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Social Pressure

I am science teacher in government school. My student Manju had six sisters. Manju's family was my next door neighbour. Manju and her sisters were very fond of wearing new #dresses. My neighbour Mrs Gupta(Manjus mother) was also fond of buying dresses for her dear daughters. But some how she was in habit of collecting good dresses for her daughters. She will not let her daughters wear those beautiful dresses.

My neighbour daughters used to #complain to me for wrong doing of their respected mother.

One day I said "Mrs Gupta please let girls enjoy their dresses now. Who knows about their future."

Mrs Gupta had her own reply, she said " Madam at the time of marriage of each daughter we being parents of daughter have to give many beautiful dresses to our daughter and ladies of groom family, thaswhy I am collecting the dresses for same."

Other day I happen to meet Manju in a market. She said "Madam dresses my mother collected for giving me for my wedding are out of fashion now. Therefore all collections of dresses which my mother did are of no use to me."

Social pressures can be positive or negative impact on society.

Social pressure of making aged parents stay with children has positive impacts in society.On the other hand social pressure of dowry custom has negative impact on society.

I realised social pressre can be from peer group, friend and family. It is question of conforming to norms. For some reason if you happen to not conform to norm of a group you will not be accepted in group. Same was happening to Manju's family. Mother was trying her best so that her doings are accepted by society. Somehow Manju and her sisters were not happy with same as they had their own norms which were not acceptable to their mother.Hence a big conflict between mother and daughters due to different social pressures.

Are you also feeling social and peer pressure in some form or other.

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Social pressures can be positive or negative impact on society.

Social pressure of making aged parents stay with children has positive impacts in society.On the other hand social pressure of dowry custom hasnegative impact on society.

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Sukarma Thareja
I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home
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📚 My Books:
🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna
https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
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🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060

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Luck vs Blessings

There are many persons in this world who are not very mature . Their vision is also not vide. Whenever they have dialogue with almighty they ask him for good luck in their life.

On other hand there are mature persons also on this planet. Whenever they have dialogue with almighty they ask him for his valuable blessing in their life.

Moral.- There is difference between luck and bledsings 🙌. Good luck is there for short time in life while blessings remain with person throught out life.

Luck" and "blessings" are often used to describe positive outcomes, but they carry different connotations. Luck is typically viewed as random chance or good fortune, while blessings are often associated with a higher power or divine favor. Some view blessings as the result of positive actions and intentions, while luck is seen as something that simply happens.

Here's a more detailed look at the differences:

Luck:

Source: Often attributed to chance or coincidence.

Cause: Seen as unpredictable and not necessarily linked to personal actions or merit.

Meaning: Good fortune or a favorable outcome due to chance.

Blessings:

Source: Often associated with a divine or spiritual source, such as God, a higher power, or even the universe.

Cause: May be seen as a result of positive actions, prayers, or simply a gift from a higher power.

Meaning: A gift, grace, or favor bestowed upon someone, often undeserved.

In essence:

Luck is like finding a $20 on the street. It's a positive outcome, but it's largely due to chance.

A blessing is like having a friend help you move into a new apartment. While you may have put in effort to find the apartment and prepare for the move, the friend's help is an extra, positive contribution, potentially seen as a blessing.

Ultimately, the distinction between luck and blessings is often a matter of perspective and personal belief. Some people view all positive outcomes as blessings, while others see luck as a separate, more random force.

How is Writing and Rain Correlated

Writing is a skill. Writing in the Rainy season is so much more special and wonderful that it is difficult to put the same experience in words.

Rain drops sliding on the window of the room in the rainy season fill the creator with a new enthusiasm and energy.

No matter how tired the creator may be, if it is raining, then he/she forget his/her tiredness and start writing with new energy.

In the rainy season, Creator's inside child becomes very active, and Creator also becomes like a small child along with the small children of the community.

In the rainy season creator's brain neurons become active, and his/her writing gives pleasant messages as if a child playing with paper boats. Seeing the drizzle of rain, the creator forgets her/his problems, sorrows and pains also. There is a degree increase in his/her creative writing capacity.

Rainy season, sometimes some time get colorful rainbows form in the air. The arrangements of colours in the form of VIBOGYAR, which we studied in physics class in junior classes, start showing magic. It seems that the colors of the creator also start filling him/her from inside.

Rain gives creators a new feeling of freshness, which is a unique experience and difficult to explain in words. New freshness and enthusiasm make the creator happy from within, which he/she can never experience in other seasons of the year.

Common belief is that rain is a season, but according to me, Rain is not a season but a feeling, an emotion that always makes the creator very positive and happy. That is why, for the creator, it is the most valuable time for creation.

The most beautiful rain often gives a gentle feel and smell of wet earth to creators. It's a soft, steady drizzle that creates a delicate mist in the air, making the creator's imagination appear as though it's wet in a soft, glistening veil of soft malmal cloth.

The sound of raindrops in rhythm has a positive effect on the ears. It can also lead to increased focus and productivity by reducing distractions from outdoor activities.

To conclude rainy season is one when the creator waits for it and gets a chance to express his/her feelings with free will and charm.

Creators always wish to express his/her content with a unique angle that many creators have missed. The rainy season is the best time to express the same in the best possible creative way.Do you also write in rainy season and feel difference in emotions.

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An average Person

I am a science teacher in a government school. One student in my class was very much disturbed. He came to me at lunchtime and said, " I am disturbed, madam, as I am an average boy of my class."

I said to my student, "Suppose there are a hundred students in class. Being average means that you are better than 50 students. Suppose you become better than average and #score better marks than 90% of the students in your class. Still, you will find that there are 10 students better than you, and you would again feel #ashamed for being worse than those 10 students of your class."

I further said," There is no end to this #comparison, dear student. I know my friend who is an #IRS, she is not happy because she had a dream of becoming #IAS. I tell my friend, please remember you are better than those candidates who worked hard for #clearing the IRS but could not do so. I always request that it is good to #aspire to go high in goals, but it is not going to pay you anything in life if you are not happy with your #present life."

My student said," Madam, you are right. My father says the same thing, but with a different angle. He always tells me to keep working hard with #consistency, you will surely go up. No task is big or small, but be honest with your work. This attitude will give you satisfaction. It is a unique wealth which many people neither have nor #appreciate the same

I could see a smile on my student's face. I noticed he started remaining happy in his study @circle group. There was much improvement in his #academic performance. "

I, as a teacher, was so so happy for my student, that I could help my student a bit with his life #problems.

Moral - Please find a sense of accomplishment in your right doings, which will give you energy and motivation to work harder and achieve better in the future.Do you also think you are an average person?

Positive Work

I am science teacher in government school. Other day I was talking to my students during lunch break in my school.

I said"In India many people always look for opportunity to #retire from work place or domestic duties. They think this arrangement is going to give them peace and #happiness. I have different point of vew. When you sit #idle in retired life, some times it can be challenging. I know many respected retired persons who are wealthy but still involved in work."

I further said "Please do not get impressed by #YouTube videos where people teach others how to retire in their 40s, 50s, and 60s, among other age ranges. But my question to you (my student) is to think seriously for what purpose one should get retired."

Student said"Madam I have interacted with many retired persons, they wish to contribute to well fare of society but they are not able to find suitable #platform to do so."

I said"Dear student when person gets retired that point in his/her life marks significant life transition.There is transition from full time work to period with involvement in hobbies you love to do ".

I further said " Students you will find what I am saying has logic. Always keep yourself #occupied, this will save you from negative thoughts in life.You become positive and @active in life. Please enjoy beautiful journey of life. It is OK it can be sometimes hard/easy. Always getting involved in positive work take you to different level of energy. Your occupied life help you forget about other negative things in life. Thus, do not stop doing positive activities in any stage of life."

Moral- Enjoy journey of life.Therefore try your level best to do some positive work till last #breath of your life.

Sukarma Thareja

I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home
📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

📚 My Books:
🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna
https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj

🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060

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Bright Woman Challenges

I am a science teacher in a government school.

Kanta was my #bright student. She got married into a good family. After marriage, she did teaching in a local school. Her husband was away for #higher studies. Kanta wanted to join her husband. The only way Kanta could join her husband was to get #scholarship for higher studies. Her school #principal and her in-laws' family were not in favour of the same."

Kanta studied hard, and fortunately, she got a full scholarship from the same university where her husband was studying.

Kanta said, "Madam, I was sure if I convey that I got a scholarship for higher studies to my school friends, then my social life in my school circle will be very #difficult. To avoid the same, I told my school family that I have been admitted to my higher education. But I have been awarded with #half scholarship. Half scholarship money my parents will be paying."

She further said, "Madam, that trick worked like #miracle. Everybody in my school family and my in-laws' family was happy with this arrangement. My social life in my in-laws' family and school family became #good and comfortable. "

I said, " Kanta, I do understand that sometimes woman has to handle challenging situations in life and show their worth #less than what she is to be accepted socially at work workplace and in the family. Hats off to you, dear! For having such good wisdom, and you reducing jealous feelings towards you in your social circle. God bless you in your academic venture. I am proud of you."

I felt ashamed of how #bright women are looked down upon, in some parts of society in our country.Are you helping and encouraging woman folk at your house?

Moral- Always try hard to work for your passion, even if you have to face difficult challenges in life.

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Poor kid Growing

I was the poor kid growing up in below middle class family. My mom used to send me to birthday parties with no present and gift, just so I could eat. I definitely got to a point where I understood and was embarrassed as hell.I said :"Mom I am not going for any borthday party.

In fifth grade, my friend’s mom invited me to sleep over the night before the actual birthday party. When her daughter was in the shower, the mom laid out the toys that she had bought her daughter for her birthday. She let me pick one to wrap and put my name on.

I’m 37 now. I am still grateful to that mom. That one act made such an impact on me.

Now I am teaching in school.I say to my students"If you see someone falling behind, walk beside them. If someone is being ignored, find a way to include him/her. If someone has been knocked down, lift hom/her up. Always remind people of their worth. Be who you needed when you were going through hard times."Are you also helping people at right time in their life.?

Moral -Just one small act of kindness could mean the world to someone.

Sukarma Thareja

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Social Pressure

Luck vs Blessings

How is Writing and Rain Correlated

An average Person

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