There are many homes, when you visit them, you find all things are so neat and clean and are kept so #meticulously and unknowingly you start #comparing yourself and appreciating your friends, how come they can do such a big show with such a high degree of accuracy while you(I) can not do so. Sometimes you do feel #guilty also.
Then sometimes you do self-talk also. "Nevertheless, you are so good at making things functional in your house in your way. You are good at multitasking. When you are cooking, you always give instructions to your kids and teach them mantras on how to approach problems in mathematics. In this process, you save a lot of your time and the time of your dear children. Dear! You make your children wise and make them smart and give them exposure to saving time exercise, while they have so many assignments to be finished in a limited #time.'
I continue with my self-talk and say to myself, " Dear(me), your aesthetic sense is very good, but that does not get a chance to come up and manifest in your home decoration. This is so because, being a working woman, you have so many domestic tasks to finish in a limited time before going to the office. So your aesthetic sense does not come up at #priority and takes a back seat for you in your house. It's OK, dear me) maybe when children grow (enough) old, you may be able to do so."
What sets us #apart? What makes us different from each other is a big question. My observation is that when we shift our attention to personal #growth and happiness, those feelings of #insecurity tend to fade away. Remember, everyone is on their/his #journey, and everyone's path is unique and valuable in its way.
It’s completely normal to feel a pinch of insecurity when we compare ourselves to others, especially when it seems like some people effortlessly #excel in areas we find challenging. But we must understand and accept that every personality has positive(#strength) and negative(weakness) traits.
Moral-Never compare yourself with others. Please try to walk on your chosen #path, to fulfill #goals of your life.
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Sukarma Thareja
Sukarma Thareja
I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos ๐ธ๐
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๐ My Books:
๐ฎ๐ณ Hindi: Kishor Chetna
https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW
๐บ๐ธ English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
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๐บ๐ธ English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060
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