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Inreplay Between Affection and Perfection

There are many types of beautiful #relationships we make and follow in life.

Family, Kindness, honesty and humility relationships are #fundamentals of our life.

It is not possible that all four types of relationships listed above have no shortcomings or # faults when followed in life.

Nobody can be #perfect. The same applies to relationships also. There could be #imperfections this side or other side of relationship #bridge.

The foundation of all relationships is #love and #affection.

Please never leave the relationship bridge for small faults as #affection/love is always greater than #perfection. You never know in life when you have to #walk on the same relationship bridge.

Relationship bridges are a treasure of our lives. They can be perfect. Sometimes they are not perfect. Therefore it is better to concentrate on relationship bridge. Please make every effort to make every relationship strong healthy and full of affection.

We all know affection is stronger than perfection. Therefore to improve shortcomings of relationships best is to interplay between two.

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Fall in Love

It is the fact all efforts/actions,

You do in day-to-day life are in your control.

Fall in love with your work/actions,

With consistency and #resilience,

Fall in love with your work/actions,

With #honesty and hard work.

Fall in love with your work/actions,

With commitment and passion,

Results of #actions are not in your control,

Never fall in love with the results of your actions,

Fall in love with #soul of your actions.

Immature people, with wisdom less,

Fall in love with the results of their actions,

They are far away from,

The real situation of life,

The Hindu epic Shrimad Bhagavat Gita,

Also, resonates with the same message.

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Role Model Water Liquid

We can learn things many,

From liquid water,

If need arise in life,

Do not be hesitant,

To be polarized like ,

Molecule water ,

And attract other persons

With personality traits Positive ,

Like molecule water.

If need arises,

Under given circumstances,

Like liquid water,

Get yourself converted,

To form solid-ice,

And float on surface of sea of life.

If in circumstances given,

Your condition financial ,

Is not correct at all,

Tighten your expenditures,

By implementing properties,

Like surface tension of water ,

In your day to day budget,

Of surface life.

Friends be cohesive water,

Molecule and contribute in benefit,

Of integrity of nation,

Be adhesive like water,

Molecules and contribute in benefit,

Of foreign policy of nation.

To live good life in joint family,

Develop capacity to mix ,

With other members of family,

Forming strong relationships bond,

Who may be keeping ,

Opinion different ,

As water in it mixes,

different solutes,

And makes perfect solution.

Friends always remain cool,

And #soft like water,

And #adjust everywhere in life,

Like water.

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For The Life’s Remainder

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Precious Gift

A few days back, I was talking to my young friends.

One of my young friends, a mother of three cute kids was confused about her life.

She said ” Madam I remain so much confused the whole day. My #kids are driving me #crazy. “

My young friend continued” I sometimes feel I am not a good mom. My kids are making me so much #uncomfortable. I’m losing my patience. Every night, I wonder how am I going to continue like this.”

I said dear friend” Your youngest child is a small #baby. Babies do cry. That’s how they communicate. Your daughter is a toddler. # Toddlers do scream sometimes. Your eldest kid is #teenager. Teenagers are in the habit of complaining. They have their problems.”

I further added” Teenage is transition to #adult hood. Teenagers undergo physical and emotional changes. Sometimes they are confused about the norms of society. Hence they are not able to concentrate on their studies. Therefore my friends have multiple issues that they face in life. Many teenagers do not have enough expression and skill to speak out about their problems.”

I further explained to her” Sometimes moms, do mutter ‘for heaven’s sake’ under their breath before answering their unique questions. That’s just the way mom talks. “But guess what?

Dear friend, please do understand children should express themselves rather than opt to remain silent. A house filled with noise, with fighting teens and non-stop questions from younger kids, is a #healthy home”.

My friend said” I should truly worry if my children are silent. My toddler daughter is too scared to express herself. My teenage son does not talk to me.”

I said dear friend” By the way, kids don’t drive you #insane, you are a little crazy to think on those lines.”

With my small explanation, my young friend understood key points of her uncomfortable levels about her kids.

She at once took a big breath. That moment she realized that maybe she was doing okay as a parent.

I further said ” Dear friend! You are great and doing well as the mother. Please continue #mothering your children in the right direction. Please do thank almighty God for precious #gifts in the form of children. These energetic noble souls are part of your life. They are #treasure of your life.”

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Mother's Guilt

I am working #mother,

I am blessed with two,

Cute small #kids,

When I am at work,

My heart gets stuck in kids,

I always think I should have done this/that,

For my elder/younger kids,

When I am at work I always think,

I should have taught that,

Particular subject #’ concept’

To my students this particular way is unique,

I sometimes do self-talk,

Dear me! Please accept this tough mother’s way of life,

Please be #kind to yourself,

Stop beating yourself up,

Accept that you are a working mother,

And keep walking on waves of #nonlinear life,

With determination and

Confidence.

Oh! working mother,

The guilt you are feeling is normal,

And nothing #new,

It will remain with you forever,

Children at home and persons at work front,

Do not even know the word #” mother’s guilt”

Please substitute the same with work/life balance,

And enjoy some sweet moments for #yourself also,

I wish children at home and persons at work front,

Could realize mother’s guilt,

So that I could partially get relieved,

From heavy emotional #baggage of ” mother’s guilt.”

Work-life balance is a big tool,

In the hands of a working mother,

Which saves mothers from working,

from mother's guilt.

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I Hated Feeling Stuck—Until I Saw the Hidden Gift Behind

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Quantum Force Life.

The more I see,

I interact with the world,

And my surroundings,

And my #life,

More I bend toward almighty #God.

I am fortunate,

Being a woman I get the opportunity,

To see,

Life as # homemaker,

Life at work front,

Over and above see my #inner life,

Which is navigated by the inner #Compass soul.

Many days I am happy/sad,

I ask questions #countless,

Myself every day,

I feel #mysterious pains,

I for go causes of same.

I move forward,

In the direction right,

All these activities,

Observation became a puzzle for me.

I have gathered courage,

To tackle the same puzzle,

By accepting changes,

In my life.

I think with an attitude optimistic,

Which acts like a magnet

When I see in sky,

Bright #quantum forces,

Gravity, #electromagnetic and

Nuclear forces together

And their #vectors,

Make me move,

Freely to #tackle my life puzzle.

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A Riddle

Other day I asked my students a riddle listed below.

It is not impatient and unkind,

It is generous and honors others,

It is unselfish and always pacifying

in nature.

It protects and keeps record of right doing,

In virtuous surroundings it delight and blossom,

It does not rejoice with dishonesty.

It never believes in giving despair,

It is not friendly with distrust,

It never gives up hope ,

It never fails.

It resides in noble souls.

Answer to above riddle,

One of three divine sisters,

Faith/hope/love,

Said one student,

Who is strongest of all three sisters,

'Love' said my student,

Yes 'love' is right answer,

To riddle said teacher.

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Fall in Love

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Precious Gift

Mother's Guilt

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