Time Sprctrum Dimension of Life

 Life is like a dream. Sometimes one faces realities in life that correlate with one's dreams. It is possible to keep one's realities of life in one line, like a spectrum of light. End of reality of one's life is a "very difficult life "best example is the life of home maker managing everything to make home comfortable. 

The other end of the spectrum of life is" easy life" best example is the life of a drunk person. 

Along with the spectrum of life, one gets a chance to peep into many dimensions of life. Some of them, which I happen to peep into, are listed below. 

My friends who is saints, peeping into his life, make me feel that I should donate everything materialistic in life. 

My friend, who is a political leader, peeping into his life makes me feel that whatever I have studied so far is useless

My friend, who is a businessman, peeping into his life, makes me feel that I have earned very little money in my life. 

My friend, who is a scientist, peeing in his life makes me feel that all the evils I have in life are because I have too little knowledge. 

My friend who is an army personnel, peeping into his life, makes me feel that I have made too less sacrifices in my life. 

My good friend, peeping into any person's life, makes me feel I am the happiest person in life.

 

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Sukarma Thareja

Alumnus IITK

India

Visiting Kanpur as traveller

 In my social science classes we have many times read about travelers visiting India from China and Gulf countries. We were very happy to know that how culturally rich is my country that many travelers visited our country.

My brother happen to get admission in IITK. To meet my brother in Kanpur we stayed in small resort in Kanpur.

My brother had many good things to be told to us about Kanpur. As brother was staying in Kanpur he always visited Kanpur city as tourist. He saw Bhaitoor temple near Ganga river very special. He used to admire Kanpur Thiago laddo which we ate many times.

But when we stayed in small restore in Kanpur we were travelers not tourist. We could see fine life of Kanpur. Everywhere tea stall with lot of samosa was pleasant experience. But inspite all humbleness people chewing paan will pitch out peak every where. Kanpur people always exhibited less sense of hygiene.

Vegetables hawkers will not care about keeping vegetables in clean way.

Leather factories of Kanpur will not hesitate to put factory waste in ganga river.

These were observations we as travelers observed in Kanpur. My brother was in IITK, he visited Kanpur city as tourist therefore he could not see fine things of Kanpur life.

Moral of story is when one is exploring outside city it is better to visit as traveler not as tourist. That knowledge makes one more mature and thoughtful. 

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Student Teacher and Researcher

 I was waiting for my bus, to go home from school.As luck would have it I happen to meet three old students of my school at bus stop.I was very happy to meet my students after a long time gap.

Naresh was school teacher,Rakesh was student in college in Delhi ans was working for his B.Sc degree.Mahesh was working as research scientist in govt lab-NPL in Delhi.

I along with my three students went for cup of tea in school canteen.Their was very fruitful discussion among four of us.I am listing salient point of conclusion of discussion below.

Naresh said it is possible for a person to be a good teacher but not a good student or researcher. Being a good teacher requires different skills and abilities than being a good student or researcher.

Rakesh said A good teacher is someone who can effectively communicate information to others, motivate students to learn, and create a positive learning environment. They are also able to adapt their teaching methods to meet the needs of their students.

Mahesh said A good student is someone who is able to learn new information quickly and efficiently, and who is able to apply that information to new situations.They are also able to think critically and solve problems. A good researcher is someone who is able to conduct original research, and who is able to communicate their findings to others. They are also able to think creatively and come up with new ideas.

I concluded the discussion- the skills and abilities required for each of these roles are different, so it is possible for someone to be good at one role but not the others. For example, someone who is a good teacher may not be a good student because they may not be as motivated to learn new information on their own. Similarly, someone who is a good researcher may not be a good teacher because they may not be as good at communicating information to others.

Moral of story is friends It is important to remember that there is no one “right” way to be a teacher, a student, or a researcher. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and it is important to be in a role that plays to ones strengths. 

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Slow Down Mode of Life

 

At one phase of my teaching journey, one of my students asked me, "Madam some sometimes we students are caught in the company of negative people -friends and coworkers, who try to tear down our #dreams. How to handle that peculiar #situation. Please share some experiences if possible".

 I  advised my students, "friends, at that phase of life when nothing is going right in one's life, the best is to be grounded or slow down. Slowing down is a unique form of #meditation. Breathing in and out with gratitude towards the mighty gives one unique strength."

I further said" from my personal experience of life as a woman, home maker and teacher I can say, accepting slow down mode in difficult phase of life is a #conscious choice."

My friend  Asha said, "Spiritual activity like  #pranayam and surya namskar early morning in slow down mode of life makes one's footsteps meet Mother Earth, who gives her energy with #reverence to the person who is in slow down mode."

I further said, "Mother Earth supplies energy and  makes the body and soul of a person slow down mode  #positive and fills one with a lot of fresh #energy."

 Sita said, "Not only does one get #focused on what makes one #happy. But one becomes #fearless and worries less also. A person seeks their biggest commitment in the journey of life. One's mind, body and soul can now fight any negative #battle of life. One can handle a negative personality with a lot of #ease."

I further  said, "Hence, friends opting for  slow down mode at the right time in life journey gives positive energy, which is very #important and sometimes # does miracles in handling #negative  situations of life."

Moral -Never be hesitant to go into slow-down mode at the time of need.

Slow down mode at any phase of life makes one efficient and full of positive energy.

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Alumnus IITK 1986

India

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Sports Teaching

 Sports is not only fitness,

Fitness is small part of sports ,

Sports teaches you how to loose ,

No other activity teaches you so ,

May be working for company  ,

May be working for super house,

May be you are home maker,

You can't afford to loose sports 

sports gives you another,

 Chance even If you loose,

 Sports teaches,

You collaboration ,

Even if it is individual game  ,

You need coach ,

That means collaboration,

Therefore friends,

Educators,

Make sports integral part of

Curriculum.

 Respected woman folks,

You share,

Responsibility of home,

 And work front ,

Please make sports ,

Part of your routine,

 Friends sports will make 

You strong  ,

By giving you ,

Another chance ,

Which will make you ,

Integrated to world,

Even if you loose 

You will have the courage  , 

Even when time ,

 Is not with you .

Sukarma Thareja 

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Please Take out Time

 Take out time for your day to day activities  of life,

This is a promise for successful  life ,

Take out time for doing playing activities in life ,

This is secret to remain young,

Take out time for reading writing activities   ,

This is foundation  to your knowledge.,

Take out time for positive  social activities  ,

This is foundation  to happiness  in life.

Take out time for positive  dreams in life.

This will  make you know  your goals of life,

Take out some time to do free activities in life,

This is music of soul ,

Time of your life is Gold.

Time spent in life creats history,

Coming time in life is uncertain  ,

Present time in life is precious  gift ,

Enjoy and value your present time in life.

Sukarma Thareja 

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Personal Capital vs Social capital

 When I was small my whole family used to visit our village during summer vacation. It was such a great experience visiting out grand parents. Village was very clean and we will go for morning walk in mango tree garden, near by. It was so refreshing to see wheat crops. We were privileged in sense every one recognized that we are grand children of lawyer Kohli. Every one treated us like guest. Which side of village we go we were welcomed with open arms.

It was very pleasant experience for all of us, but since I was very small could never find out why it was so, ie why it was such a rich experience visiting my grandparents.

Now I have grown old, I can analyse that people of my grand parents village were very wise. Every Saturday night village had panchayat and people having any ‘x’ problem was given sympathetic hearing. My grandparents  used to help everyone solve their problems. 

After few years my grand parents started living in US.They will send some fixed amount of money for well fare of their village.Once in two years they will visit their village.They were deeply involved in making their village better. For that my grandparents were  respected  by villagers.

Friends moral of story is that my grand parents village has good amount of social capital, therefore people who had personal capital were happy  and felt proud to live in that village. Same was the reason ie social capital of the village made us- children happy visiting our grand parents village.

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