I am a science teacher in a government school. My friend Rita English teacher, has joined my school. We are friends, and whenever time permits #Rita discusses her thought #provoking problems with me.
Rita's parents live 800 Km away from Rita, because Rita is #married in a different state. She feels sad as she can't reach her #parents when they are unwell.
There are days when Rita hardly has a word with her #parents due to the unending responsibilities of raising two little humans and looking after #her parents-in-law.
Sometimes my friend Rita had a strong urge to be around her parents and cook their #favourite dish, sit with her parents and laugh her heart out, re-live those childhood #moments which have become golden days now
Travelling with two kids over such a long distance was not easy for Rita. Moreover, children have #schools.
I said, dear Rita, "One must prioritise change with time in one's life. It is a fact of life that our world #resides in our parents when we are young.#Marriage takes away a lot of things from a girl's life. Her home, where she grew up, saw the ups and downs of life, the city, and friends. All vivid #memories she cherished later on. Married girl not only gets a new and tempting # wardrobe but a fresh set of responsibilities the moment she gets married."
I further said, "Dear Rita, for you and your husband was at the topmost priority until you became a mother. Right now, your#children are your topmost priority in your life This priority will change when your children grow up. They will get busy in their careers and #married life. Then, again, your husbands will become your priority, I believe. We also know our life partners are supposed to be a support #system of each other till their last breath."
Rita said, "Being a married girl, I don't think I will ever be able to #prioritise my parents."
I said " Dear Rita, this happens because a married girl no longer remains in their parents' family in the sense that she has moved one step forward and has her own family, which she has created and #supporting right now. But dear Rita fact remains, #married girl of the family becomes a warm and always welcomed guest at her parents' house.
Sukarma Thareja
sukarma.thareja.knp@gmail.com
https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home
I malre Science easy through Poetry & Photos
๐ Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home
๐ Visit My Blog:
https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1
๐ Hindi Ebook "Kishor Chetna":
https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW
๐ English Book:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060
English book-Making Science Easy :Photo-Poetry Collection
https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj
Note: If the blog doesn't open in your country,
please use a VPN or add ?ncr=1 to the blog link.
Thank you for reading! ๐๐ป
Alumnus IITK
