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When Stuck in Between

I am a science teacher in a government school. My friend Mira teaches mathematics at my school. Her marriage is fixed by her #parents. She is in a state of #anxiety, and at the same time, she looks a bit confused also. She tells me, Madam, where I am and where I #want to be, I have no idea."

I said, "Dear Mira, just #relax, my friend, there is endless,#boundless in between what you are and where you want to be".

Mira said, "Madam, I feel #uncertain between my past and future."She further said, "Madam, there are so many #uncertainties. Will I get a job after marriage? Will I be treated kindly at my in-laws' place? Will I be able to adjust to new circumstances?"

I said, "Dear Mira, please do not try to figure out everything about #future. I advise you to take this moment by moment. And things themselves will get #clear. I agree some things may be #difficult for you. But I am sure many things will be #easier for you. Some way of working at your in-laws' place will make #absolute sense to you, while others may #leave you with lots of questions. Gradually, you will find answers to many #questions."

I further said, "Dear Mira, I assure you from my #experience of life, all your #experiences and anxiety may have #mountains and #valleys. When you add all those in life, they will create a #landscape, where somehow spiritual forces and blessings will make you through with all these #anxieties and everything will fall in the right place. Therefore, my friend please remain positive and stop having anxiety for the same".

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Non- Linear Life

Non-linear life- Relationship Bridges

Relationship bridges involves actions like active listening, handling conflict constructively, and being willing to go beyond your comfort zone to strengthen the bond. This metaphor can also be applied to repairing damaged relationships ("mending bridges") or simply strengthening a connection by showing mutual interest and respect.

In one's # non-linear life path, one forms precious#relationships also. While nurturing these #relationships, these bridges take strong, concrete shape.

Please don't make walls in relationships as the world moves in #circles. Please do not be miser in nurturing these relationships with love, affection and #good intentions. One never knows what you are giving in making #relationships bridges may come back to you in no time in the same format completing

Sukarma Thareja

Alumnus IITK

Quote about Relationship by Sukarma Thareja

Best relationships are made by contribution of patience ,attention and constancy. Even if one factor is contributing less best relationship gets distort and can give unexpected results. Are you observing this simple practice about all three factors while making relationship bridges? If not please observe and appreciate the same.

Sukarma Thareja

Alumnus IIT-K-1986

Indian Black Berries Jamun

It was summer holidays. My school was closed for 15 days. In between, I had to go to school to supervise minor science projects of my students. My # grandchildren Medha, Jay ,Arya and Anaya had come to spend some time with us(grandparents). It was such a # coincidence that one mango tree in my garden was at the last leg of its #mango crop(in full ripe stage). Even my big blue berry(Jamun) had started giving # blueberries. We and our grandchildren used to enjoy natural tree fruits, mango, blueberries, and Jamun every day.

It was Sunday, and my project students also came for#breakfast. I prepared lemon rice with fruit custard. Of course lot of fresh mangoes and blueberries were also on the table, and their fragrance had made a unique atmosphere for breakfast. It so happened that Mr.David-biologist our guest visiting the school for an official assignment, also by chance came to our house. It was breakfast time, and everyone was in a pleasant mood.

Mr. David said, "Madam, your garden blackberries, Jamun, are of very good quality. This Jamun stem wood is very precious. If in a stored water tank, one just puts a piece of a jamun stem water tank will never get fungal infection. Water will remain as fresh as ever."

Mr David further said, "Because of this unique quality of Jamun wood, it is being used in making wooden boats which never get spoiled for years together. For its same quality, it was used in making the bottom of each well made in the village. From a health point of view, Jamun is very useful for eyesight as it contains a lot of vitamin C.

I said, "Sir, you are right. Jamun fruit contains a lot of iron; therefore, it helps one in keeping the hemoglobin level of blood at the right level."

One student said, "Madam, my grandmother used to tell us that Jamun helps diabetic and arthritis patients".

I said, "Students, Jamun helps one in digestion and helps in making loose motion all right."

Students and children picked up clean fallen jamun, and did a lot of photography with my fruit garden tree.

I am no longer living in the same house. But pleasant memories of lovely jamun and mangoes are still with us and our grandchildren.

Moral-Indian Jamun fruit is very delicious, and its seeds are very good for #diabetic patients. Please do rope the Jamun tree in your #garden if possible.

Sukarma Thareja

Joblessness

I teach science in a government school. My students come from various backgrounds. I noticed my student Suman looked# unhappy. I called her and asked the reason for the same. Suman said," Madam, after going from school, I used to do part part-time job in a private #company.Unfortunately, the company closed with in notice of one month. Presently, I am without a part-time job. I am searching for a #new job. Till today, I am not able to fetch a new job."

I said," Dear Suman, I can understand your #concern. Problems are part of life. Please remain with the Almighty. God helps everyone in #difficult time. These problems make one very mature. They teach you to find your own way to face the #difficult situation. These problems, when one faces, make one differentiate between right and #wrong. In other words, problems make one lead a #peaceful and # contented life."

I further said, "Dear Suman, please do not lose your heart, but be #determined in your work and skills. Hindu epic Gita also teaches that the best is to do good #karma and rest you leave it to the Almighty. Karma is very powerful in one's life. The result of one's #karma searches a person the same way as cows calf searches its mother among a hundred cows. Therefore, dear Suman, focus on the process, not on its #fruits. Please always work with good intentions. Problem will automatically get #solved. Time taken to solve problems may be more. Maintain balance in life. Losing a job is not the end of the road. Many new doors of opportunity will open for you. Please remain confident. Involve yourself in fun activities that will give you strength to find a new job."

Moral -Intentions behind one's actions matter in life. Therefore, always keep good thoughts and do good karma in life.

Sukarma Thareja

Do you Have Bend Spine

I had a lot of pain in my lower back. I went to the Doctor to get medicine for my ailment. Dr said," Madam, you have been keeping bad #posture. You don't stand up in right way. You #bend forward and then try to stand. Please do exercise to keep yourself absolutely #straight."

I laughed and at the same time I cried, also at myself. This doctor is the first person in my life who is saying Madam, please #do not bend. I distinctly remember when I got married, my aunt, grandmother, and my mother advised me not to get into arguments with anyone at your # in-laws' house. My granny said, "There is no harm if you have to bend your #uprightness. This #adjusting(bending) nature of a woman helps her a lot in every odd situation."

She further said, "A woman's #bending capacity makes her whole family remain intact. She can get respect in her family. She can nurture her #relationship well."

I said to myself, "How much I have #bent myself from childhood onwards. All my dreams have shattered. In this slow #bending process. I have created so much #vacuum in my life. There is a# big gap between my wanted and unwanted wishes. My mind and my wishes both are #empty."

I further asked myself a big question. Does a woman have a spine or #vertebrate columns? I am confused about what the respected Doctor said.

This little article is dedicated to all# homemakers who #bend their needs, aspirations and #dreams to convert a house into a home and raise a #beautiful family with their hard work and #bending capacity at every front of life.

Sukarma Thareja

Do not Underestimate Mother

I am science teacher in government school. Mothers day was approaching.To celebrate same I asked my students to write on topic"Do Not Underestimate Your Mother".

One student wrote"It was winter time.we were traveling in car from Delhi to Dehra Doon to attend wedding of my cousin.Due to fog it was very difficult for driver to drive car.As of and on fog will settle on screen of our car.Use of viper was not helping to clear water drops from front glass of car.My mother gave small towel to our car driver on which she had spread one pouch of shampoo.She asked him to clean front seat glass and car mirrors with that small towel.Driver did the same.Due to use of shampoo in cleaning car glasses fog never settled on front glass sheet of car.Use of viper also became easy.Our driver was able to drive car smoothly as fog never became problem for him. The whole family was #amazed and ah !moment was experienced by whole family."

Another Student wrote"MY throat was soar.Dose of #antibiotic given by physician was not working.I was making preparations for IIT entrance examination. I was worried for same.My mother helped me by giving me turmeric milk with honey and water #melon seeds and made me eat the same at night before going to bed to sleep.Day by day gradually my throat infection decreased slowly slowly and finally disappeared. I was saved from side effects of strong antibiotics.In my prayers I thanked my mother for timely help and taking care of me so well that I could clear IIT #entrance examination with flying colors."

I pasted both above written pieces by students on notice board of school for benefit of children.

Moral-Mothers are magicians.Never #underestimate their powers.

Sukarma musing

When Stuck in Between

Non- Linear Life

Quote about Relationship by Sukarma Thareja

Indian Black Berries Jamun

Joblessness

Do you Have Bend Spine

Do not Underestimate Mother

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