Social Pressure

I am science teacher in government  school. My student Manju had six sisters. Manju's family was my next door neighbour. Manju and her sisters were very fond of wearing  new #dresses. My neighbour Mrs Gupta(Manjus mother) was also fond of buying dresses  for her dear daughters. But some how she was in habit of collecting good dresses for her daughters. She will not let her daughters wear those beautiful dresses.

 My neighbour daughters used to #complain to me for wrong doing of their respected mother.

One day I said "Mrs Gupta please let girls enjoy their dresses now. Who knows about their future."

Mrs Gupta had her own reply, she said " Madam at the time of marriage  of each daughter we being parents of daughter have to give many beautiful dresses to our daughter and ladies of groom family, thaswhy I am collecting the dresses for same."

Other day I happen to meet Manju in a market. She said "Madam dresses my mother collected for giving me for my wedding are out of fashion now. Therefore all  collections of dresses which my mother did are of no use to me."

Social pressures can be positive or negative impact on society.

Social pressure of making aged parents stay with children has  positive  impacts in society.On the other hand  social pressure of dowry custom has negative impact on society.

I realised social pressre can be from peer group, friend and family. It is question of conforming to norms. For some reason if you happen to not conform  to norm of a group you will not be accepted  in group. Same was happening to Manju's family. Mother was trying her best so that her doings are accepted  by society. Somehow Manju and her sisters were not happy with same as they had their own norms which were not acceptable to their mother.Hence a big conflict between mother and daughters due to different  social pressures. 

Are you also feeling social and peer pressure  in some form or other.

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Social pressures can be positive or negative impact on society.

Social pressure of making aged parents stay with children has  positive  impacts in society.On the other hand  social pressure of dowry custom hasnegative impact on society.

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