Sukarma musing

Mother's Guilt

I am working #mother,

I am blessed with two,

Cute small #kids,

When I am at work,

My heart gets stuck in kids,

I always think I should have done this/that,

For my elder/younger kids,

When I am at work I always think,

I should have taught that,

Particular subject #’ concept’

To my students this particular way is unique,

I sometimes do self-talk,

Dear me! Please accept this tough mother’s way of life,

Please be #kind to yourself,

Stop beating yourself up,

Accept that you are a working mother,

And keep walking on waves of #nonlinear life,

With determination and

Confidence.

Oh! working mother,

The guilt you are feeling is normal,

And nothing #new,

It will remain with you forever,

Children at home and persons at work front,

Do not even know the word #” mother’s guilt”

Please substitute the same with work/life balance,

And enjoy some sweet moments for #yourself also,

I wish children at home and persons at work front,

Could realize mother’s guilt,

So that I could partially get relieved,

From heavy emotional #baggage of ” mother’s guilt.”

Work-life balance is a big tool,

In the hands of a working mother,

Which saves mothers from working,

from mother's guilt.

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Sukarma Thareja

Alumnus IITK

India

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Quantum Force Life.

The more I see,

I interact with the world,

And my surroundings,

And my #life,

More I bend toward almighty #God.

I am fortunate,

Being a woman I get the opportunity,

To see,

Life as # homemaker,

Life at work front,

Over and above see my #inner life,

Which is navigated by the inner #Compass soul.

Many days I am happy/sad,

I ask questions #countless,

Myself every day,

I feel #mysterious pains,

I for go causes of same.

I move forward,

In the direction right,

All these activities,

Observation became a puzzle for me.

I have gathered courage,

To tackle the same puzzle,

By accepting changes,

In my life.

I think with an attitude optimistic,

Which acts like a magnet

When I see in sky,

Bright #quantum forces,

Gravity, #electromagnetic and

Nuclear forces together

And their #vectors,

Make me move,

Freely to #tackle my life puzzle.

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A Riddle

Other day I asked my students a riddle listed below.

It is not impatient and unkind,

It is generous and honors others,

It is unselfish and always pacifying

in nature.

It protects and keeps record of right doing,

In virtuous surroundings it delight and blossom,

It does not rejoice with dishonesty.

It never believes in giving despair,

It is not friendly with distrust,

It never gives up hope ,

It never fails.

It resides in noble souls.

Answer to above riddle,

One of three divine sisters,

Faith/hope/love,

Said one student,

Who is strongest of all three sisters,

'Love' said my student,

Yes 'love' is right answer,

To riddle said teacher.

Sukarma Thareja

Compass With in You

Relationship build,

Relationship break,

Like electric #connections,

They give #shocks,

They bring #life.

Life #inside,

Could be sad or happy,

Could be wealthy,

You have #soul,

#Compass within you,

Which # navigates you.

Life outside you,

This could be due to # the steering of others,

Surrounding you,

Could be fast or slow,

Could be #materialistic,

Could be poor or rich.

It is up to you,

To #decide,_

If you wish to live,

By Compass within you,

Or by steering of those,

Surrounding you.

Sukarma Thareja

Alumnus IITK

India

Mothering Does not Stop

My mom is amazing. After my marriage, one day she texted me it seems it will rain today, so my child please do not forget to take your #umbrella.

She always takes care of my food which I like to eat. She makes my favorite besan ladoo with no white sugar when I am about to visit her.

Nani (my mother)was so excited to know how my kids behaved on the first day of their #school. She called me to know how her grandkids made it to the school bus without tears in their eyes.

My mother sends text messages / audio tapes about #lullaby' in her voice "chanda mama dur ke" so listening to her voice audio tape her grandkids could go to sleep.

She buys the best possible trendy fashion clothes and dresses for her daughter and daughter-in-law at a mall.

In her heart, my mother knows that she does not have to do these things anymore but she still does it fondly. Some may say it is her way of passing #time.

But it is her way of expressing her true unconditional #love for her children.

My mom is in the habit of writing poems for grandchildren which they fondly #recite in their school function on Independence Day/ republic day. She is so proud of her grandchildren.

To make my life a little easier, whenever my parents visit me, my mother teaches Mathematics tables from 2 to 20 to my kids and helps them solve difficult #puzzles.

My mother makes sweets/snacks for me and my children, even if she may not have enough strength to do so. She knows very well her children are fully grown and are capable of doing things themselves but making food which her children are fond of is her first passion even in old age.

Mothering/parenting doesn’t stop when her/their kids turn eighteen, move away, or have their children.

It just happens they change their way of mothering/parenting.

Sometimes I wonder, do mothers/ parents have specific unique #DNA /genes which express her/their unconditional love for children and grandchildren?

I strongly feel if mothers were not that kind and positive the world would have gone #insane. Therefore children, who respect the hard work of their mothers rise very high. No work of children could be meaningful or complete without the blessing of their mothers.

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Make best of Yourself

I am teaching science in Government school.My student Mohansaid "Madam,honestly, people might not always notice you, and that's okay.But I believe in being focus on being myself amazing self, regardless!

I said " Mohan take time to get to know yourself. What makes you tick? What are your passions? Self-discovery is a journey, not a destination!".

I further added"Sharing with others – whether it's your time, resources, or love – always comes back to you in amazing ways. Keep spreading that kindness!"

Mohan said "Madam every job, no matter how big or small, is important. Respect the work that others do, and take pride in your own!"

I said "Make time for self-care and relaxation. Your mind and body will thank you!"

Mohan said "Madam I am not afraid to step out of my comfort zone and try new things. That's where the magic happens!"

I said "Before making big decisions, take a deep breath and wait until you feel calm. Clarity is key!"

Mohan said " Madam good luck often follows hard work and dedication. Keep pushing yourself, and the universe will respond!"

I said "Mohan be patient with yourself and others. Keep trying, even when things get tough."

I further said "Mohan you don't need everyone to like you! Focus on being true to yourself and building meaningful relationships."

Mohan said "Madam I engage with others, listen actively – not just to respond, but to truly understand. It's a game-changer!"

He furthersaid "Sometimes, taking the harder road leads to more rewarding outcomes. I am noy afraid to put in the effort!

I said "Mohan please, read more books! Reading expands your mind, sparks imagination, and connects you with new ideas and perspectives."

Friends! are you also thinking about best life, I hope these reminders will inspire you to live your best life!

Sukarma Thareja

Invisible Lines

To get a local train ticket,

For getting into the bus,

For traveling to our dear ones,

We often stand in a long #line.

Sometimes lines,

Are long at the bank counter,

These lines do become short,

When the rush is less.

But you will be amazed,

Some lines are #invisible,

They can be longer,

Than normal long lines.

My students who appear,

For JEE and NDA,

The national entrance test,

For courses professional,

Through their patience and hard work,

Do get place number one in line.

Many of my students stand in,

These lines of #JEE and NDA examination,

And wait for their turn to come,

By standing in invisible lines.

Believe friends, these invisible lines,

These are important ones,

They may give challenges,

At the same time,

These lines provide an opportunity golden.

These invisible lines are present

In class, #coaching center of hardworking teachers,

They can be present in the office for regular #promotions,

Or promotions based on merit.

I as a teacher urge my able students,

dear students! have patience,

These invisible lines give you,

Many golden #opportunities ,

Your turn will come,

Please enjoy these invisible lines,

Please do not get #frustrated,

Life journey spent,

While standing in invisible lines,

Is very beautiful and #meaningful.

This journey in invisible lines,

Teaches you important lessons,

Make you #stronger and wise,

Please do remain cheerful,

While standing in these invisible lines.

Life in the invisible line is #real life.

Sukarma Thareja

Sukarma musing

Mother's Guilt

Quantum Force Life.

A Riddle

Compass With in You

Mothering Does not Stop

Make best of Yourself

Invisible Lines

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