutely fine.

School  and parents both should collectively work so that students can face failure in life. Accept his/her failure with grace. All This will bring positive energy in atmosphere of  society we create. 

2. On the other hand, if one is genius, wholeheartedly he /she  accepts others; then in general there won’t, be feelings of #inferiority, in atmosphere  of  society we #create.

3. We(parents+school)must educate ,our children to remain happy in given circumstances instead of chasing  to become #rich? So that society we create in it's  process of growth, they should be able to adapt to circumstances painful – difficult. 

4. We must let our next generation understand,that life in this world is not smooth or bed of  roses. There is possibility one may be #harassed, not treated well even at the workplace. We should create society  where children must learn to fight for their own right. They must raise voice against prevailing injustice. Sitting quietly and feeling #depressed, is not solution to lead  good life.

7. In  society we create, children at school or at home should not be compared with each other. Children are not here to be in the #rat race. They are here to #celebrate life, every moment with grace.

8. In society we create  children should learn  important  sskills.So thar they should be able to face bad phase  of life with grace.

9. School and parents should work together creating society where children are   more compassionate, calm and composed.

10. Friends please! come and join and create our society where new #generation is more healthy  physically and mentally.

https://www.amazon.com.au/Science-Life-Nature-Poetry-Collection/dp/1521260060

Sukarma Thareja 

Alumnus IITK 

India 

Hamari yeh jo zindagi hain naSaans se shuru hoti hai Aur saans se hi khatam Aur yeh pehli saans aur...

Home

Create

Search

1

Chat

9+

Maintain a Postive Outlook

 I am science teacher in government  school. My student Rekha is teaching Mathematics in private school. In 2024 Rekha got married in good family. Her husband works in CPWD.

Other day I met Rekha in school meeting, where we teachers were to discuss different teaching models to help students, who find mathematics #difficult  subject. I found Rekha was no more #bubbling with same energy as she used to be in year 2021.

I asked reason for same. She said “Madam small things matter in life so much.”

She said ” Madam my husband is nice to me, but he never #appreciates  me for anything I do for him/family. Instead of that he believes in #criticising me for everything,  when ever there is opportunity to do so. Criticism is main issue which give me inferiority  #complex .”

I said ” Its ok for peace of family some time one has to for go many things. But please try to ignore the same and keep working  on your #skills “

I further  said ” Some people take #relationships  for granted. In Indian families taking care of house hold chores and #children is wife responsibilty. So woman has to face it boldly, as you can’t  change system prevailing in #family. Best is to accept  the same and do not get unnecessary  #anxious about same. But please do work  on your skills to develop  your personality. I only wish some day your husband will learn importance of #encouragement in life”

I further said “one of my colleague’s wife is very good #cook. When ever we happen  to share his home made food we appreciate  his wife’s skill. But unfortunately he never passes on our #praise worthy words to his wife. Simply because he does not believe in it. He has wrong #mind set. I wish he could know , this will not cost him anything and improves his mind set in right direction. “

I further said" Rekha encouragement helps individuals perseverance through challenges,achieve her/ his goals and maintain positive outlook.Therefore please donotbe miserable in encouraging person x.

Moral-Appreciation and encouragement are very important  skill of personality. It heals sick and #needy people, excels the #talent. It helps #relationships to grow and get better.Enouragement is nothing but positive outlook.

I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home

📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

My Books:

🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna

https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry

https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj

🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry 

https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060

💡 Note: If blog doesn't open, use VPN or add ?ncr=1

🙏 Thank you for reading!

Science Technology and lts Pursuits

 I am a science teacher in a government school. My old student Sita was visiting India. Her mother is my next-door neighbor.

Sita wanted to buy ethnic #silver jewelry from India. Myself and Sita went to Chandni Chowk ( Delhi) where very old shops for silver jewelry are there. The price of silver jewelry in these shops is also reasonable.

In Chandni Chowk lanes there are many narrow lanes. One could hardly walk in those streets with ease. You can find many good shops for silver jewelry. 

Sita was so surprised to see such big changes in the Old Delhi market.

Sita said,” What a big difference, when we were students at Delhi University, that time branded shoes used to be sold in these streets but now you could see big showrooms of shoes in the market and books are being sold in the streets(old books)."

Sita asked me the reason for same. I said “People nowadays are not fond of buying books or studying books. They study from digital links of the internet or sometimes from #social media tools like Tik Toks and Tubes, available on #internet. They prefer reading from helpful books available on the Internet. For the national entrance test also students go to reputed coaching centers and prefer to pay a huge amount of tuition fee rather than doing self-study from books. Some wise students only prefer to take online preparation #classes."

I further said "First hand books are available in big libraries. Hardly anyone reads them. It is not a happy #situation for the reading habits of students in an educational  institute."

Sita said"But this is what reality is about the new book. We alone can’t change this picture. It Is a global # phenomenon nowadays."

I said "Scientists and educationists are worried about the same. But the fact is the corporate sector rules the world and #economy of the world."

 People are happy to run after money. They do not think book knowledge is going to help them much or make any change in their life.

I said “I agree, Sita for you it may look like #reverse trend. Roberts and Artificial  Intelligence are new technology tools in the market. #Litreature pursuits knowledge has taken a back seat compared to the world of science and technology. Watching movies on TV and Netflix is one of the favorite trends among people.”

Sita said” Ideally speaking, growth in science and technology is important, but at the same time growth in literature pursuits is equally important. Literary books and #magazines help in building the social and emotional #culture of present society.

I said” Both types of growth( science technology +literary) complete #global overall growth of the individual. Both are equally important to create #harmony in society and nation.

Sita in her further discussion   said, "Madam Science and technology are fundamental and help in understanding and improving the world, while literary pursuits explore the human experience, creativity, and knowledge through various forms of expression like movies and drama."

I said" Literary pursuits can persuade and entertain. They explore social and ethical issues, while science and technology aim to understand the natural world, solve problems, and advance knowledge. "

Sita said " In the day-to-day life of any society and nation when science, technology, and literary pursuits are intertwined and they go hand in hand with each other then the efforts give the best results as they can mutually inform each other. "

Moral - Literature pursuits explore themes such as human nature, the universe, and ethical dilemmas in the scientific world. Science and   Technology inspire and provide the background for literary pursuits. The intersection of Both contributes to the progress of medical facilities and economic growth in the nation.

https://www.amazon.com.au/Science-Life-Nature-Poetry-Collection/dp/1521260060

https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home

Sukarma Thareja 

I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home

📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

My Books:

🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna

https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry

https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj

🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry 

https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060

💡 Note: If blog doesn't open, use VPN or add ?ncr=1

🙏 Thank you for reading!