Showing posts with label peace at home. Show all posts
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Enjoy Compare or Criticize


I am a science teacher in a government school.  In my neighborhood lives a very nice lady, Mrs Mathur. I fondly call her Aunt Mathur.


Mrs Mathur is a primary school teacher. I am very friendly with her. Recently, she bought a small #diamond necklace with her hard-earned #savings. I am so, so happy with her recent purchase of a diamond necklace. This purchase is her "wish" come true.


Radha, Mrs Mathur's elder sister in law, was in the habit of comparing her jewelry with Mrs Mathur's jewelry. Radha's bad habit of comparing everything with Mrs Mathur made her own life very #difficult.


Sita's younger sister in law of, Mrs Mathur, was in the bad habit of #criticizing  Mrs Mathur. She criticized Mrs. Mathur for her recent purchase of a diamond necklace. Sita argued that there is no use in buying diamond  jewelry as it has no # resale value.


I said, " Dear Radha, stop comparing yourself with Mrs Mathur. Your #personality has many positive points. The same applies to Mrs Mathur. By comparing, you are #disturbing your stable personality. Please be positive in life."

I am happy Radha accepted my advice and stopped comparing herself with Mrs Mathur.


I further said, " Dear Sita, please stop #criticizing  Mrs Mathur. This habit is not good for you. Unnecessary, you are buying #conflicts with Mrs Mathur for no reason."

Fortunately, dear Sita also accepted my advice and stopped criticizing  Mrs Mathur. 


In this #ammicable arrangement of not 'comparing' not 'criticizing' by dear Radha and dear Sita respectively, there came a point in the life of the Mathur family, where one could see a very good arrangement that created a peaceful atmosphere in the family. This atmosphere  was good for the children of the house. Everyone in the family seems to be in a good mood in the Mathur family.


Mrs Mathur(aunt) is so happy. She expressed her # gratitude to me for advising her sister in laws, Radha and Sita, on how to implement the precious laws of life in different difficult # situations of life.


I am also so, so happy for the Mathur family.Are you also trying to be away from criticism activities at home?Please do this experiment. 

If you like my creation please comment


Moral-Best is to make life simple and peaceful. Comparison and criticism activities are not good in a peace-making exercise at home.


Sukarma Thareja
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