Sukarma musing

Being selfish

I am teaching science in a government school. I am also in charge of the co-curricular activities of my school.

The other day, Rajesh said, "Madam, what does being selfish mean to us?"

I said, " Selfish people prioritize their own needs and well-being."

Raj said, "Taking care of your own well-being is a healthy practice as it involves self-care."

I said, " Students, we must set boundaries. We must see to this; we do not involve excess concern for ourselves without concern for others. This type of approach will be negative one."

Radha said, "Madam, we must follow a balanced approach. We should take care of our needs so that we get better equipped to help others, rather than simply being selfish ".

My friend Krishna said, " Dear student, knowingly/unknowingly, you evaluate others, whether she /he is being selfish."

Krishna further said, "Student, you often forget that sometimes you are also selfish."

Suresh said, "Thanks, madam, for reminding us of our mistake."

I said, "Dear friends, please rectify your mistakes before pointing to others."

I concluded the discussion and said, " I can spot two types of students who become selfish because of their actions."

I said, "They are

1. Students who show no empathy for others' feelings or suffering.

2. Students who use people to get what they want. They think they are entitled to do so, and do not show gratitude to persons who help them."

I further said, "Students, I request you please do not follow above mentioned actions and avoid being selfish."

Moral - Always work on your skills and use those skills to help people in times of need.

Best is to strike a balance between your own needs and the needs of others.

Sukarma Thareja

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Rich in spirit

I teach science in school government,

I am incharge of activities co-curricular

I carry cotton bag ,

I give food to stray dogs ,

I give seat to deserving ones while tavelling,

I distribute soveineir to people deserving ,

I Donate blood regularly ,

to persons in times of need ,

I feel happy and pass smile to strangers,

i am in habit of blessings,

To domestic help everyday ,

everyday after offering prayers .,

People whisper to each other,

She has a home,
She has lots friends and family,

Who love her very much
she posses No gold,

but many agree,

she is truly "rich in spirit",

She has many things positive ,

Which makes her rich in spirit,

Pl do try out ,

The same.

Sukarma Thareja

Sweetest of All

I have #fruit tree garden in my home backyard. That is my biggest #blessing of life. Taking care of fruit trees is my # stressbuster activity. It is big attraction for my small kids and their friends. My children are equally fond of the fruit tree garden.

If the weather permits, sometimes I take my research group meetings in my fruit tree garden. Serving fresh fruits to my students and researchers is my biggest pleasure. By the way, I can serve my guests #Guava, jamun, mango, #mulberry, #papaya. I am always thankful to my respected #domestic help who helps me in washing and cutting of fruits of my garden. Along with science discussion on various science #projects, it's a lot of fun eating fresh homegrown fruits.

Researchers keep comparing the quality of #sweetness of all #fruits on their plates during #science discussions..Many students feel #fascinated to observe #nest of birds in the garden. Taking rest and eating food in natural surroundings is a unique #experience for many researchers,

One student asked me," Madam, you have been taking care of this beautiful fruit garden . Please comment on the quality of each fruit of your garden."

I said Dear student, "All fruits are very precious to me. They keep me motivated. My fruit tree garden heals me from all emotional problems. But still, I must say nothing is #sweeter than to think #well of others, especially for my children and my dear #students. My fruit tree garden helps me to do so. I am extremely thankful to God for blessing me with such a wonderful gift of #FRUIT TREE GARDEN.

Moral-nothing is #sweeter than to think #well of others.

Sukarma Thareja

Break in Life

In life, we see many types of breaks.

Sometimes we lose hope with different forms of breaks in life. Sometimes our parents, teachers, and well-wishers ask so many questions about our present-day activities. They do give us #suggestions to do so and so activity in a better way. Out of ignorance, we think they are putting a break in our lives. But we forget that difficult conditions in life they #appear as breaks in our day-to-day life.

But think if we see so-called break not in a negative sense but in positive sense as #positive catalyst to our life.

Let us consider these brakes as apparatus which let us take #risk in our life. Breaks sometimes may push us back side also but at the same time, breaks help us go fast in life compared to the past. Breaks help us reach our #goal fast and safely.

Simplest example is breaks in car help driver to reach destination safely and peacefully.

We should be thankful for all #breaks that we face in our lives..

The question is, why should one be thankful for the breaks one faces in life

The answer is when we face hard situations in life that #valuable

Experience equips us to become more strong in life,

Moral- never think of breaks in life as negative activity, rather think of it as positive meaningful activity in life.Breaks in life #promote our life.

Sukarma Thareja

Chaos Order Passion

The other day I met my old student Radha. She said, "I am in chaos, madam. I am surprised, Madam. I get #excited for one activity and do it for five months, and suddenly get #demotivated and gradually leave that activity."

I said, "This happens when you are excited by #external factor. You are not self-motivated. You are in a confused state of mind, and there is no order toward that activity in your mind. In terms of physics, it can be defined as a situation where the behaviors of a system appear random and #unpredictable or chaotic."

I further said, "According to physics, every system that is chaotic in its initial stages has #order underneath it. In real life, also x activity may look good for some time, but one may not like the same activity consistently. If one happens to like the same activity consistently, and there is a sign of #improvement in its performance. Then one is moving from chaos to order. That order shown in x activity is one's passion."

I further added"dear student, to find your #passion, the only thing you do is to compare your activity to yesterday's #version. If you are better than the yesterday version, then you are on #right track. Then you should never give up. This result shows you are gradually moving from chaos to order. The same activity x is your passion."

Moral-If one finds out one's Passion.One should follow the same in life to get best results in life.

Sukarma Thareja

Angiosperms

Flowering Plants-Blessings

I always wish to remain near,

Angiosperms(flowering plants),

Flowers of these plants

Are a blessing to me,

Beautiful natural colors,

Of flowers are so #pleasant,

They are not only treating,

To my eyes, but makes me happy,

When swift wind blows,

In winter through #flowers,

My sharp nose catches,

#Fragrance of flowers,

And take my soul away,

From #ailment many,

Of eyes, heart, nose,

And #heals my #soul.

Whole body gets #relaxed,

To highest degree,

And #happiness and peace,

Brings me near to #God.

Thanks #angiosperms,

Being so kind to me

Moral.- Please do not pluck the flowers of plants. They give peace to planet life.

Sukarma Thareja

Who will save me

I have teen age grand daughter "Asha". Other day Asha Said "Nani, I have steped in class 7 th, I am #facing one or other problem."

She further said "I have been trying to appear for mathematics #Olympiard examination.Some maths questions of area and volume I can handle with ease.Questions of #permutations and combination I am not sure I can handle with that precision compare to other topic like trignometry and Geometry.My swimming activity sometimes is no more pleasure to me. My mood changes and emotionally #hurts me very often.Sometimes my class teacher is expecting that I should do better in creative writing. My mother is of view that sound mathematics background can take you long way."

I said"Yes my granddaughter many happening in life hurt us."

My grand daughter further said" Nani who will come and help me to cross these hurdles of my life. "

I said "sweetheart... it is true that someone will come to save you and get you out of difficulties, but it is no one else but you. "

I further said"Asha when you are struggling, the only person you see is yourself. You are your own hero. I know it sounds harsh, but it's true: You can only save yourself; nobody is coming to rescue you from your problems."

I further added and said " The truth is Asha my sincere advise is please do not sit around and wait for a miracle to come your way in life. Nobody is going to come in and do the work for you. It is no magic trick beta. Taking responsibility for your life and recognizing that you can't depend on others to solve all of your problems is an essential step to achieving success."

Moral - It's important to remember that by putting in sincere effort and taking right action, you can make things happen for yourself in positive direction. With your hard work you are the one who will save yourself!"

Sukarma Thareja

Sukarma musing

Being selfish

Rich in spirit

Sweetest of All

Break in Life

Chaos Order Passion

Angiosperms

Who will save me

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