Examination Grades and life Experience

 I am a science teacher in a government school. Naresh and Rahul, both my students, were very good in #academics. Fortunately, Naresh and Rahul got 99 percent marks in  12th and got admission in a good #medical college in the city.


Naresh was very good in #social skills. He was always interested in making connections with his seniors, friends and students from other schools. His family background also believed in making bridges in #relationships. His two cousin brothers were reputed doctors of the city. His father was also reputed  lawyer of the city. 


Rahul was different than Naresh. Rahul never concentrated on his social skills. He never believed in making efforts to be in touch with his seniors and childhood friends.


Naresh and Rahul became good doctors in the city. People had a lot of faith in their line of #treatment for sick #patients. Somehow, the people of the city had more faith in Naresh's methodology of treatment of patients.


Doctor Rahul had his unique way of working. Many people in the city also liked his line of treatment. Naresh and Rahul were good friends. Our school is proud of its #alumni, Dr.Naresh and Dr. Rahul.


Rahul and Naresh were good doctors in the city. Dr Naresh was better at balancing the academic achievement and different life experiences he had in his personal and professional life. Dr Naresh was well well-rounded individual; therefore, he was able to contribute more to the well-being of society. He was good at giving leadership in social projects in society.


 It is true methods of working of Dr Naresh and Dr  Rahul are different, but one thing is clear: grades obtained in #examination are not the only measure of values one possesses. Connections, background and practical skills often surpass academic performance. 


Moral-Grades obtained in examination can open doors of opportunities. But how one avails those opportunities is entirely in her/his hands. Her/ his background, value system and skills help him/ her in making unique pathways in life.

Are you also availing opportunities available  at hand in life.?

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Greater than You Inside You

 


I was studying in secondary school. My respected #mathematics teacher was teaching us a topic about #relations. She was training us how to compare numbers involving #decimal extensions. In Mathematics class, she also taught and trained us about Algebra #set theory, Relations and functions- ordered pair and mapping of elements of set A to elements of set B.


With knowledge of mathematics, "relation topic" in my subconscious mind, I had a lovely dream at night. The same I am listing below for my respected readers. 


I asked my teacher," Madam, I wish to know who the persons are #greater than me?"


The teacher said, "No one is greater than you, and even you are not greater than anyone."


I said, "Teacher, how is this possible? ".


The teacher said, "There is no formal mathematics of greater or less than involved that is applicable in this context. You must realize, dear, you are #unique, my child."


"How can I know that? "I asked the teacher.


The teacher said," You are a perfect reflection of #divine, which is inside you."


Teacher further said, "Never let your mind worry you by #comparing  yourself with others, and please neither you care about the opinions of others, that will only be possible if you never #expect anything from anyone."


I said, "I understand, mada, from now on, words, I will stop worrying about what the world around me is thinking and talking about myself. Sometimes people compare me to many individuals. To know the same teacher, I asked you a simple question."


The Teacher said," When this realization is clear, you go out on your beautiful journey of life gracefully".


In the morning, my alarm bell rang, but it had echoes of the word divine-divine,----


I soon realized it was a dream, but, word divine remained at the back of my #mind.


Now I have grown up and understand the meaning of divine, which always remains in me and guides me on the right path.


Moral-Stop worrying about what people around you are talking about you.


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🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
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Revised Are You in Cage


I am a science teacher in a government school. My brilliant student Krishna was always interested in #higher education. One day, I met her at an educational conference. I said, "Krishna, how come you are here teaching in school. You got #scholarship to do Ms degree in a foreign country."


Krishna said," You are right, madam. It so happened, my husband got a study #visa to go abroad, but unfortunately, I could not get a visa, as the authorities turned down my request for the same. That was a bad time for me. I very much wanted to study more, but somehow things were not in my favor. I was not wise either, as I did not have a B plan ready for me. Madam, my in-laws' family is a little orthodox and #traditional. Despite my request to let me go for a computer course, my in-laws did not agree to the same. Their argument was institution for the computer course is far off. I started missing my higher study circle of my college friends. Most of my  female friends near my house had no idea of what they were doing."


I said, "Right, Krishna, if you look at the people in your #circle and you don't get inspired as was the situation with you, you feel you are  in #cage."


Krishna said, "Very right, madam. To avoid that cage, I joined #school teaching nearby my house. My husband will be back in a year or so. I am hoping sincerely that things will improve. If God is with me, I may get the opportunity to go for higher education."


I said," Best wishes, dear Krishna. Have faith in yourself and the Almighty. Things will come in your favor."


Moral - Hard work and positive thinking are key to success. 


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Are you Carrying Your Own Water


I always advise my students and say, " It is OK, you go for extra help in the form of tuition from outside sources of school in difficult school subjects like physics and mathematics. If you are sincere, you will benefit. But if you take this exercise  lightly, it may not be of any help to you."



I further  say," In essence, 'students please carry your water' is a reminder to be resourceful, take initiative, and appreciate the value of what you achieve through your hard work by practicing difficult  and tricky problems of maths by making sincere  efforts."


I further say, " Students, please note, all great persons you meet in your life, please remember they have carried their water at one or other stage of their life. That's why they are so eminent  today."


One day after this educational and meaningful discussion with my students in this regard, I had a lovely dream at night. The same I am listing below for my respected readers.


I am water. Women in the village carry me from far-off places to cook. They know the value of my every drop. Nobody makes any provision for women of the house so that they can get clean water for household use. On top of that, all family members overlook the effort and care done by the woman of the house. Family members take her sincere efforts for granted.


A positive point in this process is very important. A homemaker deeply comes to understand what it takes to be a responsible person.  Since a home homemaker does work herself,  she comes to fully appreciate the value of the water(me) she uses. 


In essence, Madam, this saying "carry your water" is a reminder that true understanding is that every drop of me represents the effort, patience, and care needed to achieve a home maker's goals.


I said," Yes, Mr.Water, what you are saying is one hundred percent  true."


Soon, I realised it was time for me to go to school. I shared this dream with my students and friends in school.


One student said, "Madam, this saying 'carry your water' is so meaningful and carries a lot of weight and deep meaning for students. We must practice the same and build our wonderful  life."


I, as a teacher, am so happy for my students who understood the concept  of self learning through saying "carry your water."




Moral -In essence, this saying, "carry your water,"  is a reminder that true understanding and appreciation come not from observation, but from action. When you take responsibility for your action journey, you learn to cherish the process and value every part of it.


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Coping Up With Your Sufferings

 My student Shashi was a bright child with full of energy. When she was young, sometime in her life, she used to live in a bubble. She believed in fairy #tales, the goodness and honesty of the people around her. When she grew up, the #bubble burst for her. She realized many people around her do not believe in the honesty of life.


Here, Shashi's sufferings started as she found her #wishing things were different. Here her self-inflicted misery started. She was expecting the ideals to overcome actual or needed things or people, or places to be different from what she wished for.


Shashi always asked questions.   Why is there suffering?


I said, " Dear Student, suffering is only and always the result of not accepting the present #moment of your life as it is, of not accepting the current life situation. It's the refusal of any unpleasant #emotions. It's a rejection of reality, the denial of life, and the denial of the natural laws. Suffering is an indication that you are resisting reality."


Shashi asked a question," Madam, how to overcome a present #mess in my life."


I said dear Shashi, "Answer to your question is, there is a solution to be happy in life. Please do not cop out on reality. Do not run away and hide under the covers. Let the hard things in life break you. Let them affect you. Let them change you. Let these hard moments inform you. Let this pain be your teacher. The experiences of your life are trying to tell you something about yourself.  Don't cop out on that.  Lean into it." You will find gradually  you are gradually decreasing your #sufferings."


I further said," Please find meaning in suffering: Some philosophies suggest that suffering can lead to personal growth and a deeper understanding of life."

Shashi's friend Radha said, "Madam to reduce suffering, Shashi must focus on what she can control: Identify areas where she can take action to improve her situation or manage her response to suffering. "


Shashi's friend Kamla said, "The best way to handle suffering is to practice gratitude: Remind yourself of the good things in your life, even amidst suffering."


 Moral -There is a lesson in this wind and storm full of unhappiness. You will learn wisdom if you face it with courage. Therefore, with full honesty, #accept it . Your sufferings will help and make you strong.


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My student Shashi was bright child with full of energy. When she was young sometime in life she used to live in a bubble. She believed in fairy #tales , goodness and honesty of people around her. When she grew up, the #bubble bursted for her. She realized there were many people around her who do not believe in honesty of life.


Here Shashi's sufferings started as she found her #wishing things were different. Here her self inflicted misery start. She was expecting the ideals to overcome actual or needing things or people or places to be different from what she wished for.

Shashi always asked Question.   Why there is suffering?

I said " Dear Student suffering is only and always the result of not accepting the present #moment of your life as it is, of not accepting the current life situation as it is. It's the refusal of any unpleasant #emotions. It's a rejection of reality, the denial of life, and the denial of the natural laws. Suffering is an indication that you are resisting reality.

Shashi asked question" Madam  how to overcome a present #mess in my life."


I said dear Shashi "Answer to your question is, there is solution to be happy in life . Please do not cop out on reality. Do not run away and hide under covers. Let the hard things in life break you. Let them effect you. Let them change you. Let these hard moments inform you. Let this pain be your teacher. The experiences of your life are trying to tell you something about yourself.  Don't cop out on that.  Lean into it. You will find gradually  you are decreasing your #sufferings."


I further said" Please find meaning in suffering: Some philosophies suggest that suffering can lead to personal growth and a deeper understanding of life."

Radha said "Madam to reduce suffering Shashi must focus on what she can control: Identify areas where she can take action to improve her situation or manage her response to suffering. "

Kamla said "The best way to handlr suffering  is to practice gratitude: Remind yourself of the good things in your life, even amidst suffering. 


 Moral -There is lesson in this wind and storm full of unhappiness. You  will learn wisdom if you face it with courage.Therefore with full honesty  #accept it .Your sufferings will decrease.


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Best Least Square Fitting techniques

When I was in secondary school, I was a keen observer of #dynamics of life in my joint family and the dynamics of humans in side my school. My observations used to disturb me sometimes. I was always looking for answers on how to reduce suffering, which I am observing inside my joint family and the family of humans in my surroundings.


From personal loss, personal #grief and experience of joy, I had so many questions in mind. My best mentor was my respected mother. I used to ask her why this particular suffering occurred and how to solve the problem causing suffering in life. Who is creating suffering for humans in the joint family and outside family? I was a close observer of every big and small event surrounding me. My mother used to answer my many queries. But my many crucial questions, my mother used to avoid. I was not happy with my mom for the same


Now  I have grown up. I am the mother of two kids and had the opportunity of getting hard core training in chemistry/theoretical chemistry.


I have many indirect answers to many problems in my life, as chemistry has taught me useful skills. Because it is a science, learning chemistry means learning how to be objective and how to reason and solve problems. Now I have answers to many questions I often asked my dear mother. With all summed up experiences at different phases of my life, I conclude that personal #discovery and #growth in life comes from letting there be room for all of this to happen, that is, room for #grief, for #relief, for #misery, for #joy.


 Being a chemist has positively impacted my ability to handle problems as a person. While chemistry itself is a field of study, the skills and mindset developed through studying it has translated me into being a more effective problem-solver in other areas of life. Like managing the finances of the household and the big school fees of children, when my finances are low, in life.


Training in fitting the potential energy surface of a simple reaction using a mathematical function has given me a big support in managing my day-to-day life difficult operations. Critical thinking and analytical ability developed by solving theoretical chemistry problems have given me the unique confidence to handle the problems that I encounter while teaching my young kids at the primary level. Medicines and drugs needed to overcome simple diseases, cooking extra tasty food by knowledge and training in chemistry/theoretical chemistry, helps me to understand current events, including news about petroleum, product recalls, pollution, the environment, and technological advances.

Best to have a sincere dialogue with the mighty every day. Have sincere faith in him. He always helps us to adjust our grief and our relief, and our joy in mysterious ways in our lives. Sometimes I think God knows best least square fitting method to relieve every problem of our life. I thank  God and my respected #chemistry/theoretical chemistry teachers for giving me the wisdom to use my chemistry/theoretical chemistry training in handling my problems in life.


Moral: Do not get #scared from the grief and miseries of life. They make you strong. It is not possible for you to always have #joy only in your life. Training in chemistry also teaches the same.


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🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
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Learn Secrets of Your Limits

 

I remember when I was in primary school, my mother used to put so many limits on my day-to-day activities. I was an obedient child and was very fond of following the limits #instructed by my mother."


When I joined secondary school, I realized that limits help us to organize in planning our time, energy and other #resources. My mother used to tell me, "My child, when I put  limits that do not do internet surfing too much, this is for your benefit only. The environment has limited resources; therefore, never overuse them. Put a limit on its use."


My mother said," Please do #optimal use of resources. There is an optimal amount of investment needed for everything we do in life. Which is nothing but setting limits. Limits help us #prioritize tasks, allocate time for work, leisure, and rest, and maintain a #balanced lifestyle."


She further added, "My child, we have many people to please daily."

I said, "Mom, it's not a simple task to do so."

My mother said, "To manage all demands  of others and take care of your own needs at the same time, one has to fix reasonable #boundaries on every activity, which means knowing and understanding what your limits are and placing a #value on them."


I further said," Mom, we all face limits in life. Often they are for the things that we wish we could change about our #situation, our abilities or even our relationships."


My mother said," Some common limitations of life include:

 1. Limited time: Our time on this earth is limited and we can't get back time that has already passed. 

2. Limited physical abilities: As we age, our physical abilities and health may decline. 

3. Limited knowledge: There is a vast amount of information and knowledge out there that we will never be able to learn or experience the whole. We can only know a limited amount in our #lifetime."


I said, "Mom, when we drive a car, we put a limit on our driving speed, as the road has #speed limit. We wish to deposit money in a bank. But we have to follow bank orders. As every bank has #money limit, one can deposit."


I further  said, "While writing our exam, we wish that we could be given #infinite time to do so, but every exam has a #time limit."

I further added, "Mom, give me one example from daily life where there is #no value put to limit.


My mom said, "Thinking has no limit, so #think big and #achieve big.

I said, "Mom, these are  #secrets of life. Thanks for #sharing the same with me."


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🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna
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🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
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I remember when I was in primary school my mother used put so many limits on my day to day activities. I was an obedient child and was very fondly following limits #instructed by my mother."


When I joined secondary school  I did realize that limits help us to organize in planning of our time, energy and other #resources. My mother used to tell me "My child when I put  limits that do not do internet surfing too much, this is for your benefit only . Environment has limited resources therefore never over use it. Put limit to its use,"


My mother said" Please do #optimal use of resources . There is an optimal amount of investment needed for everything we do in life. Which is nothing but setting  limits. Limits  helps us #prioritize tasks , allocate time for work, leisure, and rest, and maintain a #balanced life style."


She further added"my child we have many people to please on daily bases."


I said"mom its not a simple task to do so."


My mother said"To manage all demands  of others and take care of your own needs at the same time one has to fix reasonable #boundaries on every activity, means knowing and understanding what your limits are and placing a #value on them."


I further said" mom we all face limits in life. Often they are for the things that we wish we could change about our #situation, our abilities or even our relationships."


My mother said" Some common limitations of life include:

 1. Limited time: Our time on this earth is limited and we can't get back time that has already passed. 

2. Limited physical abilities: As we age, our physical abilities and health may decline. 

3. Limited knowledge: There is a vast amount of information and knowledge out there that we will never be able to learn or experience the whole. We can only know limited in our #lifetime"


I said "mom when we drive a car we put limit on our driving speed' As road has #speed limit. We wish to deposit money in a bank. but we have to follow bank orders. As every bank has #money limit one can deposit."


I further  said"While writing our exam we wish that we should be given #infinite time to do so butevery exam has #time limit."


I further added "Mom give me one example from daily life where there is #no value is put to limit."


My mom said"thinking has no limit, so #think big and, #achieve big.


I said "mom these are  #secrets of life. Thanks for #sharing same with me."


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