Sports Teaching

 Sports is not only fitness,

Fitness is small part of sports ,

Sports teaches you how to loose ,

No other activity teaches you so ,

May be working for company  ,

May be working for super house,

May be you are home maker,

You can't afford to loose sports 

sports gives you another,

 Chance even If you loose,

 Sports teaches,

You collaboration ,

Even if it is individual game  ,

You need coach ,

That means collaboration,

Therefore friends,

Educators,

Make sports integral part of

Curriculum.

 Respected woman folks,

You share,

Responsibility of home,

 And work front ,

Please make sports ,

Part of your routine,

 Friends sports will make 

You strong  ,

By giving you ,

Another chance ,

Which will make you ,

Integrated to world,

Even if you loose 

You will have the courage  , 

Even when time ,

 Is not with you .

Sukarma Thareja 

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Please Take out Time

 Take out time for your day to day activities  of life,

This is a promise for successful  life ,

Take out time for doing playing activities in life ,

This is secret to remain young,

Take out time for reading writing activities   ,

This is foundation  to your knowledge.,

Take out time for positive  social activities  ,

This is foundation  to happiness  in life.

Take out time for positive  dreams in life.

This will  make you know  your goals of life,

Take out some time to do free activities in life,

This is music of soul ,

Time of your life is Gold.

Time spent in life creats history,

Coming time in life is uncertain  ,

Present time in life is precious  gift ,

Enjoy and value your present time in life.

Sukarma Thareja 

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Personal Capital vs Social capital

 When I was small my whole family used to visit our village during summer vacation. It was such a great experience visiting out grand parents. Village was very clean and we will go for morning walk in mango tree garden, near by. It was so refreshing to see wheat crops. We were privileged in sense every one recognized that we are grand children of lawyer Kohli. Every one treated us like guest. Which side of village we go we were welcomed with open arms.

It was very pleasant experience for all of us, but since I was very small could never find out why it was so, ie why it was such a rich experience visiting my grandparents.

Now I have grown old, I can analyse that people of my grand parents village were very wise. Every Saturday night village had panchayat and people having any ‘x’ problem was given sympathetic hearing. My grandparents  used to help everyone solve their problems. 

After few years my grand parents started living in US.They will send some fixed amount of money for well fare of their village.Once in two years they will visit their village.They were deeply involved in making their village better. For that my grandparents were  respected  by villagers.

Friends moral of story is that my grand parents village has good amount of social capital, therefore people who had personal capital were happy  and felt proud to live in that village. Same was the reason ie social capital of the village made us- children happy visiting our grand parents village.

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Woman anti to Woman

 My son was an intern in one of the biggest hospitals in India. He was posted in Haryana state. As we all know, Haryana is famous for female foeticide. So much so that the sex ratio is 900  females to 1000 males.

My son's friend Suresh used to visit our house. It so happened that he was from Haryana. Jokingly, he will tell me," Dear aunty, I can not get a good match to marry, as the girl who was destined to marry me was killed in the female foeticide drive of Haryana." I used to feel sad for him, but I had no courage to express my sadness in front of him.

My son was posted in Haryana as an intern, and at 2.30 in the night, a woman came with labor pains.

The protocol demands that the doctor on duty do a per vaginal examination and decide whether to admit or refer, depending upon the effacement/dilatation of the cervix/previous history.

The woman was in labor, accompanied by her mother-in-law and sister in law at 2.30 in the night. My son was the only doctor on duty, and their first demand was  - they want a female doctor.

When they realized that my son was the only doctor on duty, they finally agreed to have an examination done by my son.

The woman in labor was sufficiently dilated, and my son asked the nurses to admit her.

 It was her first child. As luck would have it, the woman gave birth to a girl child.

Their concerned faces(the mother-in-law and her sister), who only wanted a female doctor to examine her, suddenly turned upside down. They told my son, ‘If it were a male child, it would have been less painful for the mother with the labor pains and less painful for us too.’

The same mother-in-law and sister in law who were refusing her(the woman with labour pain) to be examined by a male doctor(my son) and wanted a female doctor to examine their daughter-in-law, now suddenly were sad that she gave birth to a female child.

My son told me above above-listed story. I at once remember dear Suresh, my son's good friend

I immediately thanked God for being so nice to this universe and for creating males and females in equal numbers.I am so worried that if this equal ratio is distorted, what will happen to this universe? God only knows

Sukarma Thareja

 Alumnus IITK 1986

India

 

Is your Science Lab Clean or Tidy

 We had cleanliness drive in our school.I with help of my students andhelper got my chemistry lab cleaned snd made it tidy also.

After  a week I asked my students to write down difference between Tidy lab and clean lab. Students came with many answers the best one I am listing below.

Tidy lab means everything has a place, and everything like apparatus buret

-pippets are in their respective places. Like reagent bottles used for testing cations and anions of inorganic salt must go to side shelves of lab. 

While acid and bases bottles will be in front shelf of lab.Countertops are empty, tables only have what belongs on it, towels are tobe hanged on each working table.

On the other hand lab can be perfectly tidy but dirty. 

Towels need in the laundry, countertops are dirty, lab table is sticky with reagent trips.

One need soap and water and mop and vacuum. One should tidy the lab before the cleaning people come so they can clean, mop, vacuum, shampoo carpet,and scrub the shower. 

Sukarma Thareja 

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Try to Learn Maximum from environment

 I was studying in prestigious college.The biggest thing I observed that we all students were living  in an incredibly competitive world and were all on the same track in some kind of race, somehow competing for the same thing.

 Nobody knew what that thing is, but somehow high grades and going to an expensive college are supposed to get us there.

After I graduated from college I realised that the truth is, the world is not that competitive. My observation is that people who know how to cooperate, to help others rather than worry excessively about their own achievement, are often the happiest and most successful, by any reasonable measure of success.

When I was studying in college I always thought   that there is a great advantage in getting into an elite, expensive, hard-to-get-into college.

I found this is myth. The myth was because  a failure on the part of people who should know better to distinguish between correlation and causation.

Yes, going to a prestigious college correlates with getting a prestigious job and high income later on in life, but that doesn’t mean that going to the prestigious college is in any way the cause of such success . One should take advantage of facilities, good faculty members teaching and good students coming to that college and try to learn maximum from environment provided by college and work on ones personality building .

These learnings will help individual in one way or other. These learning experiences correlates to ones successful happy life. 

Life Quote Sukarma Thareja

 Life is a journey of experiments. Some are successful, some are partially successful, but all add to wisdom. 

Sukarma Rani Thareja

People on a mission never count their work. They enjoy their work till their last breath and inspire generations. 

Sukarma Rani Thareja