Pillar of Life

I was traveling in metro. I met my brilliant student Radha.

While talking to me she said ”madam I have small daughter who is hyper active and screams a lot when does not get anything she wishes to get. Sometime my mind does not work due to this. Many times I try to handle her raising my voice."

Radha continued” madam sometimes I feel guilty after raising my voice on my child. One day she woke up crying at night and remembered that I scolded her. Madam I always avoid any quarrels with my husband in front of my daughter”.

I said Radha ” scolding and beating a child affects child mentally to a large extent and their parent's quarrelling affects them more. Children have tender mind and soft heart Please nurture your daughter with care. Do not push her aside. Remember Radha your daughter is going to be your strong pillar in your life one day.

I sumarised my advise to my student .

The same I am listing for my respected  readers

How can one be good with kids?

As a parent, if YOU are good, 

the children will learn to be good. 

You are their first #mirror.

1.  Highlight their talent and teach 

them to grow using creative skills. 

    Hyperactivity kids please 

donot suppress them, Channelise them on good way.

2.  Maintain peace and stay

 calm at home, as far as possible. 

    Family peace = Children peace of mind.

3.  Take children out of home to 

different activity centers to explore 

different activities and find 

their interests. 

   

4.  All these issues expressed above

 impact children tender minds. 

    Please keep them away from toxic 

people and toxic fights.

Remember: Your child is not your problem. 

Your child is your pillar for the future. 

Sukarma Thareja

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Role of Luck in Life

 In the co-curricular activity class, I asked my students,” What is your #perception of life. Students came out with many interesting answers. Based on those answers, I wrote a small poem, Perception of Life, and I am listing it below for the kind reference of my  esteemed readers.

Perception of Life

Life is short, friends,

If you lead it #honestly with,

A lot of #creative activities with fun,

You are being true to yourself.

If you are #encountering difficult,

Emotions like anger and fear,

But you can face them,

You are courageous in life,

And if you find true love,

At some stage of your life,

Please hold it tightly,

And keep sweet Memories safely,

They are treasure of your life.

Along with all the above listed facts,

If you also have peace of mind,

Then, friend just understand,

No other person is more,

Lucky than you in life,

And your luck is improving.

Moral of Story-Everyone has problems and #disappointments, and everyone has #opportunities and #bright spots. Concentrate on your good #work, and you will find your #luck is improving.

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Stress reducing Agents

Yesterday is gone,

Tomorrow is yet to come,

We have not seen it,

Today is the best gift of life,

Today is in our hands,

Let us keep doing creative activities,

With the help of stress reducing agents, 

And enjoy the little things in our lives,

Please give time, smile and forgiveness, 

Stress reducing agents abundantly to needy people.

Let us enjoy these best moments of today,

Best moments of today are alms,

Alms are money, food, clothing, or material 

goods donated to deserving people.

Therefore, believe in almsgiving,

Cortisol down and dopamine up -

The stress-reducing agents do.

Sukarma Thareja

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Spiritual Force

 

In today's life of science  and technology, 

Life goes very fast, and creats stress

To reduce same ,

Try creative activities,

 Believe in giving love limitless to others,

 Forgive and forget all grudges.

In the process will be generated #spiritual  force,

 Which will give  peace of mind in life,

And will generate beautiful Peace inside.

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Crafts Man of Nation

 Laborers are spine of the country,

They flow their sweat like pious water in river,

In building strong-determined #nation,

Therefore they are craftsman of nation,

Respect laborers and include them ,

With pride in building chain of nation.

Sukarma Thareja

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Inert Gas vs Life

I used to work for an  IT company. After my marriage, for my IT job, I used to travel to the office, on assignment, five days a week. I was loaded with #deadlines. My salary was #credited every month, and people called me an” independent” woman.

After some time, I was blessed with a child. Raising a child was a big #pleasure for me. I decided to leave my job for a few years to raise my child comfortably.

I used to stay at home. I worked for the husband and family, #cooked for family. I used to decide what my family members should eat, so that they could have control over their health and #happiness. I took care of the children. I also monitored their growth, behavior and education, helped them with study and life problems, and tried my best to build their overall best #personality. I also managed the expenses of the house. I was happy with my# selfless contribution to family,

To my surprise, people around me now call me #“dependent”  woman. I got the impression that people consider this path for women, as something like an act of #slavery. Being a mother and a homemaker, I searched for the dynamics of the same. The fundamental problem here was, people measured ‘being independent’ women with only money,

When I earned money, I was named an” independent” woman.Independeny woman is fancy term. In my opinion, I was not. I was only# financially” independent. After some soul searching, I concluded that, to start with, marriage is all about being interdependent; the husband brings in some value, and the wife brings in some value to make the marriage a beautiful experience for both of them. This ‘value’ need not always be money; It could be time, service, management, comfort, etc.

There is nothing wrong with being a house-husband or housewife, as long as the partner is okay with it. Being” independent” is just one fancy #imaginative term. A family, corporation, or any #ecosystem sustains because the people inside are interdependent. I wish society understood this basic #philosophy and stopped putting labels on women as “independent” or “dependent” women, and respected them for their selfless contributions to family, society and nation and named them as #“national pride.

Moral: Independent  means 'Inert gas' while dependent means 'Life'

Sukarma Thareja

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Homemaker Quote Sukarma Thareja

 The reason the family is in chaos is that the home maker is disrespected, and is being used as an object for all sorts of services by family members.

It is best to avoid the same and family will see that there is so much order of harmony in the family.

Indian Temples Godess signify same and give valuable wisdom to each disciple .

chaos in the family has one root cause: 

The home maker is disrespected and treated as an object for service.

There is less e entropy  and more order  in society.

When the Goddess of the home is honored, not used, 

The family finds its order and harmony.

This is the wisdom our Indian Temples and the Goddess teach every disciple.

Sukarma Thareja

Alumnus IITK 1986

India

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