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Do Not Compare Yourself

I am teaching science in government school.

Other day my student Ram said "Madam I feel bad as I am compared with other children in my joint family.Something I also compare my self with others."

I said " Ram please never compare yourself to others, because you will only see your own shortcomings and others' strengths. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses; what you see is just one aspect. They are just good at things you are not. Everyone has their own life path, and they are just a moment on your journey. Focus on yourself, recognize your own worth, and this will drive you to move forward more resolutely."

I further said "Ram comparison is a killer to our well-being and self-esteem. We need to stay in our lane. Each of us has our unique journey with its successes, struggles, and failures. Why compare apples and oranges? Take care."

Are you moving in circle of comparison.?Please avoid this habit of comparing oneself with others.It is not going to help you in leading peaceful life.

Sukarma Thareja

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Recycle Wasted Time

I started working at a young age,

I was yes man of my #administrator,

I got married at a young age,

I was yes man of my head joint #family joint,

I had no courage to say no at work front,

I would #bulldoze myself with work extra ,

At work and home front.

I was driven by # a world materialistic ,

I was never involved in efforts serious ,

To learn new skills.

Now I am a mother of two kids,

I now realize how foolish I was,

How much time I wasted in pleasing others,

How #immature I was,

I did not work on improving my skills.

Life is a #gift,

I should chase my #goals,

I regret how much time I wasted,

In doing useless activities,

I only wish alas I could,

#Recycle my wasted time,

And move forward ,

With the strength of the same.

No I cannot recycle my wasted time,

A #lesson important I learned.

Now I am strict about my time frame,

Please! friends discipline,

Yourself concerning time,

This is my sincere # advice,

To children of a generation new.

Sukarma Thareja

I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖
🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home
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https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW
🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
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🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060
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Positive Negative in Life

I am teaching science in government school.

My student Rakhi said "Madam we often talk about positive and negstive in our dst to dsy conversation.But somehow we concentrate on black spots in our life."

I said "Rakhi you are right.We have a white paper to observe and enjoy but we always focus on the dark spots."

Rakhi said "Madam our life is a gift given to us by God with love and care."

I said " Rakhi we always have reasons to celebrate nature renewing itself every day, our friends around us, the job that provides our livelihood, the miracles we see every day."

Rakhi said "Madam however, we insist on focusing only on the dark spots, the health issues that bother us, the lack of money, the complicated relationship with a family member, the disappointment with a friend etc. c

I said "The dark spots are very small compared to everything we have in our lives, but they are the ones that pollute our minds."

I further said "Take your eyes away from the black spots in your life. Enjoy each one of your blessings, each moment that life gives you. Be happy and live a life positively."

Moral of the story: As the life is a bag of good and bad things.We all have positives and negatives along the way, but we must always concentrate greater on the positives for a healthy and happy life.

Are you also always thinking about negatives in your life.Life goes on no matter what. So do not waste your time thinking about the negatives.

Sukarma Thareja

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Things to Avoid in Life.

I used to live in a joint family. There was a lot of fun for the kids, as we had the company of so many cousins brothers and sisters.

Fortunately, my youngest aunt Usha, was a school teacher, the other four aunts were homemakers. As a kid, I used to observe that my four aunts who were homemakers used to make kind #inquiries about aunt Usha who was teaching in school very often. Example Where is Aunt Usha going today etc? There was a lot of #anxiety at home when Aunt Usha's friend used to visit our home.

I was a kid, I did not understand why Usha Aunty's activities were talked about and chased so critically in the house. As I grew older, I realized that Usha Aunty activities are being chased by other aunts who were makers. I never used to appreciate my other four aunts' behavior.

I am an adult now, I understand there is no gain in chasing person x. It is better to learn some new #skills from a person whose skills are better than you. Sometimes it is better to spend that chasing time learning new skills.

Moral - It is good to chase the goals of

your life. Avoid wasting time chasing people.

Sukarma Thareja

I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖 🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home 📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1 My Books: 🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW 🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj 🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060 💡 Note: If blog doesn't open, use VPN or add ?ncr=1 🙏 Thank you for reading!

Proud of Home Maker

When I am in role of home maker,

I miss you my science research lab (SRL) .

Experiment in kitchen have some similarities,

With you my dear SRL.

When I got opportunity to work in you dear SRL

Keen observation and creativity ,

Were elements which were present in you SRL.

And same observation and creativity thread

I continued in my home maker lab.

Scientist compile data ,draw data in forms of curves ,

Fit data and model the process observed in SRL

Home maker data format

Is much different from data observed in SRL.

Like How much more protein rich granules

Will be enough for next one month.

Time is main factor contributing,

To researcher working in SRL

Same is true for home makers lab.

Home maker timing ,

Working in their so called kitchen lab

Is different but very important.

Time fly away in home makers lab

And same is true for scientist working in SRL.

Time frame is different in both labs,

Scientist are recognised,

For their time spent in SRL.

Dynamics of gaining fame,

For home makers working

In their lab is complex ,

And not straight.

Hence home makers remember their SRL

Where they have spent,

Good amount of their life time.

SRL hardly get time,

To remember home makers,

Who were researcher in science lab.

Therefore sometimes home maker,

Also pretend that they donot care for SRL ,

Where they worked for some time.

But reality is much different,

Home makers are proud ,

To have worked in SRL.

Sukarma Thareja

Finishing line of Life

I am teaching science in government school.

My student Sohan said "Madam I am confused If life is a race, then what is the finishing line?"

I said"Sohan we were once enjoying our holiday in the hills.

My uncle who stays near the place, visited us.

After enjoying some tea in the beautiful climate, he asked us if we wanted to see the most beautiful place in the hills."

Everybody agreed.

My uncle said "Let us travel in two cars.."

My uncle was with my father and some other people in one car, while I and my student Sohan were with other members in the other car.

We were all excited, after so much praise of the place from my uncle, we with my student Sohan drove all the way imagining how beautiful the place would be.

After an hour and a half of driving, our other car stopped in a small village town.

The place was a simple village, with nothing special.

I got out of the car and asked my uncle-

"Is this the place you were talking about, or we must drive more?"

He laughed and said, "The road on which we were driving for the past hour is the beautiful place I was talking about"

I face palmed and stood stunned for a while.

Sohan said "Madam I also didn't notice or appreciate anything despite being a nature admirer, only because I was too much concerned about the destination."

Sohan further said "I kept driving like a robot, imagining to reach a dream destination."

I said This is what happens when we consider life as a race."

Sohan said "Madam wee keep running, and speeding, creating an emotional turbulence in our body and mind, having our focus only on the destination.

I said " You are right Sihan in the race, we ignore all the beautiful destinations which lie throughout the path, where we should have stopped, smiled, enjoyed, relaxed and relished later on."

Sohan said "Madam we think think finishing line of the race is our last days where we are weak, old, irrelevant, waiting to die, and depend on others for everything, while others don't care much for a person who never cared for them."

Finally, after realising our mistake, myself and Sohan got the opportunity to enjoy the beautiful scenery while going back, we even stopped at some points and stood for a while to observe and cherish the mesmerizing beauty of the hills.

I said "Sohan life does not gives us that luxury to go back in time and enjoy all those countless precious moments.Thereforr one should be serious about journey of life.Time and our actions are very important in life."

Are you also confused with finishing line of life.Friends please work on your weak skills and at the same time please always help and care for others who need help

Sukarma Thareja .

Writing Power

I am your amazing skill #writing,

I clarify your logical thinking,

I crystallize your thoughts and feelings,

And put them in #order logical,

When you practice me,

Work on me every day,

I strengthen your #discipline,

And commitments.

I move your thoughts from mind to page,

I make you a popular #identity,

I help you in gaining a new #perspective,

I help you to accept the past and move to the future,

I am #manifestation of state

Of your head and #heart,

I have the power to gradually,

Push you out of your comfort #zone,

I make you #soldier of your #pen

Sukarma Thareja

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