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Make best of Yourself

I am teaching science in Government school.My student Mohansaid "Madam,honestly, people might not always notice you, and that's okay.But I believe in being focus on being myself amazing self, regardless!

I said " Mohan take time to get to know yourself. What makes you tick? What are your passions? Self-discovery is a journey, not a destination!".

I further added"Sharing with others – whether it's your time, resources, or love – always comes back to you in amazing ways. Keep spreading that kindness!"

Mohan said "Madam every job, no matter how big or small, is important. Respect the work that others do, and take pride in your own!"

I said "Make time for self-care and relaxation. Your mind and body will thank you!"

Mohan said "Madam I am not afraid to step out of my comfort zone and try new things. That's where the magic happens!"

I said "Before making big decisions, take a deep breath and wait until you feel calm. Clarity is key!"

Mohan said " Madam good luck often follows hard work and dedication. Keep pushing yourself, and the universe will respond!"

I said "Mohan be patient with yourself and others. Keep trying, even when things get tough."

I further said "Mohan you don't need everyone to like you! Focus on being true to yourself and building meaningful relationships."

Mohan said "Madam I engage with others, listen actively – not just to respond, but to truly understand. It's a game-changer!"

He furthersaid "Sometimes, taking the harder road leads to more rewarding outcomes. I am noy afraid to put in the effort!

I said "Mohan please, read more books! Reading expands your mind, sparks imagination, and connects you with new ideas and perspectives."

Friends! are you also thinking about best life, I hope these reminders will inspire you to live your best life!

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Do not complicate life

I am a science teacher in government school. My student Cooku is primary school teacher in private school. She is married to gentelman who is also a primary school teacher in private school. They are leading a wonderful happy life.

Some time Cooku visit me in school to discuss some problems about teaching aids to be used in teaching in school.

Cooku is in habit of getting involved in thinking about material things or #external factors she sees in her life.

I tell her” dear Cooku you must change the #outlook of your life from within. Life doesn’t comprise of the material or external factors we see. Life comprises of deeper, unseen things that are more powerful than we can see or understand.”

I said ” Cooku I am science teacher, I do not follow blindly scientific principles that cannot explain #spiritual things. Spritual things are correlated with our hearts. Unfortunately younger generation is after materialistic growth. Cooku spiritual things are more powerful and control #material things. Material possessions shouldn’t contribute to your happiness or #disappointment. If that was case then every rich person should be happy ,but that is not reality.”

Cooku said ” Madam I understand that when it comes to happiness, we should work on our #internal state, especially our state of mind. Majority of our problems originate from the way we perceive other people. Living with in our means is an art but not to feel #inferior about it.”

Cooku further said “madam I some time get involved in thoughts like how come other people are better or worse by looking at the material things they posses or lack.”

I said ” best is never compare your life with others on bases of materialistic things. The problem with this thinking is that our brains start processing information #wrongly that is thinking about material and money and not beyond that.”

Cooku said”madam you are right this way of thinking screw our brain’s capacity to make accurate judgments and therefore, better choices is sometimes #hindered, leading to poor decisions that may not align with our real desires. This thinking pattern leads us to do error, more mistakes in life and that increases further misery in life.”

I further said “To achieve total happiness doesn’t require much #schooling, but requires us to draw it from within anytime we need it. It’s not dependent on external factors such as other people’s moods or attitudes.”

I further said “It’s important to understand that life is controlled by #energy or vibrations. Question like am I honest to my self, about my duties in life is very important to answer. Answer to this question can lead us to #positive energy / negative energy.”

Cooku said “madam universe gives us what we give it. If we give it negative energy, we get negative vibrations, and same is true with positive energy.”

I said ” Through concepts of science, we can’t understand these things because they’re spiritual things.”

I said “Dear Cooku please don’t #overcomplicate life, just retain positive thoughts with you, if you want happiness, and it’ll come to you.”

Sukarma Thareja

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Set your boundries for self respect

I am teaching science in government school.

My student Raju said "Madam boundaries are not like walls; they help you have better relationships. If something bothers you, speak up! Staying quiet can make people think you’re okay with it."

I said "Dear student your feelings are important, and you should be listened to. If someone doesn’t respect your boundaries, it shows they don’t really respect you, and that’s not love. Bridging relationship strong is going to be difficult exercise."

I further said "Always remember to value your own independence. You are a complete person before being a partner. A strong relationship means you grow together while still being yourself."

Raju said "Madam individual independence is very important in healthy relationship bridge.If some people do not respect your boundaries, some how you must spell out the same."

I said "Dear student self-respect is very important. Show people how to treat you by setting limits on what you will accept."

I further said " Dear student every mathematical problem has boundry conditions one must follow the same to get meaningful solution."

Raju said "Madam you are right, when establishing relationship bridge both sides should clearly define their boundary conditions and at the same time both should be clear and must respect about boundary conditions of each other .This process is best way to build trust in relationship. "

Are you building relationship bridge?If yes please concentrate on boundary conditions of both parties involved in building relationship.

Sukarma Thareja

I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home

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🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna

https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry

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🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry

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Relatioships and Path

There is unique relationship between relatioship bridges and life path on which we walk.

When you walk on life path you find strong relationship.

When you are in good relationship you find good life path.

Therefore keep walking on life path and make strong relationship bridges.

Happiness is like chandan pasted on forehead.

When who paste chandan on some ones forehead you get smell on your fingers while the one who gets privilege of chandan being pasted on forehead also get fragrance. It becomes a win win situation.

Moral- Never be miser in making. Strong relationship bridges while walking on life path.

Are you in process of making strong relationship bridges if so please keep moving forward.

Sukarma Thareja

I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home

📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

📚 My Books:

🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna

https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry

https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj

🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry

https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060

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Love Transformative Power

I was talking to my students in the 9th class. They are a curious learner.

I said, "Students please give me examples of emotions that hurt you in life."

Rakesh said, "Rejection and loneliness hurt me."

Mahesh said, "'loosing dear ones hurts me."

Ratan said "Some of my friends remain confused, they say #love hurts them. But madam according to me love is #healing emotion."

I said "I also strongly #believe love does not hurt, it heals all negative emotions. Love makes our lives wonderful and peaceful. It has the power to #transform life in better and best possible format. It can cover up our all past hurt. Love has a unique power to heal wounds caused by negative emotions, provided one gets nurtured by unconditional - true love, which is #rare to get."

Lucky people get nurtured by true and #unconditional love. Experience of being loved gives everyone an understanding of how to love #heals the pain in life. Love helps individuals to connect with others with #compassion.

Moral- In essence, love has transformative power. Love #encourages everyone in a positive direction.

Love cultivates compassion and understanding, and helps individuals to connect with others.

Feeling of love and connection, among people contributes to a more just and compassionate world.

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Sukarma Thareja

Sukarma Thareja
I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home
📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

📚 My Books:
🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna
https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj

🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060

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People Who Left Scar on you

I am a science teacher in a government school. I had a very good student Rakesh in my class. He always wanted to clear the #JEE examination. He was a bright student. He used to get reasonably good marks in Physics, Chemistry and Mathematics. I was sure he would clear JEE with #flying colors.

Somehow it so happened Rakesh was not able to clear JEE with a good rank. He was not happy. His family was #disappointed. Social pressures were very much on him and his family. I was sad for him.

After four years students told me "Madam Rakesh is doing very well in his # career. I wrote a mail to Rakesh expressing my #happiness for his career success."

Once Rakesh came to my house. He said, " I want to give some lessons to people who had put #scar on my #heart when I could not clear JEE with good rank."

I said "Dear Rakesh you are doing so good in life. People who gave a scar to your heart will see #themselves, you are living a better life than them. Please do not #waste time on them. Dear student we live life once only. It is for people who gave you scars to see they have lost. Let them know they #helped you in a good way"

Moral- Be careful with your words. Harsh and negative words can haunt some people.

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Love Hate Mathematics

One day I sent message to my grand children "Love =Tree and Hate = Electricity"

Other day my grand daughter said "Dadi while I was walking back to my class after assembly some how I was being pushed by some one.I at once remembered you Dadi, you always say never feel scared and do not leave opportunity of planting trees and spreading love."
Other day my grandson said "Nani one of my class mate said please stop talking to person x , he is no good. I at once remembered you nani.You always say hate is like Electricity .I said I will not act like electrical shock to my friend x."
I got so impressed that my grandchildren are keen follower of my quote
Love = Tree
Hate= Electricity
Simple but powerful formula to lead happy peaceful life.

Are you spreading love as tree.If yes please keep doing

Rise above Pain

I Am a science teacher in a government school. Radha and Suman were good students in my class.

Radha and her family were socially well #connected. It so happened Radha was able to fill out the national #scholarship exam through the website on the internet. But Suman, poor girl #failed to submit the form for the same scholarship exam, because of some technical #shortcomings in her computer. Suman was hurt deeply for the same. She had a hard #grudge in her mind for the same happening. I requested Suman please let things go. You can't change what happened.

Meanwhile, the school got information for another scholarship national test. Radha and Suman both filled out forms and based on interview, both got #selected for the scholarship. I said, "I am happy, Suman you kept #courage, believed in your #destiny and you chose not to let this happening to change you in negative direction."

I further said "I am happy, Suman you did not let pain overcome you. You had put brave front. Yes, I agree some things hurt us deeply bring us down, and tempt us to hold onto grudges. But let those things go. You can’t change what happened, but you can choose not to let it change you. Don’t allow pain to define who you are."

Suman said" Madam of course! I suffered setbacks from negative happening in my life. As advised by you madam I kept a positive #attitude learned from my experience and sought new opportunities in life."

Moral: Pains do come in life.Face challenges with courage. But rise above pain.

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Sukarma Thareja

I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home
📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

📚 My Books:
🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna
https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj

🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060

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🙏 Thank you for reading!

Things to avoid in life

I Used to live in a joint family. There was a lot of fun for the kids, as we had the company of so many cousins brothers and sisters.

Fortunately, my youngest aunt Usha, was a school teacher, the other four aunts were homemakers. As a kid, I used to observe that my four aunts who were homemakers used to make kind #inquiries about Aunt Usha who was teaching in school very often. Example Where is Aunt Usha .?

There was a lot of #anxiety at home when Aunt Usha's friend used to visit our home. I was a kid, I did not understand why Usha Aunty's activities were talked about and chased so critically in the house.As I grew older, I realized that Usha Aunty activities are being chased by other aunts who were makers. I never used to appreciate my other four aunts behavior.

I am an adult now, I understand there is no gain in chasing person x activities. It is better to learn some new #skills from a person whose skills are better than you. Sometimes it is better to spend that chasing time learning new skills.

Moral - It is good to chase the goals of your life. Avoid wasting time chasing people.

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People Who Make Difference in Life

Some of my friends had the myth that persons who have many good #credentials and #money in life will make #difference in their life. Some of my friends used to make great efforts and would go out of their way to please them.

My mother said "It is not true that people with many credentials and a lot of money will always make a difference in your life. They may, or may not. They simply are those who love you, like you and want to see you happy and rising in life. They can be poor, they can be rich."

Moral --love your friends dear and near ones #deeply. Be #generous with yourself, with your #time, with your love. It’s all that matters.

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Litmus Test of Life

Litmus test of life

My grand mother and grand father were great friends to each other

My grandfather was retired teacher.But he has lot of patience and was soft spoken for every one.but he was very sarcastic and short tempered for his wife my dadi. When I was upset with my Dada behavior toward my dadi but could not express my anger toward my Dada.

Now I am adult and now I realise why was his behavior was different for my dadi.why was dadi so patient with his rude behavior.

Simple answer was my dadi was living for family and extended family therefore had developed capacity of being patient.

People who are vocal like my dada and has tendency to control my dadi was actually living for himself not for others.

Both Dada and dadi were walking on same path but on opposite side of path.One path was to help other in real sense of word and other path to help other in order to control others. This is litmus test of life.

Conclusion is those who live for her/him self always spell out things.Sometimes dictate things.Those who live for others just remain quiet and absorbs sufferings.

Moral-Think that living for others (to help them) and living for others (to control them) is walking down different sides of the same path. Just live! And let others do the same for themselves.

Are you a controlling others to gain your ambitions?If yes please think it over.

Validation

We are human beings and in this high-tech world we are changing with time, therefore times we wish to seek #acceptance from others. It is good to get acceptance from a person of integrity, who is sure to give valid #suggestions. Such persons are rare to find.

But sometimes seeking acceptance is similar to people pleasing. Sometimes if you want a favor from x person to create goodwill you give an expensive present. But sometimes you constantly adjust yourself so that you get accepted by person x needs. This type of validation from person x is not good for you. It will make you weak and you will always look for someone else's validation. With this exercise sometimes you lose your #confidence also. The best is to seek your validation and make your #unique path of life."

Another day my student Ram said, "Madam I have a strong fear of not being rejected therefore I always look for my friend's validation ".

I said dear student" Some validation from friends is natural but see to it excessive reliance on external validation can negatively impact your personality. "

Are you also looking for validation from your friend?

Moral -The more you need person x validation, the more people look #down on you.

Keep your self-confidence high. Be careful some people give negative validation to make you look down on people around you.

Mile Stone in Big Fat Rat Race

My student Ram always was very #competitive person since his school days. Getting ahead of others was his favorite goal in life. Finally, he entered one of the top IITs of the nation. He was very happy to get the CSE branch in the good IIT of our country.

The other day I was talking to Ram. He said" Madam I have realized this rat race is no good in the sense someone or another will always be better than me no matter how hard I may try. Now I just #compare that every day I am better than the previous day."

He further said" With the onset of #pandemic I realized that no #milestone is big enough to claim. Therefore I am happy madam" I said" Dear student disadvantage of being in a Rat Race is constant stress. Deadlines competition leads to anxiety which mentally exhausts the person involved in the rat race."

I further said"! happiness is a state of mind. Just count your #blessings Ram and be happy in the present moment. "

I further added" Lack of Work-Life Balance:The pursuit of financial and professional success can leave little time for personal life, hobbies, and relationships. Therfore please do concentrate on work life balance. "

Moral-If you have: the roof over your head, food on your plate, your parents are alive, you don’t have any major disease..etc. Not everyone has these luxuries. There is no #need to be part of the rat race

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Co-curricular Activities add New Dimensions

When I was in school my parents taught me that activities like dance music and drama are #waste of time. I used to wonder how come it is so. Unfortunately I never got proper answer of my question.

When I joined #B. Ed degree course in college, I found that co-curricular activities make you smart in other #aspects of life which you do not cover in pure academic #curriculum.

After joining teaching at college, I found my friends not only are smart in academic activities they are smart in co-curricular activities also. I did realize it is #management of time, which my friends are good at. They spent a lot of time in activities other than academic activities. They are street smart. Participating in that endeavor they gained many #leadership skills which are so important to make them go #forward in life.

I tell my students "Dear students co-curricular activities provide you with opportunities to explore interests, develop skills, and in process help in your personal growth beyond the traditional #classroom setting."

Ramesh asked" Madam can my life be good if I just concentrate on co co-curricular activities of school and somehow don't concentrate on academic activities. "

I further said "Dear student focusing solely on co-curricular activities can offer benefits like skill development and personal growth, but generally these activities are not sufficient for all round development and successful life." .

A balanced approach that includes academics, career-oriented skills, and real-world experience is typically more beneficial.

Moral- You must try to learn #skills, whenever you get a chance to do so.

Sukarma Thareja

Alumnus IITK

India

Sukarma musing

Make best of Yourself

Do not complicate life

Set your boundries for self respect

Relatioships and Path

Love Transformative Power

People Who Left Scar on you

Love Hate Mathematics

Rise above Pain

Things to avoid in life

People Who Make Difference in Life

Litmus Test of Life

Validation

Mile Stone in Big Fat Rat Race

Co-curricular Activities add New Dimensions

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