Observing and absorbing

 I teach science in Government school.

My student Radha is in habit of noticing the world around her and does not let it affect her deep soul. 

My student Mohan believes in helping people in need but he thinks that it is best to try to be independent and not dependent on other person .

 I say to my students " The problem is when you start believing that others problems are yours to solve, or that you need their approval to feel good. " 

My student Gudu says " Madam it’s easy to take in all the emotions and energy around you with view to help others. You start thinking that if you carry enough, you can fix everything. But in doing so, you start to forget where your own needs end and theirs begin.This is an example of difference between observing and absorbing.Friends do not get absorbed in others problems and forget to observe in your own problems." 

 I further say "Dear students remember: your energy is precious and sacred. Take care of it. You have a big heart, but you don’t need to carry everyone’s problems. It’s okay to set boundaries — not just with others, but with yourself. Know when to step back, protect your space, and let go."

 I further added contentsvin discussion and said"Friends please understand there is difference between want and need.There can be situations where you may want some thing but you may not need them." 

Gita said " It’s okay to desire things — a connection, a dream, a future — but know that you are whole with or without them. "

 I said" Students there’s so much in life, and we should look more into the positive things that happens on us.Please observe positive happening in life rather than absorbing into negative happening in life". 

 I further said "Students as you go through life, learn to observe without taking on everything, love without holding too tightly, and move forward while staying true to yourself. You deserve to live fully, not just to survive." 

 Moral -. Observe, but don’t absorb. To observe means being aware and understanding things without letting them deeply affect you. You can love someone without becoming fully dependent on them. To add, loving someone doesn’t mean your self-worth or happiness has to rely on them being in your life. It’s about valuing them for who they are, without letting their absence make you feel empty. 

 Sukarma Thareja 

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