Friends Books Thoughts

 I am blessed with good #friends. They guide me in every path of my life.

I go to the public library, and I am fortunate that I can read good books.

I have my respected seniors who are acquainted with the shortest route to reach college. I go by scooty, and I follow the same minimum #mileage route to college suggested by my seniors..That saves me a lot of time and energy.

Some of my friends taught me how to do right #thinking. They taught me 1. not to bunk classes. 2. Each class taught in college gives you valuable knowledge. 3. Making fair #notes of what is taught in class makes you good at subject matter 4. Many of my friends who were good at co-curricular activities encouraged me to #participate in the same. As a result, I started doing creative  #writing.

5. With interactions with my friends, I started reading books in the reading room in the college library.

Reading keeps my brain active, which is crucial for maintaining good mental health.

Reading unwinds and reduces stress. It Increases my knowledge-science and Vocabulary:

It expands my vocabulary and I learn new things by reading a diverse range of books. 

Reading literary fiction, in particular, helps me understand others' perspectives and improve my social skills by understanding real-life experiences. 

Moral -Try to keep good friends, read good books, keep good thoughts, walk on right path of life to get a peaceful #prosperous life. Even if you miss one #component listed above, in life. Life will #shatter like anything.

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Sukarma Thareja
I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home
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📚 My Books:
🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna
https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
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🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry 
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060

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Revised Control life is Different from Let go Life

 

I am a science teacher in a government school. The other day, I met my very bright student, Sudha, at a school seminar.

Sudha said, "Madam, after getting married, it is good that I have made many new #relationships. I have learnt many new #skills also. But  sometimes I feel a little odd that  I am not able to do many activities that I used to do before  marriage, very fondly."

Sudha further said, "Madam, I was a regular visitor to the public library(once a week). I used to do creative writing regularly. I helped my helper son with Mathematics every other day. But after marriage, because of my new #responsibility,  I have to let go of some of my previous activities to which I had almost complete  control."

I said, "Sudha, you have to make #equilibrium between what you can control and what you can let go. For example, you can visit the public library after one month instead of going every week. Life is a collection of experiences of #changes with time. Your skill is in handling these changes so that life remains in equilibrium. Try to make the equilibrium #constant value  limit to  "one" for the above said equilibrium."

I further  said, "Dear Sudha, in life, control is actively trying to #micromanage outcomes, often driven by fear and a desire for certainty."

Sudha said, "While letting go in life is about consciously choosing to forget attachment to outcomes."

I said, " Dear Sudha, in let go process of life, you have to trust the process, and embrace uncertainty and the unknown."

Sudha said, "Madam, what you said is right. A balanced approach involves taking control of what you can (like your choices and reactions) and letting go of what you can't (like other people's behaviors or unpredictable events), leading to a more fulfilling and less stressful life."

Moral -Balance between #efforts to live and #surrender to live is a must to live a peaceful life.

Sukarma Thareja
I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home
📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

📚 My Books:
🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna
https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj

🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry 
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060

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Hold on Good Relationships

I am a science  teacher in government  school. I am incharge  of co curricular  activities.

I said " Students today  is festival #'Raksha Bandhan'. It is Indian  festival which  #strengthen  the bond between  brother and sister. "

I further said "In festival  of Raksha Bandhan, I remember  old days when we were young and used to celebrate  in our own way. There used to be fragrance of love and #respect  for family bonds."

Asha said"Madam today is 'Raksha Bandhan' festival I very much wish to tie Rakhi to my dear brother in person. It is not possible for me, as he lives at far distance from my place. My heart beats to celebrate  festival  in same spirit."

I said "Friends!  #time and #destiny is not in my hand. Even my #heart beat is also not in my hand.But one thing which is in my hand to wish my dear brother "happy Raksha Bandhan". So I hold phone and #telephonically give my best wishes to my dear brother, for his long and prosperous  life. I am so happy for same.This way I am able to maintain long term, deep friendships with my brother, in which I am able to become a caring sister. I derive great satisfaction from that."

My student Radhe said "Madam I know person who totally disrespect his sisters putting his fantasy feelings ahead of his sister real desires."

Radhe further said "I realize that’s a lousy, selfish thing to do."

I said "Dear Radhe in a  situations mentioned by you, people  selfishness ruines all feelings of tenderness and friendship in relationship. "

I further said" Respect and trust are two important  apps to hold on for making good relationship. This relationship can be between boss and employee , brother and sister, two friends, husband and wife. Following  these basic apps of trust and respect you get satisfaction when you hold on to relationships. Even relationships can go for ever."

Moral-Please hold on good #relationships 

Sukarma Thareja
I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home
📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

📚 My Books:
🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna
https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj

🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry 
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060

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Sukarma Thareja 

Alumnus IITK 

India