I am teaching science in government school.I met my student Madhur at bus stop.
Madhur looked confused and said " Madam my parents have fixed my marriage. I am not able to decide what path to follow after marriage.
I said "Dear Madhur you will have two paths to follow after marriage"
1.You can do what your mother did that is care about your previous generations: To be a random character of the story, do what they did, impress your in-laws, and de-prioritize your ambitions, wants and desires.
2. You can take care of your next generation: Focus on yourself as an individual, be the lead character of the story and set a benchmark to your kids.
What you choose makes all the difference.
I further said "To follow 2nd path you have to come out of your comfort zone.It is possible you may not get support from your in laws family. I request you to for go about support from family.Please build your own path and never hesitant to take help when ever needed."
Moral- Family you create is very important. It is good to make efforts for well being of created family. At the same time well being of creator(you) is equally important.
Sukarma Thareja
I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos ๐ธ๐
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My Books:
๐ฎ๐ณ Hindi: Kishor Chetna
https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW
๐บ๐ธ English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
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๐บ๐ธ English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060
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