Senior Citizen

 I am teaching in school. My friend Radha who is also teacher in my school come from #village which is 30 Km away from my school. 

Radha said"Madam we have many senior  #citizen in my village. They are very #communicative. They actively participate in village #administration.During Covid time they took care  of each #individual of village. Once they invited Dr Tyagi neuroscience specialist doctor for popular talk in village. "

Dr Tyagi said "I am happy to see you senior citizen so #communicative  with each other. When senior citizen talk that person his/her #brain remain active. It reduces #stress, and avoid mental #illness. Person doesn't get #suffocated. It reduces chance of Alzheimer's #disease. "

Dr Tyagi #congratulated younger citizen of village for giving #senior citizens chance to give their suggestions so freely. He further said "This type of #quality life senior citizens do not find in urban cities. There is hardly any one with whom they can talk,so they feel #suffocated".

Moral of story- please give senior citizen chance to talk. Senior citizens experiences can give us wise advices. 

Sukarma Thareja 

Author: Science of Life and Nature: A Photo Poetry Collection 

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Do you believe in costly present

 I am a science teacher in a government school. In the era of science and technology, every event,# occasion, big or small, is associated with giving #material present or receiving material presents. No doubt both activities of giving or receiving presents give very #unique goodwill. 

Actually give and take of presents is a symbol of love #associated with a person.

  I am not against costly presents. My personal observation is that if one believes in giving #costly presents, then the fun of the occasion does not remain to the same level. Some people always expect #costly presents, which may not be possible #every time. I feel that this activity sometimes gets converted to #commercial activity of giving and taking. Then the meaning of the present gets lost somewhere. Sometimes # goodwill is also lost. 

Format to make goodwill

I strongly believe that #giving one's time to help someone is the best present one can give. I also strongly believe that if one happens to give a material present, it  may generat good will  but #time given to someone can not be generated again.

I also strongly believe that if someone has travelled all the way to wish me well, certainly he/she have spent energy and time, I must respect him/her. It's ok if she/he has not brought a material present for me. But unfortunately, many people do not understand this precious deep #philosophy of life.

I have also observed that many people avoid meeting their #loved ones in person as they are not in a position to give a material present which they once upon a time have #happen to receive from the same. Some people  make this issue very strong which look ugly also. Unfortunately they understand meaning of relationship  through this window of transaction.

Some people believe in giving cash instead of material presents. The philosophy behind this is that one can buy anything with the money that one thinks one needs. 

I personly feel costly present or gift some times creat walls instead of bridge in relationship.  Costliest present, according to me, is to help others at a #difficult time. 

Moral -Presents - gifts   given in the form of #material or cash are a symbol of one's love or #respect for others. The best is that one should avoid finding out gift value in terms of #cash. Doing this sometimes creates difficult and #hard feelings for each other. The best is never ever get into this type of circle of #transaction which sometimes  make relationship  bitter. 

Sukarma Thareja 

Author: Science of Life and Nature: A Photo Poetry Collection 

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IQ and EQ Quote Sukarma Thareja

 Life is a game of balancing between intelligence quotient [IQ] and Emotional quotient [EQ]. Educators should develop the overall  personality of students by inculcating playful tricks of building higher IQ and EQ in students in their teaching methods. 

Sukarma Thareja 

Author: Science of Life and Nature: A Photo Poetry Collection 

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Without Relationship

 I teach science in school. Many students of my class eleven go for #private coaching in physics, chemistry and maths. Many students move in #group. Some students are in the habit of not sharing #solutions to problems given in their coaching center. They think that by doing so, they will be #ahead of other students. In a way, they are in no mood to be in a good #relationship with other students in the group. 

I tell "my students be open-minded and share problems # solutions with your friends that will make you wiser. "

I further said"students please don't think #relationship is a degree or diploma to start and end in 3to 4 years. It is a lifetime #course, not just to study but to feel and #live".

One student said, "Yes ma'am, when we grow up, we will have #memories of this time. Of course, we will have many #stories of this time. But Madam, if we do not have a #relationship, all these above-mentioned activities are of no use. "

Moral of the story. Please #nurture a relationship like a #plant and enjoy the fruit of it. 

Sukarma Thareja

Author: Science of Life and Nature: A Photo Poetry Collection 

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Mothet is Born

 My student Sudha gave birth to a baby yesterday. Today, her husband gave us good news and sent a photo of the #baby. I congratulated him and asked if Sudha was okay to take a video call after 5 days. Sudha's husband said yes, then I #called her after 5 days. 

When I saw Sudha on the call, the first question I asked her was, “Are you still in #pain much? Have you been able to eat anything healthy yet? On the phone, I requested her domestic help to give Sudha #nutritious diet. I asked Sudha Can you walk to the bathroom yourself, or need help?”

And just like that, she cried on the phone. “Madam, you’re the first one to ask me if I’m doing ok. Everyone else just asks if the baby is ok and if I have breast milk to feed the baby yet.”

The next day, I went to Sudha's house. I stayed for a day and helped her out. She was so happy to get moral support. Thankfully next day her mother came to help Sudha. 

Moral of the story-When a baby arrives in the home, everyone should remember that the mother has been rebirth. It is essential that the family should support the mother as well baby. This arrangement brings harmony and goodwill in family life

Sukarma Thareja 

Author: Science of Life and Nature: A Photo Poetry Collection 

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Increase in Responsibility of Family

 My sister is #primary school teacher. She says, "Some of her students do not know the names of their classmates".First, before starting #curriculum classes in her class, she makes every # effort that all student should know the names of their # classmates. "

In this era of technology, children are more interested in watching #videos, chatting with friends, and sharing # homework online. One hardly sees students playing in #park made specially for children to play. Students also avoid cycling. 

It is high time parents give quality time to #children and reduce children's #screen time. 

Parents have to do #extra efforts to do so. It is true information #technology is a boon, and it has made our lives easy on many fronts. 

But this Information technology is #reducing family ties, in a way emotional #Quotient of children is decreasing. Children are becoming practical and going away from family values. 

Responsibility of the family has increased now, as they have to go #extra mile to decrease children's screen time. Which is not an easy exercise. 

Author: Science of Life and Nature: A Photo Poetry Collection 

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Mirror image

I was reading a book at night. It was my mother's birthday. My heart was full of #emotions which I was not even able to express to #myself. My #heart was very heavy. While #reading a book, I fell asleep. 

Suddenly, I saw two soft, beautiful hands on my #head. I at once realized it was my #mother's hard-working hands. I said, "Mom, how come you remembered me today. Mom, today is your #birthday. Not even a single day passes I don't remember you, dear mom. In #mirror, I look like you. My friends tell you are the mirror image of your mother. Your habit of eating meals last of all has become my habit now. My friends #comment that the way you laugh and carry yourself is exactly like your mom. 

I myself have found mom, as you used to teach me every little thing, good manners, etc, the same I do with my kids. My kids tell me, Mom, you are always mending us like #grandmother. Your special rule is that all vegetables on the food plate must be finished before dessert is served to the kids. I am following."

I used to misbehave with you many times, but after 20 years, I do realise, Mom, how #stupid I was that time. I wish to apologize to you for the same, dear mom. I wish I could have known your worth at a young age. You were my mentor. You were everything for me. Till today, my soul searches for you, dear mom. But I don't know where you have gone. I daily pray to God, please God keep my mom safe. 

Soon I heard the alarm of my clock; it was time to get up. I kept calling mom! Mom! Please don't go, I miss you so much---I soon realized it was a dream. I only wish it's ok even if my mom visits me in my dreams. But it was not to be so. 

Moral-Mothers are blessings. Fortunate are those who have a mom. A world without mom is a vacuum. 

Sukarma Thareja

Author: Science of Life and Nature: A Photo Poetry Collection 

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