I was traveling in metro. I met my brilliant student Radha.
While talking to me she said ”madam I have small daughter who is hyper active and screams a lot when does not get anything she wishes to get. Sometime my mind does not work due to this. Many times I try to handle her raising my voice."
Radha continued” madam sometimes I feel guilty after raising my voice on my child. One day she woke up crying at night and remembered that I scolded her. Madam I always avoid any quarrels with my husband in front of my daughter”.
I said Radha ” scolding and beating a child affects child mentally to a large extent and their parent's quarrelling affects them more. Children have tender mind and soft heart Please nurture your daughter with care. Do not push her aside. Remember Radha your daughter is going to be your strong pillar in your life one day.
I sumarised my advise to my student .
The same I am listing for my respected readers
How can one be good with kids?
As a parent, if YOU are good,
the children will learn to be good.
You are their first #mirror.
1. Highlight their talent and teach
them to grow using creative skills.
Hyperactivity kids please
donot suppress them, Channelise them on good way.
2. Maintain peace and stay
calm at home, as far as possible.
Family peace = Children peace of mind.
3. Take children out of home to
different activity centers to explore
different activities and find
their interests.
4. All these issues expressed above
impact children tender minds.
Please keep them away from toxic
people and toxic fights.
Remember: Your child is not your problem.
Your child is your pillar for the future.
Sukarma Thareja
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