I am a retired associate professor of chemistry from India. I have two children daughter and a son. I very humbly wish to share my parenting tips so that all interested parents can benefit from my experiences. I wish to state that when I was teaching in college, I always found myself equivalent to a mother for my students, research scholars and tutors who helped me in teaching and science-related research endeavors lab.
To speak very frankly, I trained myself so much so that I always kept positive sentiments toward students, researchers and my own children, which helped me to become a positive teacher, researcher, administrator and mother. Even I could find some time to spend fruitfully in my home lab(kitchen) and, in a way, could transfer my cooking analytical skills to my children. I remained focused and still, after retirement, I have a passion for science, arts writing. I have published two poetry books to train young minds (Digital link of my books available on Amazon is listed below) so that they can face their complex life in the future.
1.https://www.amazon.in/Science-Life-Nature-Collection-Foreword-ebook/dp/B072Q3DDR7
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B072Q3DDR7;
ASIN: B072Q3DDR7
2.https://www.amazon.com/Making-Science-Easy-Poetry-Collection-ebook/dp/B09777MG33
I am listing my poem "Playing Odd-Rough Palms" below, which illustrates the spirit of parenting
Playing Odd Rough Palms
Don't ask what
"Rough palms." It is just not a designation or a job
It is also not a family income source
These "rough palms" Have flowed right,
With aims and goals bright,
These palms make a path, with fragrance sweet and wide,
They are inquisitive, like "water well" thirsty,
They are capable of bringing, moon to Earth while playing
In odds.
Rough palms act as friends, Mother- Father to the orphan head,
Sometimes when playing in odd,
These palms are no longer there,
But still, it seems, they are always with us.
For one's well fare, these rough๐คฒ palms,
Change many formats, they are neither.
Neither trees nor leaves, they act as manure,
to deserving, while playing the odds.
"Rough palms " are like live painting relations,
Of the teacher who taught,
They are like kites, which can keep one alive,
Whatever the physical format may be,
Or the appearance of these rough palms,
They always do the best on Earth,
Even if they have to play, the odds on sky infinite.
Friends! "Rough palms "are hard,
Working parent woman scientist,
Working in a research lab,
They are also teachers,
Mothers -sisters are great.
Rough palms work tirelessly, solving hidden variables,
Equation of society-life, while at the same time, In their own life,
Playing with the odd, handling different types, and hidden variables.
Sukarma Thareja
Moral -To summarise, I am also listing my 10 value tips for parenting, which I have executed time to time in my life. And still I am passionate about them.
PARENTS
1. should always have a flow of positive energy with clear aims and goals.
2. should be inquisitive in nature and must try to answer each question of the kid.
3. should be thirsty to help children like thirsty "water well".
4. should act as friends to children and be needed.
5. should have many formats to help
They should neither be like trees nor leaves,
They should act as manure for the deserving.
6.behavior with kids should be like teacher taught,
7. should act like kites, which could keep learners' spirits alive and keep them going.
8.parents rough palms should work tirelessly solving the hidden variables of day-to-day life, involved in problems to help kids and the needy.
9. should at the same time be involved in solving Equations of society-life.
Dr Sukarma Rani Thareja,
Sukarma Thareja | Alumnus IITK 1986 | India
Author: Science of Life and Nature: A Photo Poetry Collection
๐ Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1521260060
๐ Website: https://sites.google.com/site/drsukarmaranithareja/home
✉️ e-Mail: sukarma@iitk.ac.in
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