Self Disciplined Person

 I am a science teacher in a government school. I find students are not self-disciplined, therefore they #encounter so many small problems in life. 

The other day I was talking to my students who miss the school bus and come to school in #private vehicle. I said, "Dear students, developing a strong sense of  # self-discipline is very important in life. Every person has #weak points in personality. Overcoming negative traits from one's personality is self-discipline.

I remember when my #domestic help would not come to my house. I really wished to help my mother with household #activities, but I realized I am not self-disciplined enough to do so. Gradually, I made sincere soul #efforts and within in few months, I self-disciplined myself and started #helping my mother. Every personality has natural tendency to take  shortcuts in life. One has to work extra miles to stop oneself from taking shortcuts in life. Then only one will be in a way to self-discipline. 

Self-discipline is embracing hardships and rising to challenges in life. One always encounters mental conflict in life. These can only be handled through #self-discipline. 

Will power always help one in attaining  self-discipline goals? Along with strong willpower, relaxation is also required. Are you also on path of self discipline?

Moral- one should try ones level best to play out of comfort zone in life to follow the path of self-discipline. 

Sukarma Thareja 

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Make your own world

 

I teach science in a government school. I am in charge of the co-curricular activities of the school. 

One day, my student Suman said, " Madam, we get  satisfaction when we feel we are doing the greatest thing in the world because we are doing what we love."

I said, "Dear Suman, for these things, motivation isn't required. What's essentially required is the will to act."

I further said, "Why do you wake up early every morning? Just because you've been told to wake up every day?"

Suman said, " Yes, we all . The daily routine of an average person (including us) has become part of our subconscious. And so are other things in life".

I said, "Suman, A man makes his own way. And all this happens because you have surrendered to your mind. I think you should rise above your mind, know yourself better, and make a choice."

Suman said, "We have to choose ourselves how to spend our lives. How we wish to. Because the greatest thing a man/woman can do is follow his heart.

I said, "Be a revolutionary in your own mind. Fight a battle with your mind, grow your conscience. You won't reach far ahead in life if you work only on days you feel better. Vivekananda says, "work for work’s sake. To act/create is the essence of nature. Nature is itself creation. Bring that nature into you."

I further said, "Now, since you're not doing anything concrete, you can choose anything you want! .Write a book, build an app  always wanted to work on, read something new, learn how to draw, make a film, or visit places. You can fail at what you don't want, so why not take a chance at what you want?"

My friend  Usha said, "Students, the motivation is like bathing. You need it daily. But the will, th is stronger. It becomes your purpose, the reason you're sent here."

I said, " Students, you know how a caterpillar becomes a butterfly? First of all, you should be willing to fly so much that you give up being a caterpillar. The risk of being a nobody should be more painful than the risk you’ll take to accomplish wonders."

Suman said, "So, just chill. Take a moment to let every clutter defog itself. Lose yourself, instead of trying so hard to fit yourself in this world that was never meant to be fit into. The most important thing is to make your own world in this world."

Moral - You must decide your life path. Decide it.   Break your comfort zone. Build your own world.   All you need is hard work, motivation, and willpower. The rest will follow.

Sukarma Thareja 

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