Honesty Bravery and Patience

 Sarla was my research Scholar. She was a very sincere student. After working for two years on her Ph.D. program, she got married.

One day, after we discussed the thesis problem results, Sarla asked me, "Madam, I am confused about what is essential in life, that is, money, love or family support"?

I said, "In life, you need all three, dear Sarla: money, love and good family support. Life is not as simple as one thinks. Please do not consider life as a box full of essential materialistic things. Life is much above ∗ categories. Life never says that I am full of joy. Nor does it say I am not full of sorrows. In life, some sometimes joy ad sorrow co exist, but still it is far from both joy and sorrow."

I further said, "Sarla, please imagine∗ astronauts, sometimes they can not experience time. This unique example I am giving you, dear student, is to let you realize that life can give one an experience like this. Some experience of life give one numbness also."

I also further said, "Sarla's life is a personal experience, which has a billion flavors. Every flavor has many, many colors, and in each color, there are tunnel-like paths. These paths get connected randomly."

Sarla nodded her head and said, "Thanks, madam, for giving me the flavour of life in such few sentences and short time."

I said, "Sarla, be brave and face life with honesty, trust, walk on life's rope tightly with open eyes, with the support of your dear ones. Sarla, please also remember∗ best things in life are free example, sleep, smile and laughter."

Sarla had big smile on her face,of course! A bit confused, she looked bit more confident than before.

The moral of the story is friends, whatever one gets in life, it all depends on one's brain cells, that is, how positively one faces happenings in life, how much each brain cell is capable of thinking differently. It also depends on how much courage and strength one has to go against the crowd. Hence, honesty, bravery and patience are traits essential 

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 The current generation is being dealt with in   innovative science experiment.  It is the first generation raised by  modern technology, and we’re starting to see the  effects of it if used in excess amounts. Let us be responsible citizens/parents and use this weapon of technology for making a positive society.

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Joy of Being Independent

 I  studied in a good school. Teachers were very good to students.

We used to get a lot of academic projects which were to be completed in a fixed time. Mostly, we used to take help from internet and the library to complete assigned projects. Sometimes discussions in a peer group were also very valuable.

 We had many friends whose parents used to help them a lot in finishing assigned projects. Sometimes I will feel #dejected, thinking I wish my parents could help me in doing so. But my parents used to encourage me to be independent while doing those projects. That habit, which my parents inculcated in me at that time, has come a long way with me. I find I remain happy by doing everything in my life by myself. I have no expectations from others. I think that is a simple formula to remain happy and balanced in life.

Now I have grown old, same habit I try to inculcate in my students and in myown children.

The moral of the story is friends that I have seen many students in my lifetime .Those students are afraid of the examination results. They are those students who expect more from examiners and  teachers rather than from themselves.

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Countdown at Science Lab

I was a Ph.D student in the Department of Chemistry at IIT-Kanpur.  I had the fortune of doing many good courses

At IIT-K. After submitting my thesis, it was time for me to go home. That very night in my room, I wrote a poem 

entitled"Countdown Research Lab IIT-Kanpur". The same I am listing below for my esteemed readers.

I left the main gate of my alma mater research lab with a heavy heart,

I count back from ten as I walk to my  IIT-Kanpur main gate,

I thought about my research lab,

How this holy temple of research lab,

 Helped me on a lovely journey,

Of my passion for knowledge- science.

How the lab blessed me on my head at Nine,

At eight, I smiled at myself,

Lucky to be associated with such a prestigious lab,

At one point in my life.

At seven  magical hands mine,

Shook with an important,

Science chemical physics algorithms used in the lab,

Six times I presented research results,

At conferences, international prestigious conferences.

I refuse to go back home,

And always wished to be in a research lab at Five,

At four, I told myself how much I "adore my research lab ",

At three, I said magical words"I love you",

To my research science lab.

At two, I recollected pleasant experiences,

I got into my research science lab,

I looked at all the photographs,

Collection I took in the research lab.

At one, I closed my house gate happily,

I went to my bed and closed my eyes,

Slept with important research findings,

Close to my heart, I carried out my research Science lab.

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Distinct Signature

 Everything One does in life will leave a #mark,

As sharp pencil engrave a strong mark on wall,

So  be remain conscious of same in your every action,

 Do strong  positive actions and make a  mark,

Which become your distinct signature in your life history.

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Is it Worth Fighting

 The other day I was going back home after teaching at my school. I had a pleasant surprise. I met my school friend Sarla, who is a high court #judge, at the metro station.

I asked Sarla how the journey of your life. What #disciplines and #value system does she practice in her life to become such an #icon figure of our society? We had a big discussion. She talked in detail about the little steps she took in her life to #focus on her career path.

Taking #inspiration from my dear friend Sarla, I wrote A small article for my students and pasted it on the notice board of my school for the benefit of my #worthy students. The same I am listing below for my #esteem readers.

Is it worth fighting?

My friend Sarla happened to get married in a joint family that was against her wishes for further higher studies.

Sarla continued her studies and stopped fighting for her rights with many #inconsiderate people.

She stopped fighting to please everyone...in family and persons at her #professional front.

She stopped fighting those who #gossiped about her,

She did not fight 1. to get attention from the surrounding crowd 2. to prove they(in-laws family) were wrong about her....

She left such fights for those who have nothing else to fight...

And she started fighting for

her #vision,

her #dreams,

her#ideas and

Her #destiny.

The day she gave up on small fights is the day she started becoming successful & so much more content.

My friend Sarla is now a judge in the High Court.

Moral of the Story. All fights are not worth one's time..... Choose what one can fight for wisely.

This wise practice, followed by my friend Sarla, can save one's time and energy; the saved time and energy can be fruitfully used in 

Improving one's new ideas and vision in moving forward in one's carrier path.

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Do you Feel Satisfied while Eating

 

I am a science teacher at school. I believe in doing one-to-one talks with my students to enlighten them with my positive experiences so that they can face their complicated future lives. 

The other day, one student said, "In our Hindu epics, it is recommended that one should eat food on a clean floor with folded legs, and one should prefer to eat with the fingers of the hands. Use of a dining table with required cutlery for eating is not mentioned in the epics."

I said "according to my experience, "I also prefer to eat dal, vegetables, ables chapati with clean fingers of my hand. I don't eat rice with a spoon. Fortunately, I have a big Kitchen where I have placed a small stool, which I use for keeping my eatables. In front of that small stool. I eat my food by sitting with folded hands. I find the kitchen the best place to use, as the kitchen is the cleanest place in my house. Nobody is allowed to come into the kitchen with shoes on. Eating with my hands gives me a lot of satisfaction. "

Another student from China said, "Madam, we use chopsticks to eat rice with meat. "I said I have tried eating rice with chopsticks, I find it is comfortable to use the same but it doesn't give me satisfaction. "

Moral of the story- eating Indian food, dal, chapati, rice and vegetables with fingers of the hand gives a lot of satisfaction compared to using cutlery for eating the same

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