Therefore Ritu has to start from home early morning (5am) to reach school in time.
Her father is retired government servant and does not keep good health . Her father gets up around 7am in morning. Therefore Ritu is never able to #greet her father in morning except sunday or school holiday.
After her school, Ritu is busy teaching in coaching #academy near to her school, so by the time she reaches home her father has gone to sleep.
Ritu respects her father very much and out of affection always wishes to greet her father in morning. But her wishful thinking remains incomplete.
On the other hand due to her late evening schedule she reaches home late at night. She does not want to disturb her respected father when he has gone to sleep. So to avoid inconvenience to her father Ritu has put limits/ boundries in format of showing her gratitude/affection to her dear father. She greets her father in morning either on sundays or school holidays.
Other format of boundry Ritu has put for showing gratitude to her dear mother.
Whenever Ritu buys any sari/ gold ornament for her dear mother, instead of being happy her mother gets disturbed.
Ritu's mother says" Dear Ritu please do not spend any money on my gifts. Please save money, I have to get you married to suitable boy.
Ritu I need money for you to get married."
Taking her mother's anxiety into considerations, Ritu has made her own boundary for expressing gratitude/affection to her dear mother.
Ritu avoids buying costly gifts for her mother. She buys fruits and eatables of her mother's choice for her mother on her birthday. She does not want to see her mother getting anxious because of so called expensive gifts from her daughter(Ritu).
Both cases discussed above of showing affection/ gratitude to dear ones discussed above sometimes put person who wishes to express gratitude under boundaries.
My personal experience also says same. On observing boundries in love and gratitude expression format formed by concerned person is helpful tool to lead peaceful life.
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