Litmus Test of Life

 

Litmus test of life

My grand mother and grand father were great friends  to each other 

My grandfather was retired teacher.But he has lot of patience and was soft spoken  for every  one.but he was very sarcastic and short tempered  for his wife my dadi. When I was upset with my Dada behavior  toward my dadi but could not express my anger toward my Dada.

Now I am adult and now I realise why was his behavior  was different  for my dadi.why was dadi so patient with his rude behavior. 

Simple answer was my dadi was living for family and extended family therefore had developed capacity of being patient. 

People who are vocal like my dada and has tendency to control my dadi   was actually living for himself not for others.

Both Dada and dadi were walking on same path but on opposite side of path.One path was to help other in real sense of word and other path  to help other in order to control  others. This is litmus test of life.

Conclusion is those who live for her/him self always spell out things.Sometimes dictate things.Those who live for others just remain quiet and absorbs sufferings.

Moral-Think that living for others (to help them) and living for others (to control them) is walking down different sides of the same path. Just live! And let others do the same for themselves.

Are you a controlling others to gain your ambitions?If yes please  think it over.

Sukarma Thareja
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