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Maths of Love Hope and Peace

Love, hope and peace are three positive, strong emotions that help you make high EQ in life.

You should first love yourself, and then only you will build the ability to love others. Even if you encounter love from society in life, self-love will save you from the negative emotions you face in life.

Hope is a strong pillar to make a strong, healthy heart. Hope will help you in difficult circumstances. So please never give up hope. Always remain near God. He helps everyone sustain hope.

Peace is a very strong global emotion. If the world does not remain peaceful, then #chaos in life can spread like a chain reaction. Therefore, one should control all negative emotions to get a peaceful world. It is a priceless emotion. Maintaining peace in mind, heart, society, nation, and world level is very much essential to save humanity.

George Chakris Quotes

"No matter how dark the moment, Love and Hope are always possible."

Love can inspire hope, and both can contribute to a sense of peace.

Without love and hope, peace is difficult to achieve.

To summarize, I am listing an easy mathematical #formula which contains love, hope and peace as its three important ingredients.

If love is set A in itself

If hope is set B in itself

Set A union set B will give set C, which is a subset of set D that is a peace.

These three concepts are often interwoven. With love, hope, and peace, each contributing to a sense of wholeness and well-being.

For example, experiencing love from others can foster hope for the future, and finding inner peace can lead to a greater capacity for love and compassion.

Love, in the sense of compassion and concern for others, gives understanding and cooperation, while hope provides the motivation and resilience needed to overcome obstacles to peace. Without these elements, peace can be difficult to achieve and sustain.

Love : Hope : Peace: Life : Heart : World.

I hope that if you follow above above-listed formula, then happiness will remain with you.

Moral-Without love and hope it is difficult to achieve peace in society.

Sukarma Thareja
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Four types of students

I am a science teacher in a government school. I have taught four types of #students.

The Scholar:

Students who do a lot of # self-reading of subject matter. They know that they know many things relating to the subject matter. These individuals possess wisdom and self-awareness. It is a lot of fun to teach them. I have learnt many things from them. They taught me how to be patient while teaching subject knowledge with a lot of #dedication. Some of these students are over achiever.

2. The Forgetful Knower:

The second type of student I have taught is those who have good knowledge of the subject, but they do not realise that they know. It seems these individuals have forgotten their knowledge. They do not know their potential. They are persons who know but do not realize that they know. The teacher has to gently #remind them of their wisdom, for they may not be aware of their #potential. Some of them are visual Learners. They learn through charts and videos.

3. The Eager Learner:

The third type of students I taught are eager learners

They know that they do not know. But a positive point is that due to a lack of knowledge, they are eager to learn. I have taught those individuals very fondly, as I know that they have the potential to learn #eagerly and they are future #scholars. They are good at doing homework work.They do science projects with a lot of interest.

The fourth type of students I taught are those who face teaching #challenge. Neither do they know the subject matter nor are #interested to learn. They are ignorant and indifferent to knowledge. Some students have some problems in family and concept formation. The teacher has to help those students at many levels. Some people think it is better to #avoid them teaching. But I used to #motivate them to learn, and I must say I was partially #successful in my efforts for them.

Are you student? Mentioned above which category you fall into?Please comment.

Sukarma Thareja

Justice and solution

When there is problem on both side but both sides are dear and near one's.Then best is never go for finding justice.This is important as justice only one side will get and relationships will get strained.

In such a situation best is to find solution to problem in that case both will get justice and relationship bridge become strong.

Yes finding solution to problem is a big assignment but one must look for win win situation as solution to problem honoured by both sides is best possible which give benefit.Wise people alwsys follow that path.

Are you also looking for best possible solution when get caught in problem where both sides are dear and near to you?

Sukarma Thareja

Behaviour of Person

Behaviour is like signature of person.Please keep consistent behaviour of kindness towards others but with a word of caution that no body take your kindness for ride.

Time in life any way will pass as time does not wait for anyone, kindly make worthit. An iota time put in negative activity is not going to make you peaceful.

Sukarma Thareja

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Abusive Relationships

I am a science teacher in a government school. My student Geeta was always #disturbed as her father was #abuser toward her mother. Though her father was nice to Geeta. But Geeta never liked her father's behaviour toward her #mother. She has no courage to #oppose the same.

On one occasion, I met Geeta's mother. I very humbly inquired about #abusive nature of her husband.

Geeta's mother was a very #humble religious lady. She said, "Madam, I am the mother of two kids. I am not qualified enough to stand on my own feet. I am happy my husband is not abusive to his #kids ."

Geeta's mother further said, "Madam, it is connection bond, and emotional #attachment that I have created in 25 years of my #married life. When he gets disturbed from office work or any other dimension of his life, he becomes abusive to me. My husband considers me to be #cushion to take out his frustration. Sometimes he feels sorry about the same. For my husband, it is not a new thing. He has seen his father abusing his mother many times. So he is used to his #unhealthy behaviour."

She further said,' For him dignity of a woman is no value for him. Our extended in-laws' family also thinks along the same lines. They think this abusive #behaviour is between husband and wife life. Therefore, my extended family never takes up this issue in a positive #manner."

She further added, "Madam, it takes so much time, energy, and #trust to build this bond between husband and wife. It is not easy for me to just let go of a life I have built with my husband. I forgive him for my kids. He is gradually improving. I hope one day he will completely give up his bad #habit and will admire my #patience.

I said to Geeta's mother, "If you think that by taking help from outside agencies, which are ready to help in such situations, your problem can be solved to some extent. I am ready to help you by providing the right information."

Geeta's mother said, "Thanks, madam, for thinking about my problem. I will work on finding a solution to the same and will be in touch with you to get help."

I saluted Geeta's mother for her immense #patience and courage she has acquired to #forgive her husband for his abusive nature. May God bless Geeta's Mother and family. I wish that may God gives her strength and courage to seek help from the concerned agencies to solve her problem."

There is no harm taking help from outside if one is in difficult situation of life Gathering courage is first step to do so.To do so first one must build confidence in her/ his personality.

One should seek help from others if possible to make the abuser go in the right direction.

Thin Line Between Pressure and Great pressure

My friend Asha was preparing for the NEET(National Entrance Test for MBBS). Examination. The whole family supported her in her dream college entry.

Asha's grandfather retired army office. He used to support Asha in her every activity, that is #academic and co-curricular activities.

Unfortunately, Asha could not pass the #NEET examination with good marks. She was unhappy about it.

Asha'a grandfather asked Asha "What is the reason you could not pass the NEET examination"

AshA said" Grandpa due to so much work #pressure in the form of assignments given by the coaching center. I used to get #confused."

Asha's grandfather introduced Asha to a family who had no #home. The family was putting up on #road. Grandpa gave that family some money for #food. Within a week the family was assigned a small #house also.

Asha was surprised at how much pressure the homeless #family was living under.

Asha's grandfather said" Look Asha these homeless people are under #pressure. You are given each #facility you asked for. You say I am under pressure."

Asha understood the meaning of pressure. For her second attempt to appear for the NEET examination, she worked hard. Asha came out of the NEEt examination with #flying colors. The whole family was happy for Asha.

MORAL -Real pressure in life is felt by those who do not know when and where their next #meal will come.

Reading Writing Skill

I am a science teacher in a government school. My friend Usha is a good primary teacher at our school. Usha and I strongly believe that to learn reading #writing skills is a must for #primary school kids. But to make little kids perfect in reading, writing, language, and using it in #expressing views and making arguments requires a lot of hard # persuasion and #motivation in primary school.

My experience tells. When parents support teachers in this effort, children come out of this exercise with flying colors.

Many parents do not realise the importance of reading and writing. They do not take this concept seriously and do not support teachers to a large extent.

I share my writing with my school students. I find it is a great way to teach them about writing. For example, I could write an essay containing intentional errors and then ask my students to find errors in my writing. The goal is to inspire them to write and understand that writing is a journey on which they may improve if they persevere.

Doing neat writing with proper use of #verbs, placing capital letters where required, putting commas and semicolons are different forms of little knowledge that primary school students should know while making use of language in reading and writing. Unfortunately, lots of students lack sufficient practice. Due to this, students remain not well #versed with the #art of ‘reading’ and ‘writing’. With this flaw, we are pushing ourselves and kids down the #ladder in personal and #professional life.

These are the 2 basic human activities, reading and writing, that are taught to us in #kindergarten; yet most people sadly #neglect them throughout their lives.

Are you working with your students or children to make them good in skill of reading and writing?

Please comment if ppossible.

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Person and personality

One day our spritual science teacher said "Dear students according to shrimad Bhagvad Gita our body is made of five gross elements ,earth water, air fire and ether .We are not owner of our body.In end of life journey our body get mixed in same gross elements.

I said "Therefore friends never try to live as person but as personality.World forgets persons but it never forgets personality that touches souls."

I further said "Person can live for 100 years and leave this world while personality can live for centuries ".

Are you also working on your personality.

Moral -Please develop personality by inculcating positive traits in your personality.

Sukarma Thareja

How to Achieve Success through World treasure

An important question many students ask very often, Where is the world treasure hidden?

Mohan said "Some people think it is hidden in #bank . Some think the world treasure is hidden in very #secret places which are not reach to the common man."

Sohan said " Some think the world's treasure is hidden in Mother Nature. Many think that world treasure is hidden in very specific places so that it could be away from the greed of the common man, and nobody could #steal that."

I said " Students but my view is different, world treasure is hidden in #books. So, please read good books whenever possible and get a chance. Books give you the treasure of the world in a #friendly way. They never get #annoyed while imparting #knowledge, which is a treasure of the world."

I further said"Books are of immense value as a source of knowledge, wisdom, and inspiration. They enrich our lives in many aspects: 1. by expanding our minds, 2. enhancing our creativity, 3. offering new perspectives. "

Radha said "Madam the above-listed three points make Books become real treasure of the world. They are just the first step to success, but books can not give one everything one needs to achieve. For book knowledge to work on a person/they need to take action. "

Moral-A book will never change a person's life, no matter how many of them one reads, until they make sense to the person and use that knowledge to improve his/her life.

Sukarma Thareja

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Greatfulness

I am a science teacher in a government school. In the PTA meeting, I happened to interact with the respected parents of my students. Some parents only talk about their #materialistic haves and have-nots. I keep wondering why they are so much into this type of # mindset."

I say to my students, "Please be #thankful for what you have, and don't stress yourself about what you have or you don't have. #Life won't give you what you don't have until you're #grateful for what you have."

Many of my students do not understand that it is not good if we are not grateful to the Almighty.

I tell my students, "Please do count on your #blessings. It will slow down your aging clock. It breaks under the stress of your life."

One student said, "Madam, being thankful, you bond with #allmighy and other members of society. You become near to God and Mother Nature."

I said, "Gratitude has a positive impact on the good health of your #heart, and to some extent, it makes your waistline ."

I further said"It's a lifelong mindset that can lead to overwhelmingly positive effects. From helping us reduce anxiety and increasing our sense of connection to loved ones, having a grateful attitude even in the smallest of situations can make a big difference."

The question is how to practice gratefulness ?

Radhe said. "Smiling, saying thank you, writing thank you notes, and keeping a gratitude journal are all ways to cultivate gratefulness."

I said "What Impact does this activity have on individuals?"

Gokul said"Gratefulness can help individuals appreciate what they value, embrace the fullness of life, and see opportunities in challenges."

Are you practicing habit of being grateful?

Please do write comment.

Spectrum of Flow of Moments

Other day I was discussing about Maths of past-present-future with my students.

I said "Mathematical equation relating three #forms of time can be written as follows."

Past : Present : Future :: Lesson : Gift : :motivation

I further said" From #past we learn important lessons of our life. We have no control over it in life. But its valuable experiences are treasure for us. They are life lessons. They enlighten our life."

Kishan said "Our #Present is Gift to us . We have control over it. We can utilise same indirectly where we wish to use it positively. "

Kanta said " Madam our #future is our motivation. We always have wishfull thinking that tomorrow we will do this/ that work. Tomorrow has degree of uncertainty also. Motivation hidden in tomorrow is driving force of our life."

Rajan said "If we want to live life as #Gift of God, it is good to take wisdom from past #experiences keeping future as #motivation in life."

I said "Past,present and future are part of time spectrum.There is continuity from past to present and from present to future."

Ram asked "Madam is there a clear separation between past pre sent and future."

I said "There isn't a clear separation between the past, present, and future, but rather a continuous flow of moments."

Radha said "Madam for sure the past influences the present, and the present becomes the past, constantly shaping the future. "

Moral- Present time is most #precious in our life. Do not let it go away in waste activity.

Are you concentrating on your present time?

Please do write comments.

EQ gets you home IQ gets you a seat

The other day, I was talking to my students about the EQ and IQ of a person. It is important to work on improving EQ and IQ.

I said, "Dear students, IQ -full form is intelligence Quotient. It can be tested in a laboratory. IQ tests measure your ability to solve problems, use logic, and grasp or #communicate complex ideas.It is reflected in mark sheet.

I further said, "EQ full form is emotional Quotient. EQ can be tested in a laboratory. EQ tests measure a person's ability to recognize #emotion in him/her self and others, and to use that awareness to guide their own decisions.

One student said," Madam, generally good #leaders have EQ greater than IQ. Intelligent persons with high IQ not only work on growing their skills, if circumstances permits, they see the emotional needs of other persons and try their best to help the needy in the growth of their skills in process/they grow his/ her EQ.

I said" the best way to increase or improve your EQ is to #observe and write down your emotions at a definite time at a definite interval throughout your day and try to correlate the behavior motions cause."

I further added"to improve your IQ, you can write how an x problem in day-to-day life can be solved without facing the least hindrance in way. It is like following the same approach as working through #mathematical problems. "
I further said, "High IQ does not automatically indicate a high EQ, while having a high EQ may indicate a high or average IQ at least and predict success at work ".

I also guided students about how to increase the EQ of a person .My submissions were following
1.Create a safe space where children feel comfortable expressing their feelings without judgment.
2.Validate their emotions:
3.Acknowledge and validate their feelings, even if you don't understand them or they seem excessive.

I also guided students about how to increase the IQ of a child

1.Try and steer children towards being curious, engaging, smart and individual, giving them lots of time and attention helps. Be present. Talk to them nonstop, even before they're born. Read to them from day one. Explode them to books, libraries, the news, knowledge and the

Sohan said"The EQ of a person can increase by observing model's healthy emotional behavior"
I said, "The best way to increase EQ is to show children how to manage their own emotions by openly discussing their feelings and how they handle them. "
Mohan said, "Madam IQ helps with strategic thinking, data analysis, and planning. "
Sohan said, "EQ drives communication, motivation, and connection."

Raghu said " People with higher EQ make good relationship bridges.while persons with higher IQ get good rank in professional examination. "

Many students said," Madam, from now onwards we will work on improving our IQ and EQ."
I, as a teacher is so so happy that I can make my students think in #positive direction.
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Sukarma Thareja

Sukarma Thareja

I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home
📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

📚 My Books:
🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna
https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj

🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060

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🙏 Thank you for reading!

Biodata vs Soul

Mom:Daughter! we are indian,

We believe in arrange marriage.

Daughter: Mom! Many girls have to marry

to wallet, not men.

Mom: Many boys are forced to marry faces,

not hearts.

Daughter :Mom!two strangers are forced

To build a life,

Just because their parents liked a biodata.

Mom:Daughter !families check salary slips,

not compatibility.

Daughter : Mom !horoscope matches, but the souls don’t.

Mom :Daughter! Love is optional, dowry is mandatory.

Daughter: Mom!Tradition win,individual lose.

Do you also believe in arrange marriage?please do write your comments .

Sukarma Thareja

True Man

True Men Touch Souls, Not Just Bodies

Mother: Daughter there’s a difference between a man

who wants you…

And a man who understands you.

Daughter: Mother anyone can say beautiful words.

Anyone can give gifts.

Anyone can chase woman for a night.

Mother :But a true man?

He sits with your silence,

And doesn’t rush to fill it.

Daughter:He remembers the thing you ,

Mentioned once, three months ago,

He notices when your smile is lying/real ,

He makes you feel safe enough to be soft.

Mother:That’s when he touches your soul.

Daughter : Mother See, the body is material

But the soul?

Mother :Daughter the soul only opens ,

To someone who’s patient, honest, and kind.

Daughter: Mother A man who touches the heart

First will always be remembered,

A man who only touches the body,

will always be forgotten.

Mother:Daughter true men don’t demand ,

They earn respect and trust ,

They don’t take ,

They protect,

They don’t break woman

They build her.

Daughter : Mother when a woman feels,

That her soul is respected,

She gives her heart without fear.

Mother: Daughter!That’s not weakness.

That’s trust.

So yes. Men who are able to touch,

The soul and heart of a woman,

are true ,

The rest are just passing by men .

Do you agree to same thoughts?

Please share the comments if possible.

Sukarma Thareja

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Contributions of art Crochet

I am a science teacher in a government school. I am very lucky to have Mrs Mathur, my immediate neighbour. Mrs Mathur is a very good, mature, old, wise lady. She is a single mother of five grown-up kids.

She raised five kids single-handedly, and her kids were her whole #world.

She was working as a teacher in school before marriage.

She always thought that her kids were above her # career and social life. Ultimately, her whole life moved in circles of #motherhood duties. Now her #kids have grown up and are doing very well in their respective #professions. They do visit her whenever they get time. She also visits them whenever she gets #opportunity to do so.

She tells me, "Madam, now my kids are out of the house and I am alone. I am #struggling to find out who I am?"

I suggested that Mrs Mathur conduct Crochet classes for the community of our building. I said," This art has many dimensions. It is a creative art. It does not require much money either. This art helps old people in activating acupressure points of the body."

Mrs Mathur liked my suggestion. Now she conducts crochet classes in the community hall of our building. She charges a little fee to conduct the same. Community ladies very fondly learn this old #craft. These classes are giving Mathur aunt #fame and some # financial help. It is a win win situation. Mathur aunty and her children are happy. I am also happy. Senior community ladies are happy. Everyone involved in this activity is getting a feeling of #satisfaction.

With the efforts of Mrs Mathur, the crochet community has increased. It has become vast and supportive, offering opportunities to connect with others who share their passion for crochet and learn from the experiences of others who know the craft. Young girls of our building are learning some tricks of Mathematics in topics like permutations combination through crochet classes.

Studies have shown that crocheting can be a form of therapy, helping with mental health conditions and life events such as grief or chronic illness.

Moral-involving community in positive activity is a satisfying experience.

It helps in overthinking

Keep thinking, and doing nothing throws in the darkness of our own mind.

Writing down things helps dealing with overthinking, and ending up on a conclusion turns it into deep thinking with practical outcomes.

Writing down things do play a vital role in transferring knowledge and wisdom to the next generations. (Just think for a moment, what if our ancestors didn't have crafted things and texts on stones and leather? What if they never had the scriptures?)

The bonus point is, it is the only wealth that increases on sharing. You invest by share something and get more and more in return.

Sukarma Thareja

Wise Daughter

Mr and Mrs Gupta are my next door neighbours. They have one daughter Radha. Radha was my brilliant student in my school.

Since childhood, Radha daughter of Mr and Mrs Gupta had one peculiar habit —

About 4–5 days before her birthday, she would start asking,

“Papa and mom, did you buy the gift for my birthday?"

Mr and Mrs Gupta would smile and shake their head, saying no.

Radha would yell in anger.

But on her birthday, when she would get a surprise gift, from her parents her happiness would knew no bounds!

This time, Radha was at her in-laws’ home.

Still, Mr and Mrs Gupta bought a gift and went to her in -laws house, intending to surprise Radha on her birthday.

Quietly, they entered the house .Up to their surprise from inside, they could hear Radha crying, and her husband and mother-in-law arguing loudly.

Mrs Gupta said " Madam my heart sank. Heavy-hearted, we turned around and walked away. Standing on the main road outside, we called Radha through mobile phone and expressed our wish to visit her."

She replied,

“Papa, mom please donot come today . We’re going out for dinner —my parent in laws and my husband are celebrating my birth day .We all are going for dinner outside. After all it’s my birthday today."

I said "Madam Gupta, your daughter Radha , who once seemed so delicate yet stubborn, how much she has changed with time…"

I further said "Mrs Gupta please do not worry about Radha.With time things will improve.These small happenings here and there are little human errors in woman's life which make her strong perfect daughter and daughter in law.You should feel proud of Radha."

Mrs Gupta did not utter a single word but tears rolled down her cheeks.Are you also wise daughter?

Moral - Human emotions change with respect to time.

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Working Hard vs Spending Time Quote Sukarma Thareja

Working hard for your family is important, but spending time with them is even more important. Because children remember your presence, not your wealth.

Are you spending time with your family?

Sukarma Thareja

Truth Power

I am a science teacher in a government school. My student, Govind, is in the habit of not speaking the truth. Many students of his class used to #ignore him for the same.

Once I asked Govind about his different behavior of not speaking the truth. He accepted that, madam, I know sometimes I am at #fault.

I said," Dear Govind, please leave this habit of not speaking the truth. You will soon realize your friends will not #trust you. You will be labelled as a category of not untrustworthy boy. That #tag will go a long way with you."

I further said, "Dear Govind, please understand truth and trust are strong #pillars of a good relationship bridge. If you happen to lose one, the other will fall. Truth and trust go hand in hand with each other. Never think that you can go high in life with #cretches of not speaking the truth."

Govind said," Dear Madam, I realize lying can erode my trust in my group and make it difficult to maintain healthy relationships. "

I said, "Dear Govind, A reputation for dishonesty not speaking the truth can be difficult to repair."

Govind said," Madam, I realised whenever I conceal the truth that leads me to feelings of guilt and shame. "

I said," Dear Govind, you will soon realize concealing the truth can be challenging for effective communication. When one is not being truthful, psychology says this exercise of not speaking the truth can make it harder for a person to express his/her needs and desires, leading to misunderstandings. That person's mind is not clear and is full of fog, going here and there randomly. "

On my advice, Govind changed his behavior of not speaking the truth.

Other students of his class said to me, " Madam, now Govind is a different person altogether. He does not believe in not speaking the truth. He is an entirely #new person. It is fun and joyful talking and working with him. Now we students count Govind among #trustworthy friends."

I, as a teacher, was so happy for my student, Govind. He accepted my # advice, and he is being respected in his peer group.

Are you in habit of concealing facts ?

Moral - Please see that not speaking the truth is not going to take you a long way. Truth allows people to see the world as it is. It has good components and it has bad components. Therefore, not speaking the truth is not going to make us wiser

Truth allows people to see the world as it is. It has good components and it has bad components. Therefore, not speaking the truth is not going to make us wiser.

Social Pressure

I am science teacher in government school. My student Manju had six sisters. Manju's family was my next door neighbour. Manju and her sisters were very fond of wearing new #dresses. My neighbour Mrs Gupta(Manjus mother) was also fond of buying dresses for her dear daughters. But some how she was in habit of collecting good dresses for her daughters. She will not let her daughters wear those beautiful dresses.

My neighbour daughters used to #complain to me for wrong doing of their respected mother.

One day I said "Mrs Gupta please let girls enjoy their dresses now. Who knows about their future."

Mrs Gupta had her own reply, she said " Madam at the time of marriage of each daughter we being parents of daughter have to give many beautiful dresses to our daughter and ladies of groom family, thaswhy I am collecting the dresses for same."

Other day I happen to meet Manju in a market. She said "Madam dresses my mother collected for giving me for my wedding are out of fashion now. Therefore all collections of dresses which my mother did are of no use to me."

Social pressures can be positive or negative impact on society.

Social pressure of making aged parents stay with children has positive impacts in society.On the other hand social pressure of dowry custom has negative impact on society.

I realised social pressre can be from peer group, friend and family. It is question of conforming to norms. For some reason if you happen to not conform to norm of a group you will not be accepted in group. Same was happening to Manju's family. Mother was trying her best so that her doings are accepted by society. Somehow Manju and her sisters were not happy with same as they had their own norms which were not acceptable to their mother.Hence a big conflict between mother and daughters due to different social pressures.

Are you also feeling social and peer pressure in some form or other.

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Social pressures can be positive or negative impact on society.

Social pressure of making aged parents stay with children has positive impacts in society.On the other hand social pressure of dowry custom hasnegative impact on society.

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Sukarma musing

Maths of Love Hope and Peace

Four types of students

Justice and solution

Behaviour of Person

Abusive Relationships

Thin Line Between Pressure and Great pressure

Reading Writing Skill

Person and personality

How to Achieve Success through World treasure

Greatfulness

Spectrum of Flow of Moments

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