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It helps in overthinking

Keep thinking, and doing nothing throws in the darkness of our own mind.

Writing down things helps dealing with overthinking, and ending up on a conclusion turns it into deep thinking with practical outcomes.

Writing down things do play a vital role in transferring knowledge and wisdom to the next generations. (Just think for a moment, what if our ancestors didn't have crafted things and texts on stones and leather? What if they never had the scriptures?)

The bonus point is, it is the only wealth that increases on sharing. You invest by share something and get more and more in return.

Sukarma Thareja

Sukarma Thareja
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Wise Daughter

Mr and Mrs Gupta are my next door neighbours. They have one daughter Radha. Radha was my brilliant student in my school.

Since childhood, Radha daughter of Mr and Mrs Gupta had one peculiar habit —

About 4–5 days before her birthday, she would start asking,

“Papa and mom, did you buy the gift for my birthday?"

Mr and Mrs Gupta would smile and shake their head, saying no.

Radha would yell in anger.

But on her birthday, when she would get a surprise gift, from her parents her happiness would knew no bounds!

This time, Radha was at her in-laws’ home.

Still, Mr and Mrs Gupta bought a gift and went to her in -laws house, intending to surprise Radha on her birthday.

Quietly, they entered the house .Up to their surprise from inside, they could hear Radha crying, and her husband and mother-in-law arguing loudly.

Mrs Gupta said " Madam my heart sank. Heavy-hearted, we turned around and walked away. Standing on the main road outside, we called Radha through mobile phone and expressed our wish to visit her."

She replied,

“Papa, mom please donot come today . We’re going out for dinner —my parent in laws and my husband are celebrating my birth day .We all are going for dinner outside. After all it’s my birthday today."

I said "Madam Gupta, your daughter Radha , who once seemed so delicate yet stubborn, how much she has changed with time…"

I further said "Mrs Gupta please do not worry about Radha.With time things will improve.These small happenings here and there are little human errors in woman's life which make her strong perfect daughter and daughter in law.You should feel proud of Radha."

Mrs Gupta did not utter a single word but tears rolled down her cheeks.Are you also wise daughter?

Moral - Human emotions change with respect to time.

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Working Hard vs Spending Time Quote Sukarma Thareja

Working hard for your family is important, but spending time with them is even more important. Because children remember your presence, not your wealth.

Are you spending time with your family?

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Truth Power

I am a science teacher in a government school. My student, Govind, is in the habit of not speaking the truth. Many students of his class used to #ignore him for the same.

Once I asked Govind about his different behavior of not speaking the truth. He accepted that, madam, I know sometimes I am at #fault.

I said," Dear Govind, please leave this habit of not speaking the truth. You will soon realize your friends will not #trust you. You will be labelled as a category of not untrustworthy boy. That #tag will go a long way with you."

I further said, "Dear Govind, please understand truth and trust are strong #pillars of a good relationship bridge. If you happen to lose one, the other will fall. Truth and trust go hand in hand with each other. Never think that you can go high in life with #cretches of not speaking the truth."

Govind said," Dear Madam, I realize lying can erode my trust in my group and make it difficult to maintain healthy relationships. "

I said, "Dear Govind, A reputation for dishonesty not speaking the truth can be difficult to repair."

Govind said," Madam, I realised whenever I conceal the truth that leads me to feelings of guilt and shame. "

I said," Dear Govind, you will soon realize concealing the truth can be challenging for effective communication. When one is not being truthful, psychology says this exercise of not speaking the truth can make it harder for a person to express his/her needs and desires, leading to misunderstandings. That person's mind is not clear and is full of fog, going here and there randomly. "

On my advice, Govind changed his behavior of not speaking the truth.

Other students of his class said to me, " Madam, now Govind is a different person altogether. He does not believe in not speaking the truth. He is an entirely #new person. It is fun and joyful talking and working with him. Now we students count Govind among #trustworthy friends."

I, as a teacher, was so happy for my student, Govind. He accepted my # advice, and he is being respected in his peer group.

Are you in habit of concealing facts ?

Moral - Please see that not speaking the truth is not going to take you a long way. Truth allows people to see the world as it is. It has good components and it has bad components. Therefore, not speaking the truth is not going to make us wiser

Truth allows people to see the world as it is. It has good components and it has bad components. Therefore, not speaking the truth is not going to make us wiser.

Social Pressure

I am science teacher in government school. My student Manju had six sisters. Manju's family was my next door neighbour. Manju and her sisters were very fond of wearing new #dresses. My neighbour Mrs Gupta(Manjus mother) was also fond of buying dresses for her dear daughters. But some how she was in habit of collecting good dresses for her daughters. She will not let her daughters wear those beautiful dresses.

My neighbour daughters used to #complain to me for wrong doing of their respected mother.

One day I said "Mrs Gupta please let girls enjoy their dresses now. Who knows about their future."

Mrs Gupta had her own reply, she said " Madam at the time of marriage of each daughter we being parents of daughter have to give many beautiful dresses to our daughter and ladies of groom family, thaswhy I am collecting the dresses for same."

Other day I happen to meet Manju in a market. She said "Madam dresses my mother collected for giving me for my wedding are out of fashion now. Therefore all collections of dresses which my mother did are of no use to me."

Social pressures can be positive or negative impact on society.

Social pressure of making aged parents stay with children has positive impacts in society.On the other hand social pressure of dowry custom has negative impact on society.

I realised social pressre can be from peer group, friend and family. It is question of conforming to norms. For some reason if you happen to not conform to norm of a group you will not be accepted in group. Same was happening to Manju's family. Mother was trying her best so that her doings are accepted by society. Somehow Manju and her sisters were not happy with same as they had their own norms which were not acceptable to their mother.Hence a big conflict between mother and daughters due to different social pressures.

Are you also feeling social and peer pressure in some form or other.

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Social pressures can be positive or negative impact on society.

Social pressure of making aged parents stay with children has positive impacts in society.On the other hand social pressure of dowry custom hasnegative impact on society.

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Luck vs Blessings

There are many persons in this world who are not very mature . Their vision is also not vide. Whenever they have dialogue with almighty they ask him for good luck in their life.

On other hand there are mature persons also on this planet. Whenever they have dialogue with almighty they ask him for his valuable blessing in their life.

Moral.- There is difference between luck and bledsings 🙌. Good luck is there for short time in life while blessings remain with person throught out life.

Luck" and "blessings" are often used to describe positive outcomes, but they carry different connotations. Luck is typically viewed as random chance or good fortune, while blessings are often associated with a higher power or divine favor. Some view blessings as the result of positive actions and intentions, while luck is seen as something that simply happens.

Here's a more detailed look at the differences:

Luck:

Source: Often attributed to chance or coincidence.

Cause: Seen as unpredictable and not necessarily linked to personal actions or merit.

Meaning: Good fortune or a favorable outcome due to chance.

Blessings:

Source: Often associated with a divine or spiritual source, such as God, a higher power, or even the universe.

Cause: May be seen as a result of positive actions, prayers, or simply a gift from a higher power.

Meaning: A gift, grace, or favor bestowed upon someone, often undeserved.

In essence:

Luck is like finding a $20 on the street. It's a positive outcome, but it's largely due to chance.

A blessing is like having a friend help you move into a new apartment. While you may have put in effort to find the apartment and prepare for the move, the friend's help is an extra, positive contribution, potentially seen as a blessing.

Ultimately, the distinction between luck and blessings is often a matter of perspective and personal belief. Some people view all positive outcomes as blessings, while others see luck as a separate, more random force.

How is Writing and Rain Correlated

Writing is a skill. Writing in the Rainy season is so much more special and wonderful that it is difficult to put the same experience in words.

Rain drops sliding on the window of the room in the rainy season fill the creator with a new enthusiasm and energy.

No matter how tired the creator may be, if it is raining, then he/she forget his/her tiredness and start writing with new energy.

In the rainy season, Creator's inside child becomes very active, and Creator also becomes like a small child along with the small children of the community.

In the rainy season creator's brain neurons become active, and his/her writing gives pleasant messages as if a child playing with paper boats. Seeing the drizzle of rain, the creator forgets her/his problems, sorrows and pains also. There is a degree increase in his/her creative writing capacity.

Rainy season, sometimes some time get colorful rainbows form in the air. The arrangements of colours in the form of VIBOGYAR, which we studied in physics class in junior classes, start showing magic. It seems that the colors of the creator also start filling him/her from inside.

Rain gives creators a new feeling of freshness, which is a unique experience and difficult to explain in words. New freshness and enthusiasm make the creator happy from within, which he/she can never experience in other seasons of the year.

Common belief is that rain is a season, but according to me, Rain is not a season but a feeling, an emotion that always makes the creator very positive and happy. That is why, for the creator, it is the most valuable time for creation.

The most beautiful rain often gives a gentle feel and smell of wet earth to creators. It's a soft, steady drizzle that creates a delicate mist in the air, making the creator's imagination appear as though it's wet in a soft, glistening veil of soft malmal cloth.

The sound of raindrops in rhythm has a positive effect on the ears. It can also lead to increased focus and productivity by reducing distractions from outdoor activities.

To conclude rainy season is one when the creator waits for it and gets a chance to express his/her feelings with free will and charm.

Creators always wish to express his/her content with a unique angle that many creators have missed. The rainy season is the best time to express the same in the best possible creative way.Do you also write in rainy season and feel difference in emotions.

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