Try to Learn Maximum from environment

 I was studying in prestigious college.The biggest thing I observed that we all students were living  in an incredibly competitive world and were all on the same track in some kind of race, somehow competing for the same thing.

 Nobody knew what that thing is, but somehow high grades and going to an expensive college are supposed to get us there.

After I graduated from college I realised that the truth is, the world is not that competitive. My observation is that people who know how to cooperate, to help others rather than worry excessively about their own achievement, are often the happiest and most successful, by any reasonable measure of success.

When I was studying in college I always thought   that there is a great advantage in getting into an elite, expensive, hard-to-get-into college.

I found this is myth. The myth was because  a failure on the part of people who should know better to distinguish between correlation and causation.

Yes, going to a prestigious college correlates with getting a prestigious job and high income later on in life, but that doesn’t mean that going to the prestigious college is in any way the cause of such success . One should take advantage of facilities, good faculty members teaching and good students coming to that college and try to learn maximum from environment provided by college and work on ones personality building .

These learnings will help individual in one way or other. These learning experiences correlates to ones successful happy life. 

Sukarma Thareja 

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 Life is a journey of experiments. Some are successful, some are partially successful, but all add to wisdom. 

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People on a mission never count their work. They enjoy their work till their last breath and inspire generations. 

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Money vs relationship

 Person A is rich. He has a mansion but nobody to come back to from work. He has the most luxurious cars but nobody to take a romantic trip with. He can roam around the world but searches for a company. To him, relationship is more important than money.

Person B is a middle-class, working hard to earn his wages. He and his girlfriend stay together. They keep dreaming about the places they’ll visit once they have lots of money. Or how their house would look if they become stinking rich. To them, money is important.

Summary: what you don’t have is what’s more important.

Children problems

I am science #teacher in government school. With grace of ₹₹God I am grand mother to little kids who go in #primary school. 

When ever I get time I visit my #grand children very fondly. I do help them, advise them in their #work and problems which they #face in day to day life. But  my strong observation is children find out ₹solution to their own problems and that path make them #wise strong individual. To #support my observations my submissions are following. 

1.My grand son is prone to #allergies. As soon as winter #starts he will start getting little #cough. But treat ment with #antibiotics does not help him much. But still he used to believd in taking #antibiotics instead of turmeric milk suggested by me, ayurvedic remedy to #boost immune system of body. But suddenly he realised when ever he takes #turmeric milk at night he gets relieved in #symptoms of cough. Up to our surprise when ever he faces problems of cough he himself reminds his mother and says"mom kindly serve me hot one cup turmeric milk before sleeping as I get benefited with same"

Moral- one can give #suggestions to handle the problem child is #facing but best solution to problems come from #children themselves. Therefore parents should give children enough #space and time to #resolve their issues. 

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Sukarma Thareja

Alumnus IITK

India

Handeling children problems

 I am science #teacher in government school. With grace of #God I am grand mother to little kids who go in #primary school. 

When ever I get time I visit my #grand children very fondly. I do help them, advise them in their #work and problems which they #face in day to day life. But  my strong observation is children find out #solution to their own problems and that path make them #wise strong individual. To #support my observations my submissions are following. 

1.My grand son is prone to #allergies. As soon as winter #starts he will start getting little #cough. But treat ment with #antibiotics does not help him much. But still he used to believed in taking #antibiotics instead of turmeric milk suggested by me, ayurvedic remedy to #boost immune system of body. But suddenly he realised when ever he takes #turmeric milk at night he gets relieved in #symptoms of cough. Up to our surprise when ever he faces problems of cough he himself reminds his mother and says"mom kindly serve me hot one cup turmeric milk before sleeping as I get benefited with same"

Moral- one can give #suggestions to handle the problem child is #facing but best solution to problems come from #children themselves. Therefore parents should give children enough #space and time to #resolve their issues. 

sukarma.thareja.knp@gmail.com

Sukarma Thareja

Alumnus IITK

India

Expensive Gift

 I met group of students at market. I was so happy to see my students. 

I asked"very happy to see you students. 

It seems you have come to #restaurant for lunch. One of student said. "Today is our friend Akash #birthday. He has invited us for party in #evening at home. We have come to buy #gift for him. There is #discussion going on among us. Some of us are of opinion we should buy #expensive gift. Some are of opinion we should buy gift which Akash should be able to #use. Others are of opinion we should #handover cash to Akash so that he could buy gift of his choice. Madam it is very #thought ful to buy gift for a friend. "

I said "very fine students enjoy yourself. ".I  further said "do you know which is most expensive gift one can give to some one. " Students gave many answers. I said"students most expensive gift in life is to #help someone in time of need".One student said why"I said, dear student to help someone one need #large heart. It is #rare to find #persons in world with large heart. "All students said " Oh  yes madam you are #absolutely right"

Moral-If one wants to give most #expensive gift to someone, best is to help one at #time of need. 

Sukarma Thareja

Alumnus IITK

India