We are human beings and in this high-tech world we are changing with time, therefore times we wish to seek #acceptance from others. It is good to get acceptance from a person of integrity, who is sure to give valid #suggestions. Such persons are rare to find.
But sometimes seeking acceptance is similar to people pleasing. Sometimes if you want a favor from x person to create goodwill you give an expensive present. But sometimes you constantly adjust yourself so that you get accepted by person x needs. This type of validation from person x is not good for you. It will make you weak and you will always look for someone else's validation. With this exercise sometimes you lose your #confidence also. The best is to seek your validation and make your #unique path of life."
Another day my student Ram said, "Madam I have a strong fear of not being rejected therefore I always look for my friend's validation ".
I said dear student" Some validation from friends is natural but see to it excessive reliance on external validation can negatively impact your personality. "
Are you also looking for validation from your friend?
Moral -The more you need person x validation, the more people look #down on you.
Keep your self-confidence high. Be careful some people give negative validation to make you look down on people around you.
Sukarma Thareja
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๐บ๐ธ English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry
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