Revised Control life is Different from Let go Life

 

I am a science teacher in a government school. The other day, I met my very bright student, Sudha, at a school seminar.

Sudha said, "Madam, after getting married, it is good that I have made many new #relationships. I have learnt many new #skills also. But  sometimes I feel a little odd that  I am not able to do many activities that I used to do before  marriage, very fondly."

Sudha further said, "Madam, I was a regular visitor to the public library(once a week). I used to do creative writing regularly. I helped my helper son with Mathematics every other day. But after marriage, because of my new #responsibility,  I have to let go of some of my previous activities to which I had almost complete  control."

I said, "Sudha, you have to make #equilibrium between what you can control and what you can let go. For example, you can visit the public library after one month instead of going every week. Life is a collection of experiences of #changes with time. Your skill is in handling these changes so that life remains in equilibrium. Try to make the equilibrium #constant value  limit to  "one" for the above said equilibrium."

I further  said, "Dear Sudha, in life, control is actively trying to #micromanage outcomes, often driven by fear and a desire for certainty."

Sudha said, "While letting go in life is about consciously choosing to forget attachment to outcomes."

I said, " Dear Sudha, in let go process of life, you have to trust the process, and embrace uncertainty and the unknown."

Sudha said, "Madam, what you said is right. A balanced approach involves taking control of what you can (like your choices and reactions) and letting go of what you can't (like other people's behaviors or unpredictable events), leading to a more fulfilling and less stressful life."

Moral -Balance between #efforts to live and #surrender to live is a must to live a peaceful life.

Sukarma Thareja
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