Sukarma musing

Life like Festival Pious

This life is like a #festival pious

Some wise people hold our #hand,

But in fair of life that bridge of hands gets lost,

One lives life with those sweet memories ,

But with time those sweet memories,

Get entangled in chaos of life,

And life goes on on-'-

For an individual,

Life becomes unique event,

It brings people together around shared passions,

Passion could be artistic,

Cultural or religious.

Life become festival pious.

Life becomes religious Festivals

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Sukarma Thareja

Sukarma Thareja
I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

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📚 My Books:
🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna
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🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
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🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry
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Things to avoid in life

I Used to live in a joint family. There was a lot of fun for the kids, as we had the company of so many cousins brothers and sisters.

Fortunately, my youngest aunt Usha, was a school teacher, the other four aunts were homemakers. As a kid, I used to observe that my four aunts who were homemakers used to make kind #inquiries about Aunt Usha who was teaching in school very often. Example Where is Aunt Usha .?

There was a lot of #anxiety at home when Aunt Usha's friend used to visit our home. I was a kid, I did not understand why Usha Aunty's activities were talked about and chased so critically in the house.As I grew older, I realized that Usha Aunty activities are being chased by other aunts who were makers. I never used to appreciate my other four aunts behavior.

I am an adult now, I understand there is no gain in chasing person x activities. It is better to learn some new #skills from a person whose skills are better than you. Sometimes it is better to spend that chasing time learning new skills.

Moral - It is good to chase the goals of your life. Avoid wasting time chasing people.

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People Who Make Difference in Life

Some of my friends had the myth that persons who have many good #credentials and #money in life will make #difference in their life. Some of my friends used to make great efforts and would go out of their way to please them.

My mother said "It is not true that people with many credentials and a lot of money will always make a difference in your life. They may, or may not. They simply are those who love you, like you and want to see you happy and rising in life. They can be poor, they can be rich."

Moral --love your friends dear and near ones #deeply. Be #generous with yourself, with your #time, with your love. It’s all that matters.

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Litmus Test of Life

Litmus test of life

My grand mother and grand father were great friends to each other

My grandfather was retired teacher.But he has lot of patience and was soft spoken for every one.but he was very sarcastic and short tempered for his wife my dadi. When I was upset with my Dada behavior toward my dadi but could not express my anger toward my Dada.

Now I am adult and now I realise why was his behavior was different for my dadi.why was dadi so patient with his rude behavior.

Simple answer was my dadi was living for family and extended family therefore had developed capacity of being patient.

People who are vocal like my dada and has tendency to control my dadi was actually living for himself not for others.

Both Dada and dadi were walking on same path but on opposite side of path.One path was to help other in real sense of word and other path to help other in order to control others. This is litmus test of life.

Conclusion is those who live for her/him self always spell out things.Sometimes dictate things.Those who live for others just remain quiet and absorbs sufferings.

Moral-Think that living for others (to help them) and living for others (to control them) is walking down different sides of the same path. Just live! And let others do the same for themselves.

Are you a controlling others to gain your ambitions?If yes please think it over.

Validation

We are human beings and in this high-tech world we are changing with time, therefore times we wish to seek #acceptance from others. It is good to get acceptance from a person of integrity, who is sure to give valid #suggestions. Such persons are rare to find.

But sometimes seeking acceptance is similar to people pleasing. Sometimes if you want a favor from x person to create goodwill you give an expensive present. But sometimes you constantly adjust yourself so that you get accepted by person x needs. This type of validation from person x is not good for you. It will make you weak and you will always look for someone else's validation. With this exercise sometimes you lose your #confidence also. The best is to seek your validation and make your #unique path of life."

Another day my student Ram said, "Madam I have a strong fear of not being rejected therefore I always look for my friend's validation ".

I said dear student" Some validation from friends is natural but see to it excessive reliance on external validation can negatively impact your personality. "

Are you also looking for validation from your friend?

Moral -The more you need person x validation, the more people look #down on you.

Keep your self-confidence high. Be careful some people give negative validation to make you look down on people around you.

Life partner Magic

When you have with you,

purpose and mission of life.,

In an empty room.

You can sit like a king,

Happiness come from within,

When you find a life partner,

Who is self-sufficient,

And operates on her own. ,

And you also operate on your own,

Together you become force unbeatable strong.

Who adds value to your mission,

Togethery ou amplify each other’s strengths,

Together you make less serious each other's, weaknesses,

Together you build a path of legacy.

On the energy front.

When you are ambitious driven ,,

and focused,

With the right partner,

You can scale peaks together,

And accelerate your exponential growth.

The big question is,

What happens without a partner,

With you who’s going to celebrate the #victories,

Who’s going to push you,

It's nobody,

But your partner is unique,

When you’re on the brink of giving up?

It’s a lonely path without someone.

A-right partner,

Who truly understands your journey.,

Without partner, who will strategize,

Shoulder the burdens when it gets too heavy,

Remember your partner who is the mirror,

That reflects your strengths.

Magic of the right partner ,

Highlights what is needed for growth,

Helps in #endeavor and highlights #success.

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Mile Stone in Big Fat Rat Race

My student Ram always was very #competitive person since his school days. Getting ahead of others was his favorite goal in life. Finally, he entered one of the top IITs of the nation. He was very happy to get the CSE branch in the good IIT of our country.

The other day I was talking to Ram. He said" Madam I have realized this rat race is no good in the sense someone or another will always be better than me no matter how hard I may try. Now I just #compare that every day I am better than the previous day."

He further said" With the onset of #pandemic I realized that no #milestone is big enough to claim. Therefore I am happy madam" I said" Dear student disadvantage of being in a Rat Race is constant stress. Deadlines competition leads to anxiety which mentally exhausts the person involved in the rat race."

I further said"! happiness is a state of mind. Just count your #blessings Ram and be happy in the present moment. "

I further added" Lack of Work-Life Balance:The pursuit of financial and professional success can leave little time for personal life, hobbies, and relationships. Therfore please do concentrate on work life balance. "

Moral-If you have: the roof over your head, food on your plate, your parents are alive, you don’t have any major disease..etc. Not everyone has these luxuries. There is no #need to be part of the rat race

📚 My Books: 🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj 🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060 💡 Note: If blog doesn't open, use VPN or add ?ncr=1 🙏 Thank you for reading! https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/296645246431

Sukarma musing

Life like Festival Pious

Things to avoid in life

People Who Make Difference in Life

Litmus Test of Life

Validation

Life partner Magic

Mile Stone in Big Fat Rat Race

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