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Crossings Boundaries in name of kindness

Other day I was talking to my old student Rajesh after attending academic meeting at my school.

Rajesh said" Madam Setting limits on how much time you spend with someone, while still maintaining a positive and respectful connection is fundamental equation of life work balance."

I had a student Bhajan. She was my next door neighbour. Bhajan had younger brother Raju.Unfortunately Bhajan did not have father. Bhajan got #married in good family.

Bhajan's mother gave her due share in form of #gifts and money in bank balance, what she really deserved.

Sometimes Bhajan's mother used to cross her #boundaries of her giving capacity, also to #please Bhajan's in laws.

Bhajan's mother used to say" madam, some how Bhajan's #expectations are increasing. She is not realising , I have to keep enough money to myself so that I could take care of Raju's #education etc."

She further said "Bhajan is taking undue advantage of my #kindness. I can't cross my boundries in name of my kindness. Madam I am sharing my feelings with you.I hope you keep it to yourself."

I at once remembered my friend Ramesh who said "one has to set limit to how much money and time one can spend with person x with whom one wishes to maintain good relationship."

I realized bhajan's mother is in fix about setting limit to spending money and time at Bhajan in law's place.

Though Bhajan's mother was considerate for Bhajan's #feeling, but some how Bhajan was not able to #appreciate the same. On the other hand Bhajan was thinking that her mother was lacking #concern for her needs.

Bhajan was not able to understand that Striking a balance between kindness and #indifference is crucial in life.Her mother is trying to do same. Being nice or kind to daughter does not mean #sacrificing one's own needs or opinions.

Once I met Bhajan at family function I tried to explain same so that she could change her thinking about her mother.

I said " dear Bhajan I understand may be sometimes your mother is declining your request that would significantly impact her workload. You understand your mother has to look after your younger brother also, therefore she some times sets her boindaries towards her finance and time. Please understand her problems and her current commitments."
I was happy my student Bhajan understood her mother's boundaries and maintained amicable relationship with her mother.

Moral:Setting boundaries to x problem in life can reduce stress and anxiety, improving overall mental health.

To save time sometimes one has to say no to social invitations. This saved time can help one recharge and prioritize one's own well-being

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Make Your Life Wave Differentt

I Was teaching trigonometry to XI class. I said "Students life is not always linear. It involves peaks and troughs. You can have ups and downs of success."

One student Raju said" Madam we can compare life wave, to sine wave.

I said, "In Sine wave you see a graph where the axis or horizontal axis represents time illustrating that life progresses sequentially."

Rajesh said, "The vertical axis, or amplitude in the sine curve demonstrates the level of success, happiness, or overall well-being at any given point in time."

Kishan said"Sine curve makes us recognize that every low will eventually be followed by a high. A higher amplitude signifies a greater degree of success or positivity

Arjun said" Madam we understand that cycles of life wave allow us for a more optimistic view of life. If at any time in life we are experiencing a low, we can be assured that a high is on the horizon, and vice versa therefore no need to create panic in life."

I said "Dear students

While life is not always under our control. I request you to take action to minimize the time spent in troughs, maximize the time spent in highs, and ultimately shape the overall trajectory of your life sine curve through your positive attitudes and actions."

I further said "By viewing life through this lens, you can better appreciate the flow of experiences. It teaches us to maintain a positive outlook during challenging times, and actively work to create a more fulfilling and successful journey."

Rakesh further said" Madam when we consider Life is like a wave. It (life)has ups and downs. Every life wave has a spatial character known as wavelength (lambda). Every life wave has time(T) character also."

I said" Dear students

1. If you follow someone's life wave, it is very likely you will drown.

2. If you fight out with other people's life wave, it is very likely your life wave will get tired"

Ramesh said, "Madam both paths mentioned above are not the right path to be followed by our life wave."

Suresh said"Best is to make our life wave with temporal and spatial character. It is very likely our life wave will never get drowned nor we will get tired with our life"

I said, " Students please accept that self-made unique life wave and remain peaceful in life."

I further said, "By viewing life through this special lens explained by me, you can better appreciate the flow of experiences, maintain a positive outlook during challenging times, and actively work to create a more fulfilling and successful journey."

Make your life wave unique by introducing your special parameters in life that make the amplitude of your life wave high.

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🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna

https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry

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🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry

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When I was studying in school, there were so many wonderful teachers. They made sure that we students learn positive traits in life. They

When I was studying in school, there were so many wonderful teachers. They made sure that we students learn positive traits in life. They taught us empathy, patience and communication skills. In short, those teachers used to help us in many ways so that we could move forward in our particular #endeavor. Somehow there were # limitations with every type of teacher, but they did their best to teach best to students.

If I write about my experience as a student, I can put them in three types.

The Leaf Type of Teacher

These teachers teach students for a short time in life because they are #substitute teachers. Due to the small time available to them, they teach whatever is assigned to them. Students are grateful to them for their efforts as they utilize their time by teaching them assigned #subject matter.

The BranchType of Teachers

These teachers are stronger, but they sometimes have to leave when things are not in their hands. #Administration orders they follow. But they remain good with students for whatever time they get to #interact with Students.

The Root type of teacher.

These teachers are very important In student life. They don't need to show off or be noticed. They stay by the student's side when things are hard. They support students and help administration at times of #crises and don’t leave students/school in any situation. Only the Root type of teachers are the best #asset to schools and students.

Moral - leaf, branch and root type of teachers help students. Each type of teacher has /her #limitations and they sustain their type by remaining in their format.

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I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

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🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna

https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry

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🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry

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When I was studying in school, there were so many wonderful teachers. They made sure that we students learn positive traits in life. They

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Three Unique Types of Teachers

Somehow there were # limitations with every type of teacher, but they did their best to teach best to students. If I write about my experience as a student, I can put them in three types.

The Leaf Type of Teacher

The BranchType of Teachers

The Root type of teacher.

Moral - leaf, branch and root type of teachers help students. Each type of teacher has /her #limitations and they sustain their type by remaining in their format.

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🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj 🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060 💡 Note: If blog doesn't open, use VPN or add ?ncr=1 🙏 Thank you for reading! When I was studying in school, there were so many wonderful teachers. They made sure that we students learn positive traits in life. They

Common Between Winner and Loser

One day Winner came to the loser's house. Loser said, "Brother-Winner, how come you manage to win most of the time." The winner said "Brother Loser, I am always involved with activities which #promote my goals. I know what I can get, I work for the same. I avoid working for what I wish. Wishes are different in the sense, that sometimes it is difficult to #realise them. Therefore I make it a point that no situation I am working on is too big for me".

Loser said, "You know Winner we have one number which is common between your and mine #working style."

The winner said "Which number, I do not understand, what you are talking about.

The loser said "Persons who try a thousand times win the game. And become the Winner. Persons who complain a thousand times 'lose the game. And becomes a loser."

Winner said, "Hence number 'thousand' is common and important in the Loser And Winner's life."

Winner and loser both have good and bad experiences in life. The winner learns lessons from bad experiences but the loser somedoesn'ton't learn any lessons from bad experiences.

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Stop Worrying if People Talk at Back

I am a science teacher in a government school

Another day during co-curricular activity class my student Asha came and said "Madam I am disturbed, my friends talk behind my back as I come in public transport to school. All this talk about me behind my back is because all my friends come to school by school bus therefore they think they are #superior to me."

I said" Usha just don't be scared if your friends talk at your back. Coming to school by public transport is a big #challenge. You have to wake up early so that there is enough time to wait for transport, you could catch public transport. It is a positive indicator that you are so disciplined."

Usha said "My friends take it in #negative way. They think Usha is financially weak, therefore she is suffering emotionally and physically."

I said " Usha your friend's thinking is screwed up. Everyone spends money according to one's #priorities. There is no question of being rich or poor."

Usha said "My friends try to impose their way of thinking on me "

I further said"There are many reasons your friends think differently from you. They highlight their #insecurities, fears and doubts. Their talking does not reflect your worth. But Usha take my words, your friends talking behind your back will ultimately fail, in front of your strength, and #determination which are unshakable."

Moral -People who talk behind your back can't define your #destiny. Their criticism can't dull your spark and determination, for you are a shining star, radiant with purpose passion, and potential.

Talking back can build distrust in relationships, creating a negative environment, and hurting the feelings of the person being discussed.

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Sukarma Thareja

Sukarma Thareja
I write to make Science easy through Poetry & Photos 📸📖

🌐 Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home
📝 Blog: https://sukarmathareja.blogspot.com/?ncr=1

📚 My Books:
🇮🇳 Hindi: Kishor Chetna
https://www.amazon.in/dp/B077H5MBSW

🇺🇸 English 1: Making Science Easy - Photo Poetry
https://share.google/Iq6osO6YeHCYvfXYj

🇺🇸 English 2: Science of Life and Nature - Photo Poetry
https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060

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🙏 Thank you for reading!

I am science teacher in government school

Other day during co -curricular actiivity class my student Asha came and said " madam I am disturbed, my friends talk at my back as I come in public transport to school. All this talk about me at my back is because all my friends come to school by school bus therefore they think they are #superior to me."

I said" Usha just don't be scared if your friends talk at your back. Coming to school by public transport is a big #challenge. You have to wake up early so that there is enough time for wait of transport , you could catch public transport. It is positive indicator that you are so disciplined."

Usha said " my friends take it in #negative way. They think Usha is financialy weak, herefore she is suffering emotionally and physically."

I said " Usha your friends thinking is screwed up. Every one spends money according to one's #priorities. There is no question of being rich or poor."

Usha said " my friends try to impose their way of thinking on me "

I further said"There are many reasons your friends think different from you. They highlights their own #insecurities, fears and doubts.Their talking does not reflect your worth. But Usha take my words, your friends talking at your back will ultimately fail, in front of your strength, and #determination which are unshakable."

Moral -People who talk at your back can't define your #destiny. Their criticism can't dull your spark and determination, for you are a shining star, radiant with purpose passion, and potential.

Talking at back can build distrust in relationships, creating a negative environment, and hurting the feelings of the person being discussed.

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How Intelligence and Success are Correlated to Success

I am a science teacher in a government school.

Ram and Shyam my two students were preparing for the joint entrance (JEE) test to engineering degree course. Both had joined famous 'coaching classes' for the same.

Ram was in some aspects better than Shyam in handling problems of Physics. Chemistry and Mathematics. Everyone expected Ram to clear JEE in the first #attempt. Shyam's teachers were not sure if he would make it to clear JEE with flying # colors.

As luck would have it though Ram cleared JEE, but his rank was not so good that he could get the engineering branch of his choice. Ram was not happy about it. So he decided to appear for JEE next year to improve his JEE #rank.

Shyam was also disappointed with his performance in the JEE examination

Shyam said "Madam I wish to appear for JEE next year also. But unfortunately madam I am not that intelligent in #comparison to other students. "

I said "Dear Shyam please go ahead and appear for JEE next year. Please give your hundred percent."

I further said "Dear student intelligence is not directly proportional to #success. There is something much more to it. I will talk to you about those factors sometime later."

Next year Ram and Shyam both cleared JEE with flying colours. I as a teacher was so happy for my both students Ram and Shyam.

Shyam said "Madam this year when I was preparing for JEE, I remembered you so much. Success is not directly #propotional to intelligence."

I said "Dear Shyam other than intelligence, factors which contribute to success are accepting insults due to failure in #positive way, not getting scared of #rejections, and long #painful hours and nights of hard work. You had all of them in your # mindset. Therefore you got such a bright success in JEE. I am happy for that."

I further said "Shyam success is a multifaceted concept, and other factors like personality traits outgoingness, confidence, communication skills, drive, hard work, and social skills can be given a special name in the language of Mathematics 'proportionality constant' also play a significant role.

Moral: Persons who do not care for harassment or insult even when the chances of their success are only one percent, sure to get #success.

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I am a science teacher in government school.

Ram and Shyam my two students were preparing for joint enetrance (JEE) test to engineer degree course. Both had joined famous 'coaching classes' for same.

Ram was in some aspect better than Shyam in handling problems of Physics. Chemistry and Mathematics. Every one expected Ram to clear JEE in first #attempt. For Shyam teachers were not sure if he will make to clear JEE with flying #colours.

As luck would have it though Ram cleared JEE, but his rank was not that good that he could get engineering branch of his choice. Ram was not happy about it. So he decided to appear for JEE next year to improve his JEE #rank.

Shyam was also disappointed with his performance in JEE examination

Shyam said " madam I wish to appear for JEE next year also. But unfortunately madam I am not that intelligent in #comparison to other students. "

I said " dear Shyam please go ahead and appear for JEE next year. Please give your hundred percent."

I further said " dear student intelligence is not directly propotional to #success. There is some thing much more to it. I will talk to you about those fac tors some time later."

Next year Ram and Shyam both cleared JEE with flying colours. I as teacher was so so happy for my both students Ram and Shyam.

Shyam said " madam this year when I was making preparation for JEE, I remembered you so much. Success is not directly #propotional to intelligence."

I said " dear Shyam other than intelligence, factors which contribute to success are accepting insults due to failure in #positive way, not getting scared of #rejections, long #painful hours and nights of hard work. You had all of them in your #mind set.Therfore you got such a bright success in JEE. I am happy for that."

I further said "Shyam success is a multifaceted concept, and other factors like personality traits outgoingness, confidence, communication skills, drive, hard work, and social skills can be given special name in language of Mathematicas propotionality constant also play a significant role.

Moral : Persons who does not care for harassment or insult even when the chances of their success is only one percent, sure to get #success.

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Common Between Winner and Loser

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