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EQ gets you home IQ gets you a seat



The other day, I was talking to my students about the EQ and IQ of a person. It is important to work on improving  EQ and IQ.


I said, "Dear students, IQ -full form is intelligence  Quotient. It can be tested in a laboratory. IQ tests measure your ability to solve problems, use logic, and grasp or #communicate complex ideas.It is reflected in mark sheet.


I further said, "EQ full form is emotional Quotient. EQ can be tested in a laboratory.  EQ tests measure a person's ability to recognize #emotion in him/her self and others, and to use that awareness to guide their own decisions.


One student said," Madam, generally good  #leaders have EQ greater than IQ.  Intelligent persons with high IQ not only work on growing their skills, if circumstances permits, they see the emotional needs of other persons and try their best to help the needy in the growth of their skills in process/they grow his/ her EQ.


I said" the best way to increase or improve your EQ is to #observe and  write down your emotions  at a definite time at a definite interval throughout your day and try to correlate the behavior motions cause."


I further added"to improve your IQ, you can write how an x problem in day-to-day life can be solved without facing the least hindrance in way. It is like following the same approach as working through  #mathematical problems. "

 I further  said, "High IQ does not automatically indicate a high EQ, while having a high EQ may indicate a high or average IQ at least and predict success at work ".


I also guided students about how to increase the EQ of a person .My submissions were following 

1.Create a safe space where children feel comfortable expressing their feelings without judgment. 

2.Validate their emotions:

3.Acknowledge and validate their feelings, even if you don't understand them or they seem excessive. 


I also guided students about how to increase the IQ of a child


1.Try and steer children towards being curious, engaging, smart and individual, giving them lots of time and attention helps. Be present. Talk to them nonstop, even before they're born. Read to them from day one. Explode them to books, libraries, the news, knowledge and the


Sohan said"The EQ of a person can increase by observing model's healthy emotional behavior"

I said, "The best way to increase EQ is to show children how to manage their own emotions by openly discussing their feelings and how they handle them. "

Mohan said, "Madam IQ helps with strategic thinking, data analysis, and planning. "

Sohan said, "EQ drives communication, motivation, and connection."

Raghu said " People with higher EQ make good relationship bridges.while persons with higher IQ get good rank in professional  examination. "

Many students  said," Madam, from now onwards we will work on improving  our IQ and EQ."

I, as a teacher is so so happy that I can make my students think in  #positive direction. 

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Sukarma Thareja


 Sukarma Thareja

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Leader Raising Voice

I am a science teacher in a government school. I had a very #brilliant student, Radha, in my class. I had made her monitor of class. She was very #meticulous in her work. She had scientific aptitude. For executing small science experiments in the lab, I  always used to take her help. She used to give new ideas to group mates involved in #executing a science experiment. She had good skills in making a report of the experiment. I always used to suggest other students in my class to #consult Radha before submitting a report of a science experiment. 


Unfortunately, Radha had a habit of #raising her voice with her friends when they were not able to follow her instructions. Since Radha was in the habit of #raising her voice so other students always used to complain to me, "Madam Radha is a good leader, but she #raises her voice whenever we are not able to implement her instructions. We feel Madam Radha has #superiority complex. "


I called Radha and said, "Radha, it is not good to #raise your voice while giving your valuable consultations to fellow students. Please practice # self-control to make yourself a better science student. It is better to raise your words. Using words which give #positive appeal in an argument with fellow students always brings #positive results.' 'Radha started following my advice, and I observed she used to try her best not to #raise her voice with fellow friends and students. Radha became a better #leader. She herself realised that positive change in her personality has made her a more #accepted and popular leader of students. Are you also in habit of raising voice?


Moral - #Raising voice is not going to help one make one's argument effective. It is better to make efforts to #raise positive words in one's argument #statement. 

Sukarma Thareja 

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write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos

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English book-Making Science Easy :Photo-Poetry Collection 

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